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Because this arrangement loses it’s “social beneficence” when applied to an action that is entirely outside the realm of procreation in a way that even an infertile heterosexual marriage is not.

There is no social benefit to an attempt to re-define marriage to fit homosexual acts. For a good account of why this would actually be a social disaster, re-read some of ContegoFides’ arguments.

BTW, are you absolutely sure there is no concept of absolute Justice? 😉
Gay marriage has all the same benefits as hetero marriage (lesbians can even have children) and takes none away from hetero marriage. It is win-win.
 
Because this arrangement loses it’s “social beneficence” when applied to an action that is entirely outside the realm of procreation in a way that even an infertile heterosexual marriage is not.

There is no social benefit to an attempt to re-define marriage to fit homosexual acts.
Yes, it does: all the same benefits as hetero marriage, except that gay men can only adopt (like infertile hetero couples).
 

Let me ask two questions to begin with:
  1. Is EVERY deprivation of a good to be considered “evil” or just SOME?
  2. Will you accept anything as a “good” if it is not in service of your notion of your God’s will? I.e, can the “good” be in service of another believer’s (different faith) notion of his/her god’s will?
  1. Classically speaking, yes. However, not all evils are equivalent.
  2. My “notion” of God’s will is not important. What is important is that all Good proceeds from God; thus, if something is Good then it will be in accord with His will.
God is as real as the sun in the sky, whether or not you choose to recognize His existence. There is not “my god” and “your god,” there is only God, the creator of the Universe, the unchanging first cause. People of different faiths understand God as best as they are able, though they do not possess the fullness of Truth.

However, as I demonstrated above - and which you continue to flippantly disregard without logical analysis - homosexual acts are so disordered that we do not even need God to recognize that they are gravely disordered.
 
In reply to something else above (I forget where) I will say this:

Our country (the USA) should permit all freedoms and promote equal justice and treatment under the law everywhere and in every way that cannot be expressly shown to be contrary to the public good through valid research over wide samples and over significant time. I don’t state this as an absolute, but rather in the spirit of our founding document. Absolutes are meaningless in law. Our country’s laws are based on the principles of the Constitution and the process of legal discourse, enactment, and review established there. I believe that this document stands for and promotes freedom and fair treatment as its two moral pillars. If you would like to say that it actually has two other more important values, please tell me so. I will listen to your reasoning.

But as absolutes? No, in fact we can amend the document anytime we wish.
But do you not know that the founding fathers’ notion of freedom was based on Christian principles? Their notion of freedom is totally alien to your idea of license. The founding fathers would be shocked that the constitution is being twisted to support State recognition of homosexual relationships.

You say there are no absolutes and we can amend the constitution any time we wish. Fine, I propose that we amend the constitution and have it say that homosexual unions are not allowed and homosexual acts are criminal. I know you would oppose me, but WHY? What is your founding principle upon which you make that determination? I assert that your foundational principle is that “freedom” and “choice” are the highest goods. I have shown that if these are the foundational principles, then grave evils will result. Thus, freedom and choice are not the highest goods, and any philosophy that says otherwise must be rejected.

Additionally, you have directly contradicted yourself (a common problem with moral relativists). You state that absolutes are meaningless in law, and in the very next breath say that laws are based on the principles of the constitution, referring to freedom and fair treatment. If these are the “moral pillars” by which we determine laws, then why select them? Why not some other moral standard? Furthermore, why should we adopt YOUR standard for defining these terms? I say that YOUR standards for defining fairness are wrong, but you can give me no reason why.

I have challenged you now three times to give me reasons why I should accept your idea of justice (though I’m not sure what that is, you’ve remained quite vague as I don’t think you even know - other than your personal opinion which I am free to reject). So far, you have failed to answer me, which is no surprise because as a moral relativist you have none.

In fact, I challenge you to define justice at all. You can’t, because you refuse to accept any absolute moral standard by which you can define what is just. If you say “fairness,” then I say define fairness. If you say “freedom,” then I say define freedom - and tell me why you should deny my freedom to marry my dog.

The philosophy of moral relativism is inherently broken - it says “absolutely there are no absolutes,” which is a self-evident paradox. Broken philosophies such as these must be disgarded as the dangerous things they are.
 
