I suppose that you may be right, that in Catholic colleges, at the daily Masses and in the Catholic religion classes, the question of the morality of artificial birth control is ignored and never mentioned. Could this be for fear of offending those Catholic women who are taking the birth control pill while attending Catholic colleges?
I would presume that if there were a theology class of Marriage and the Family (as opposed to a sociology class), that the issue of birth control, and the study of Theology of the Body would be a significant part of that.
I would not expect that in daily Mass, that birth control would be mentioned more than perhaps once and again as it is not something that comes out of the Gospel and Epistle readings. That would be a sermon instead of a homily. As to Catholic religion classes, or theology classes since most religion classes are taught in high school, not college, where theology is taught, that there are so many areas of theology that I would not presume to see it except in a theology of marriage and family class. And unless the college is making that class mandatory, many if not most students may not take it.
So no, it is not a matter of ABC being ignored; it has no place in most classes. It has a place, but that place is fairly specific.
And no, I sincerely doubt it is a matter of fear of offending women.
Hell fire and brimstone as an approach is popular with some people as a method of obtaining conversion. And for those who propose that method, it often appears that they have the position that it is either hell fire and brimstone, or avoiding the truth. The truth can be spoken of in term other than hell fire and brimstone, without “watering it down”. We sometimes get the impression that Christ primarily spoke in terms of hell fire and brimstone; and that may be partially true when he was confronted by Pharisees and Sadducees; but when he spoke with sinners (other than that crowd), his approach was far, far different. A point that those who want hell fire and brimstone from the pulpit seem to overlook.
IMHO, the most awesome instructions that JP2 ever gave us is Theology of the Body; it is not something that can be unpacked in a sermon or two, or a homily or two. And it for sure is not hell fire and brimstone. As best I can see, it appears to be the biggest factor in young people either considering marriage or entering into it to choose NFP.
As we see more and more of what has been called the “JP2” priests ordained, and more and more of the generations of priests impacted by Charles Currin, we are going to see more people entering into marriage with a far better understanding of covenant, of total giving, and how NFP integrates with that.
Having said that, we are in a world (nation, if you will), which is becoming more and more radicalized by secularism, hedonism, relativism, individualism, rejection of authority, and a few other odds and ends which are antithetical to the Gospel commands and the Magisterium of the Church. I can’t speak to the sociological study, whether it was done well or poorly, and exactly what it showed. However, if 35% of the incoming students were pro NFP (or at least anti ABC), one relevant question would be, how many of them were living on campus; and out of the 35%, how many were engaged in sexual activity outside of marriage by the time they were graduating?
Being engaged in sexual activity outside of marriage is a far greater driving force to use ABC than just about anything one can propose. Another question would be, how many of the 65% incoming freshmen who accepted ABC had been engaged in sexual activity before entering college, as this will be a significant impact on their thinking.
Complex questions do not have simplistic answers. The issue you propose is anything but a simple question. That most certainly does not make it in any way an invalid question, but asking how often at daily Mass the issue of ABC comes up misses most of it.
Another question would be how many of the students attend daily Mass, and how does that correlate to beliefs. We could go on and on, but I think you get the drift.
And don’t misunderstand me; I wish all those kids could take a thorough class on Theology of the Body. Until someone decides that will be mandatory, there won’t be much improvement; and then the question is, should it be a freshman class, when most have not been affected with their peers’ attitudes? Will freshmen have enough maturity to internalize it/ Make it a sophomore course, hoping to catch those who still are not affected? And the questions go on and on…