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I know someone homeless for 10 years who prayed for a home. They changed their prayer that if it be the will of God, they would be in warm dry safe home.

That is the secret of prayer, we have plans for our life, God may have very different plans. Trust in God.
May God bless you too.

Can you try again for a scholarship?
 
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I know someone homeless for 10 years who prayed for a home. They changed their prayer that if it be the will of God, they would be in warm dry safe home.

That is the secret of prayer, we have plans for our life, God may have very different plans. Trust in God.
May God bless you too.

Can you try again for a scholarship?
Saint Monica prayed and wept for her son Augustine for seventeen years. SEVENTEEN!

She could have despaired after the first 54 days, or the first year, second, third, and who would have blamed her if she had done so? But no, she persevered in prayer and weeping, and God took seventeen years before he brought about Augustine’s conversion. And today, St. Augustine’s writings still very much form the core of Western theological expression.

We will never know for certain in this life why it took God seventeen years to grant the prayer of a woman who, from all we know, was a model of virtue and free of blame. But he did so in his time, and the result was greatness. Today, we cherish St. Monica’s memory for what she did.

Do any of us really have a claim to greater virtue than Saint Monica? Are we really more entitled to speedy delivery from God on deadlines we set?

He knows what we need before we even ask. He wants us to ask, but he also wants us to trust him.
 
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Been going through all your nasty comments attacking me and most of insinuated so many things how i turned GOD into a vending machine, how I made him a transaction, how I shouldn’t ask and expect things to happen in two weeks?? Well, I should expect them to happen. I mean people pray for one/two days and things are flipped around. You all don’t know how long I and my mother have been praying. You all don’t know how I kneel down and always ask for his will be done in our lives. Try and thank him, try and make my life about him and not me. It is said and written in Matthew 7:7 Ask and it will be given to you, seek and you shall find, knock and the door will be opened". And I very well know I can not manipulate God. He died for our sins and for us to be well. Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Personally, I feel hopeless at this moment in life. But guess what I try and force myself to be thankful for the nasty things we go through. Health lives, food, leaking house, the job, the deadly and noisy society we leave in, friends etc. I am not going to pretend that I am well when I am not. I am human, God’s creature who goes through frustrations, emotions, lose hope. And yes i feel GOD has forsaken us. If his only son Jesus cried out with a loud voice that “My God, My God why have you forsaken me” then who am I not to cry out!!? If you all don’t want me on this catholic forum page, ask the administrators to take me off. They say go where your celebrated and loved. And I will go where people are genuine and honest.
 
And I will go where people are genuine and honest.
The core, regular posters are genuine and honest.

I did not grow up as a Catholic, but, converted to the Church in my 30’s. Before that, I spent my teens/twenties in the “Prosperity Gospel” world. Those teachings are not helpful as they do make us expect that God will make us prosperous, healthy, wealthy, happy. This leads to the hopelessness that I hear in your message. The verse you quote in Jeremiah is one of that teachings way of twisting the Scriptures.

God promised us that we will suffer. The greatest Saints suffered poverty, illness, famine, war, pestilence, disease, years when God felt a million miles away. What Christ promised is that He will be with us in suffering, that He will not forsake us, that He will give us a peace that passes all understanding during that suffering.

Christ teaches us Christians a very radical thing, so contrary to what many have been taught, that our suffering is important! That it helps us and others!!

The suffering Psalms are important, as is the book of Job and St Paul’s letters:


The great St Pope John Paul II wrote a beautiful document about suffering, and demonstrated with his own life and death how to suffer with peace and joy, that suffering is part of salvation!. You can read the entire letter at the link below:

http://www.vatican.va/content/john-.../hf_jp-ii_apl_11021984_salvifici-doloris.html

1. Declaring the power of salvific suffering, the Apostle Paul says: “In my flesh I complete what is lacking in Christ’s afflictions for the sake of his body, that is, the Church”(1).

These words seem to be found at the end of the long road that winds through the suffering which forms part of the history of man and which is illuminated by the Word of God. These words have as it were the value of a final discovery, which is accompanied by joy. For this reason Saint Paul writes: “Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake”(2). The joy comes from the discovery of the meaning of suffering, and this discovery, even if it is most personally shared in by Paul of Tarsus who wrote these words, is at the same time valid for others. The Apostle shares his own discovery and rejoices in it because of all those whom it can help—just as it helped him—to understand the salvific meaning of suffering.


There is a wonderful book by Fr Phillipe that saved my life in the time of my deepest poverty, facing homelessness and not able to feed my dog, being cast out of work, and so much more. If you want to private message me your email address, I will give you a gift of the electronic Kindle verson of this book.

 
Psalm 34

18 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
 
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