Yes, it does: all the same benefits as hetero marriage, except that gay men can only adopt (like infertile hetero couples).
Such arrangements as you suggest deny children of mothers. Marriage has a gender quota to assure parental diversity. 🙂

If for some reason the biological parents cannot (or will not) raise their offspring, the society benefits the most by placing those children with either a) responsible biological family members or b) with an adoptive mother and a father. You have just proposed another alternative, demonstrating (inadvertantly) that one of the prime functions of marriage in society relates to children.

Homosexual couples engage in homosexual acts-- that are inherantly infertile because they lack of both male and female parts. Hetero-sexual couples engage in the reproductive act. That’s what makes marriage, marriage. That’s why the reproductive act is called** “the marital act”.** Homosexuals engage in sexual acts, but they can only engage in the reproductive act–the marital act-- when they find a partner* of the opposite sex. If there are not two people of the opposite sex, then their relationship** is not marriage***.
 
You may have tried to explain that, but your attempts to explain it doesn’t make your point correct. Two people of the opposite sex who raise their offspring together in the committed life-long relationship (formerly known as marriage)** benefits society**. That is not purely a religious statement.
No, it doesn’t. Study after study has shown that the most well adjusted children have a mother and a father - not a mom and a mom or a dad and a dad. Mothers and fathers cannot replace each other.

As we continue to attempt to redefine “marriage” (what you call “formerly known as marriage”), we continue to further erode the family as the basic building block of society. The danger here is not just people of the same sex raising children, but also giving the State the power to define marriage and relationships.
 
Bad marriages cause divorce.
And divorce is facilitated by the State allowing parents to divorce each other upon their whim.

The solution is not to provide for no-fault divorce, but rather to provide counseling to troubled marriages, and to allow divorce only for cause.
 
  1. Classically speaking, yes. However, not all evils are equivalent.
What does “Classically speaking” mean?
  1. My “notion” of God’s will is not important. What is important is that all Good proceeds from God; thus, if something is Good then it will be in accord with His will.
This is a tautology. All it states is “God is good is God”.
God is as real as the sun in the sky, whether or not you choose to recognize His existence. There is not “my god” and “your god,” there is only God, the creator of the Universe, the unchanging first cause. People of different faiths understand God as best as they are able, though they do not possess the fullness of Truth.
I asked if following the precepts of other religious faiths would also, according to your definition, be called “good” in the way that following those of the Christian NT writings would be considered “good.” I am asking you to define “good”. It is extremely important in philosophy and logic to completely and specifically define your terms.
However, as I demonstrated above - and which you continue to flippantly disregard without logical analysis - homosexual acts are so disordered that we do not even need God to recognize that they are gravely disordered.
I am not disregarding anything, flippantly or not. You have shown no “disorder” at all beyond the kind of “disorder” shared with other infertile couples. I consider this only “uncommon” as in “statistically less common than the general population” and find no immoral component in it whatsoever. The same level of “disorder” as red hair.

And there is nothing flippant in what I say here. I am simply disagreeing until you make a stronger case beyond “my God disapproves.”

To say that genitals are primarily for reproduction is a biological generalization. But to pin the morality of said genital use ONLY to that one function is to place a culturo-religious stricture on those body parts as a form of control over behavior–not as a form of “logic” from “Natural Law.” Use of the genitalia–like use of the mouth–may in fact have several valuable purposes. I would no sooner argue that the mouth should only be used for eating and, say, not singing–which has no primary procreative function that I am aware of. Human sexuality and bonding through sexuality is MUCH more complicated than this moral reduction and focus on procreation (which humans took care of LOOOOONNNNNGGGGG before the time of the Jews and then Christians).
 
Gay marriage has all the same benefits as hetero marriage (lesbians can even have children) and takes none away from hetero marriage. It is win-win.
Objectively wrong. Lesbians cannot have children by any act between them. Instead, there must be a man involved - even if he is merely a sperm donor. This act is another objective evil, as it deprives the child of the right to know and be raised by both a mother and a father.

Homosexual “marriage” does take away from real marriages. The concept degrades the family unit in society and gives to the State undue power to define what constitutes marriage.

Not to mention homosexual “marriage” institutionalizes and condones mortal sin.

There’s nothing “win-win” about this issue; it is lose-lose.
 
No, it doesn’t. Study after study has shown that the most well adjusted children have a mother and a father - not a mom and a mom or a dad and a dad. Mothers and fathers cannot replace each other.

As we continue to attempt to redefine “marriage” (what you call “formerly known as marriage”), we continue to further erode the family as the basic building block of society. The danger here is not just people of the same sex raising children, but also giving the State the power to define marriage and relationships.
Studies also show that most child abuse is committed by mothers and fathers.

