Gay "marriage" question for CATHOLICS

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Again, nice diversion. Let’s stick to the Catholic part.

“It might be asked how a law can be contrary to the common good if it does not impose any particular kind of behaviour, but simply gives legal recognition to a de facto reality which does not seem to cause injustice to anyone. In this area, one needs first to reflect on the difference between homosexual behaviour as a private phenomenon and the same behaviour as a relationship in society, foreseen and approved by the law, to the point where it becomes one of the institutions in the legal structure. This second phenomenon is not only more serious, but also assumes a more wide-reaching and profound influence, and would result in changes to the entire organization of society, contrary to the common good. Civil laws are structuring principles of man’s life in society, for good or for ill. They “play a very important and sometimes decisive role in influencing patterns of thought and behaviour”.(14) Lifestyles and the underlying presuppositions these express not only externally shape the life of society, but also tend to modify the younger generation’s perception and evaluation of forms of behaviour. Legal recognition of homosexual unions would obscure certain basic moral values and cause a devaluation of the institution of marriage.”

Peace,
Ed
 
Once again Bill, your statements are not making sense. Voters aren’t all Catholics, right? So for all the pagan/freethinker/nontheist voters who want to impose their beliefs on us - what about them?

You’re not thinking this through.

Peace,
Ed
Reducing the government’s role in marriage to recognizing contracts rather than defining it does not impose anything; it actually reduces imposition of anyone’s beliefs about the institution on anyone else. Trying to prohibit homosexual unions does impose my belief that they are wrong on the people who want them.
 
What about them and what does it have to do with the topic?
Everybody - pagan,atheist,freethinker, universal unitarian has a belief system. ALL belief systems have an impact on how each of those groups decide what is right or wrong for them. Put them in the voting booth and they will vote to impose what they believe on everybody else.

I don’t see why you don’t get that.

Peace,
Ed
 
No, we cannot. I know of no responsibilities involved in gay marriage. None. It’s just like having a roommate except for the sex. You go to work, come home, have sex, or not, and go to sleep. And repeat.
And comfort your spouse when distressed, and nurse them when they are ill, and be faithful to them, respect and love them and any children you have. You build a home together, a life together, are responsible for one another’s debt… These are the same responsibilities heterosexual couples have.
 
Then basically you just never answered the question about what our law is based on either.

Let me make it easy for you: all law is based, fundamentally, on moral concerns…
Rly? You don’;t think we are a bit off-topic? Fine:

Our law is based in the Constitution of the United States. The intent of the framers can be seen in their writings. Some of those particularly concerning the issue of religion and the state, the first one supports my priginal description of the basis of law in this country:

Thomas Jefferson:

The legitimate powers of government extend to such acts only as are injurious to others. But it does me no injury to my neighbor to say there are twenty gods or no god. It neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg. (Dumas Malon, Jefferson The President: First Term 1801-1805. Boston: Little Brown and Company, 1970, p. 191)

from his 1802 letter to the Danbury Baptists:

Believing with you that religion is a matter which lies solely between Man & his God, that he owes account to none other for his faith or his worship, that the legitimate powers of government reach actions only, & not opinions, I contemplate with sovereign reverence that act of the whole American people which declared that their legislature should “make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof,” **thus building a wall of separation between Church & State. **Adhering to this expression of the supreme will of the nation in behalf of the rights of conscience, I shall see with sincere satisfaction the progress of those sentiments which tend to restore to man all his natural rights, convinced he has no natural right in opposition to his social duties.

John Adams:

The United States of America have exhibited, perhaps, the first example of governments erected on the simple principles of nature; and if men are now sufficiently enlightened to disabuse themselves of artifice, imposture, hypocrisy, and superstition, they will consider this event as an era in their history. Although the detail of the formation of the American governments is at present little known or regarded either in Europe or in America, it may hereafter become an object of curiosity. It will never be pretended that any persons employed in that service had interviews with the gods, or were in any degree under the influence of Heaven, more than those at work upon ships or houses, or laboring in merchandise or agriculture; it will forever be acknowledged that these governments were contrived merely by the use of reason and the senses…

Unembarrassed by attachments to noble families, hereditary lines and successions, or any considerations of royal blood, even the pious mystery of holy oil had no more influence than that other of holy water: the people universally were too enlightened to be imposed on by artifice; and their leaders, or more properly followers, were men of too much honour to attempt it. Thirteen governments thus founded on the natural authority of the people alone, without a pretence of miracle or mystery, which are destined to spread over the northern part of that whole quarter of the globe, are a great point gained in favour of the rights of mankind.
– “A Defense of the Constitutions of Government of the United States of America” (1787-88)

There are more. But I believe more belabors the point that the law is founded on protecting the freedoms of men guaranteed by the Constitution and in no way based on religious teachings. The Founders intended to build a wall between relion and civil law.

People should vote their conscience. I certainly do. But we will be bound by the rule of law because our Founding Fathers determinedly set out to create that situation and did:

When a religion is good, I conceive it will support itself; and when it does not support itself, and God does not take care to support it so that its professors are obliged to call for help of the civil power, 'tis a sign, I apprehend, of its being a bad one.
  • Benjamin Franklin: in letter to Richard Price, October 9, 1780
History, I believe, furnishes no example of a priest-ridden people maintaining a free civil government. This marks the lowest grade of ignorance of which their civil as well as religious leaders will always avail themselves for their own purposes.
– President Thomas Jefferson: in letter to Alexander von Humboldt, December 6, 1813
I am not necessarily agreeing with them, but simply showing that this was their mind-set and the result is the Constitution and the rulings of Courts based on their beliefs. From this we derive our law.
 
