From crush to obsession?

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Thanks for telling me this. I was wondering if old usernames were rejected like mine were.
 
Lou, that is a good question that I don’t have an answer to. I should ask. But I think they would be presented to her or her parents. When my son received a death threat years ago, even the second graders had to sign their names to statements? May this be a state to state thing?

As it goes, she is systematically trying to badmouth my son to anyone who she sees trying to befriend him. Her older brother has also gotten in on the action, as upper classmen my son doesn’t know are targeting him (shoves, trips, elbows).

Funny that you ask if her parents are on the board. No, but she is a very good volleyball player ona highly ranked team. It brings a TON of recognition to the school…recruiting, free publicity. She is already being looked at by college scouts. And yes, the same teacher that supervises homeroom and lunch (periods that she is in) has been lax about keeping an eye out. This teacher is a jerk in so many ways. So if I don’t hear a reply from my homeroom suggestion, then I will tell the admin that my son will be changing homerooms.

Interesting to note that the teachers nearly went on strike. They approved a one year contract, but my son noticed that they seem tense.
 
This is the thing about CAF, particularly in Family Life.
Pot meets kettle here.

Sandy, just ignore the girl. Teach your son that there are always awkward and mean people. Maybe he’ll be sheltered from all that in the Monastery, but no one can wall themselves up away from the world. Coping skills are just that. Help him and take care of him. Everything else is just teen drama/junk.
God bless.
 
I wish it were that easy. We tried that approach. The girl is involving other people and my son’s grades are falling.

Three professionals said this is over and above just “mean people.” Plus he is on the autism spectrum. Sadly, it really doesn’t work that way or have that simple a solution.
 
Right. My point is, only YOU can change behaviors in your own life. You can’t make other people do what you think is best. You can only control your life. Sounds like you’re moving to a better school. That’s great news. If this girl is a s terrible as you say she is, everyone will see her true colors soon enough, without your involvement. Demonstrate the high ground.Good luck.
 
Oh yes, we are doing that. She refuses the sign of Peace at Mass with my son, he gives her the peace symbol. No retributions. We just want out.
 
Oh, and obviously helpmson cope with confusing issues in his life.
 
Oh yes they do. The police has jurisdiction everywhere when it comes to sexual assault.
 
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