Iowa Mike;1876224:
Secondly, you must know it is a grave matter i.e. you must realize that by doing this act you will commit a mortal sin.
This is the one that gives everyone so much trouble. Humans have the bad habit of rationalizing every bad thing they do.
I think people tend to make this more complicated that it really is. The Catholic Church is pretty clear on what constitutes a mortal sin e.g., the seven capital sins, the 10 commandments, etc. Murder is murder whether by a gun or by an abortionists knife. Adultery is adultery. People can’t rationalize these things away. They may find it easy to fool those around them but a person will find it difficult to lie to fool themselves. If a person is in doubt or doesn’t understand…they can go to their priest for clarification.
Iowa Mike