What is your point?

No one is arguing that hetero marriage should not occur. We are asking that it be expanded to include a some thousands of gay and lesbian couples.
 
And divorce is facilitated by the State allowing parents to divorce each other upon their whim.

The solution is not to provide for no-fault divorce, but rather to provide counseling to troubled marriages, and to allow divorce only for cause.
Counseling is available to all. I have had it and am still married to my first wife. The ease of divorce is not a CAUSE of marital problems. And marital problems are the primary cause of divorce. Otherwise, marriage is the best deal on the planet!!!
 
Objectively wrong. Lesbians cannot have children by any act between them. Instead, there must be a man involved - even if he is merely a sperm donor. This act is another objective evil, as it deprives the child of the right to know and be raised by both a mother and a father.

Homosexual “marriage” does take away from real marriages. The concept degrades the family unit in society and gives to the State undue power to define what constitutes marriage.

Not to mention homosexual “marriage” institutionalizes and condones mortal sin.

There’s nothing “win-win” about this issue; it is lose-lose.
I don’t believe that there is such a thing as a “mortal sin,” and our country’s Constitution was not founded on this idea nor on the fear of “Hell.” Our laws have to have rational bases to be justified.
 
Objectively wrong. Lesbians cannot have children by any act between them. Instead, there must be a man involved - even if he is merely a sperm donor.
True for all infertile couples, and for my father who married (second time) at 75.
This act is another objective evil, as it deprives the child of the right to know and be raised by both a mother and a father.
This is not a “right”; it is simply your “wish” or “expectation.”
Homosexual “marriage” does take away from real marriages. The concept degrades the family unit in society and gives to the State undue power to define what constitutes marriage.
The “concept” can’t “degrade” any real act. And the States already have the power to regulate marriage. They established the law that regulated yours, if you are married. Each state already does this: defines the age of consent, licensing procedures, etc.
 
What does “Classically speaking” mean?
After doing some research online I’m willing to concede that I was improperly vague. My definition of evil is taken from Thomas Acquinas, who of course is Catholic. Aristotle, Plato, and Socrates (from what I can gather) didn’t realy try to define evil as such, other than notions of malicious intent, etc. Thomas Acquinas appears to be the first to have defined evil in general terms. I will stick by it though.
This is a tautology. All it states is “God is good is God”.
I have asserted that all Good proceeds from God. Anything that is good will be in accord with God’s will. I’m not really stating a tautology, as I’m not trying to prove one statement with the second - just showing the flipside of the first assertion made without proof. The real objection here would be that you do not accept God’s existence - but I will be happy to address that if you want.
I asked if following the precepts of other religious faiths would also, according to your definition, be called “good” in the way that following those of the Christian NT writings would be considered “good.” I am asking you to define “good”. It is extremely important in philosophy and logic to completely and specifically define your terms.
Good is anything that is in accord with God’s will. However, even without this full understanding of “good” we can have some understanding from the natural law (what is written on everyone’s hearts) what is “good.” Life is good. Families are good. Food and shelter are good. A beautiful painting is good.
I am not disregarding anything, flippantly or not. You have shown no “disorder” at all beyond the kind of “disorder” shared with other infertile couples. I consider this only “uncommon” as in “statistically less common than the general population” and find no immoral component in it whatsoever. The same level of “disorder” as red hair.
Ironically, I have red hair. 🙂 Hardly, a disorder, though.

Anyway, you do disregard flippantly when you say things like, “I delete everything after Nazi,” or ignore my arguments, or twist my arguments into something they are not.

Also, I have shown disorder in homosexual acts. They are inherently, intrinsically barren. They can never be ordered towards reproduction. In contrast, infertile acts between heterosexual couples are still ordered toward the foundational and obvious nature of sex, which is reproduction - even if children cannot result. Thus, there is a clear distinction between the two.
And there is nothing flippant in what I say here. I am simply disagreeing until you make a stronger case beyond “my God disapproves.”
I have made this case, even without reference to God. You have not addressed it. See above, I won’t repeat myself.
To say that genitals are primarily for reproduction is a biological generalization. But to pin the morality of said genital use ONLY to that one function is to place a culturo-religious stricture on those body parts as a form of control over behavior–not as a form of “logic” from “Natural Law.” Use of the genitalia–like use of the mouth–may in fact have several valuable purposes. I would no sooner argue that the mouth should only be used for eating and, say, not singing–which has no primary procreative function that I am aware of. Human sexuality and bonding through sexuality is MUCH more complicated than this moral reduction and focus on procreation (which humans took care of LOOOOONNNNNGGGGG before the time of the Jews and then Christians).
Indeed, sex is more than for just reproduction. Most fully, sex has two primary purposes that are intertwined and of equal importance - reproduction and union of spouses. When either or both are broken, only bad things result.

Homosexual acts, as inherently barren, are diametrically opposed to reproduction - and thus break one of the two primary purposes of sex. They also break the other purpose, as two people of the same sex cannot really be married and they do not share the sexual complimentarity shared by male and female.

For my purposes, it is sufficient to show only that one is broken.
 
I don’t believe that there is such a thing as a “mortal sin,” and our country’s Constitution was not founded on this idea nor on the fear of “Hell.” Our laws have to have rational bases to be justified.
Then why are you posting to a Catholic forum? Our laws rational basis is based upon the will of the people. Catholics have just as much right to try and have their will reflected in the law as does anyone else. From a Catholic standpoint the more our society legitimizes grevious sin the more souls that are endangered. It is not a act of love to encourage people in their sin.
 
Studies also show that most child abuse is committed by mothers and fathers.

What is your point?

No one is arguing that hetero marriage should not occur. We are asking that it be expanded to include a some thousands of gay and lesbian couples.
Your citation to counter studies are not on point. The point is that children do best when they are raised by a happily married mother and father. Another point is that mothers and fathers are not interchangeable; you deprive a child of something when he/she is raised by two people of the same sex.

You can’t “expand” the definition of marriage. Marriage is, and always has been, between a man and woman - in some cultures sometimes between one man and several women (or visa versa) - but always between the genders.
 
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You may have tried to explain that, but your attempts to explain it doesn’t make your point correct. Two people of the opposite sex who raise their offspring together in the committed life-long relationship (formerly known as marriage)* benefits society***. That is not purely a religious statement.

No, it doesn’t. Study after study has shown that the most well adjusted children have a mother and a father - not a mom and a mom or a dad and a dad. Mothers and fathers cannot replace each other.

As we continue to attempt to redefine “marriage” (what you call “formerly known as marriage”), we continue to further erode the family as the basic building block of society. The danger here is not just people of the same sex raising children, but also giving the State the power to define marriage and relationships.

Read my posts more carefully. 🙂 I call it “formerly known as marriage” because the “life-long” part in society’s definition changes with the advent no-fault divorce. You and I on the same side in this debate.
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Counseling is available to all. I have had it and am still married to my first wife. The ease of divorce is not a CAUSE of marital problems. And marital problems are the primary cause of divorce. Otherwise, marriage is the best deal on the planet!!!
Glad to hear it. 🙂

I agree that the ease of divorce is not the cause of marital problems. However, the ease of divorce facilitates divorce when it is not necessary - and should be avoided because of the grave evils visited upon children as a result.

It’s much like guns and murder. Guns do not cause murder. However, they facilitate it.
 
I don’t believe that there is such a thing as a “mortal sin,” and our country’s Constitution was not founded on this idea nor on the fear of “Hell.” Our laws have to have rational bases to be justified.
Those rational bases are Christian ethics. Go look it up, there’s plenty of material to show that.

Also, Hell is not the only reason to avoid homosexual acts or public support for moral evils. We see it every time with the decay of great societies - it always start with moral disintegration from within. Usually based on the idea that people should have the license to do whatever they want.

You have yet to answer my challenge, issued above. Define justice. If you refuse, then tell me why YOUR idea of fairness and freedom in the constitution should be accepted. Also if you refuse, then tell me why anyone should listen to what you think is just.
 
True for all infertile couples, and for my father who married (second time) at 75.

This is not a “right”; it is simply your “wish” or “expectation.”

The “concept” can’t “degrade” any real act. And the States already have the power to regulate marriage. They established the law that regulated yours, if you are married. Each state already does this: defines the age of consent, licensing procedures, etc.
The right of a child to have a father and a mother is no more a “wish” or “expectation” than your asserted right for homosexual people to marry. At least my asserted right maximizes the good of the child, as shown by objective studies (which you can look up).

States regulate marriage, but they do not define it.

You still have not provided an answer why you have any reason that I should not marry my dog. Who are you to deny me this right in fairness and freedom? On what basis do you argue I should not do so? It doesn’t hurt anyone. Marrying my dog doesn’t hurt your marriage.
 
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