Reducing the government’s role in marriage to recognizing contracts rather than defining it does not impose anything; it actually reduces imposition of anyone’s beliefs about the institution on anyone else. .
I agree.
 
Everybody - pagan,atheist,freethinker, universal unitarian has a belief system. ALL belief systems have an impact on how each of those groups decide what is right or wrong for them. Put them in the voting booth and they will vote to impose what they believe on everybody else.

I don’t see why you don’t get that.

Peace,
Ed
Again, what does it have to do with the topic of how a Catholic can morally support gay marriage?
 
Rly? You don’;t think we are a bit off-topic? Fine:

Our law is based in the Constitution of the United States. The intent of the framers can be seen in their writings. Some of those particularly concerning the issue of religion and the state, the first one supports my priginal description of the basis of law in this country:
Yes, yes, specific laws have specific motivations, and the constitution is a specific law. Doesn’t change the nature of law as a general thing. Whatever the reasons whoever used to come up with whatever our current laws, constitution or otherwise, are, those laws are still based in moral ideas. Even the idea that law cannot restrict non-harmful activity is a moral idea. Law can contradict morality, and law which does, by saying something which does not exist does or similar, is bad law.

The details are off topic, this general idea is at least closely related. We cannot discuss the moral implications of law if we don’t know how law relates to morality. The only reason why I said anything at all are because of your previous comments trying to separate law and morality despite the fact that they are fundamentally inseparable. (For example, those along the lines that killing off Catholic adoption agencies was morally neutral. It wasn’t. It was bad law being enforced, which is bad.)
 
The details are off topic, this general idea is at least closely related. We cannot discuss the moral implications of law if we don’t know how law relates to morality. The only reason why I said anything at all are because of your previous comments trying to separate law and morality despite the fact that they are fundamentally inseparable.
But I don’t think they are and neither did the framers of the Constitution.
(For example, those along the lines that killing off Catholic adoption agencies was morally neutral. )
Again, we disagree.
 
Law and religion are inseparable:

George Washington - 1796

“Of all the dispositions and habits which lead to political prosperity, religion and morality are indispensable supports. In vain would that man claim the tribute of patriotism, who should labor to subvert these great pillars of human happiness, these firmest props of the duties of men and citizens. The mere politician, equally with the pious man, ought to respect and to cherish them. A volume could not trace all their connections with private and public felicity. Let it simply be asked: Where is the security for property, for reputation, for life, if the sense of religious obligation desert the oaths which are the instruments of investigation in courts of justice ? And let us with caution indulge the supposition that morality can be maintained without religion. Whatever may be conceded to the influence of refined education on minds of peculiar structure, reason and experience both forbid us to expect that national morality can prevail in exclusion of religious principle.”

The Separation of Church and State is a myth:

catholicleague.org/myths-about-church-state-separation/

Peace,
Ed
 
The Catholic answer is based on biology, natural law and Divine Revelation and is unchangeable regarding marriage.

There is no such thing as gay marriage. It does not exist. And where legal recognition of some type of gay relationship exists that is called a union or marriage, the Church tells us:

"III. ARGUMENTS FROM REASON AGAINST LEGAL
RECOGNITION OF HOMOSEXUAL UNIONS

"6. To understand why it is necessary to oppose legal recognition of homosexual unions, ethical considerations of different orders need to be taken into consideration.

"From the order of right reason

“The scope of the civil law is certainly more limited than that of the moral law,(11) but civil law cannot contradict right reason without losing its binding force on conscience.(12) Every humanly-created law is legitimate insofar as it is consistent with the natural moral law, recognized by right reason, and insofar as it respects the inalienable rights of every person.(13) Laws in favour of homosexual unions are contrary to right reason because they confer legal guarantees, analogous to those granted to marriage, to unions between persons of the same sex. Given the values at stake in this question, the State could not grant legal standing to such unions without failing in its duty to promote and defend marriage as an institution essential to the common good.”

Peace,
Ed
 
The Catholic answer is based on biology, natural law and Divine Revelation and is unchangeable regarding marriage.

There is no such thing as gay marriage. It does not exist. And where legal recognition of some type of gay relationship exists that is called a union or marriage, the Church tells us:

"III. ARGUMENTS FROM REASON AGAINST LEGAL
RECOGNITION OF HOMOSEXUAL UNIONS

"6. To understand why it is necessary to oppose legal recognition of homosexual unions, ethical considerations of different orders need to be taken into consideration.

"From the order of right reason

“The scope of the civil law is certainly more limited than that of the moral law,(11) but civil law cannot contradict right reason without losing its binding force on conscience.(12) Every humanly-created law is legitimate insofar as it is consistent with the natural moral law, recognized by right reason, and insofar as it respects the inalienable rights of every person.(13) Laws in favour of homosexual unions are contrary to right reason because they confer legal guarantees, analogous to those granted to marriage, to unions between persons of the same sex. Given the values at stake in this question, the State could not grant legal standing to such unions without failing in its duty to promote and defend marriage as an institution essential to the common good.”

Peace,
Ed
Since we are not arguing in favor of legally recognizing homosexual unions as marriage, this is irrelevant to the discussion.
 
But I don’t think they are and neither did the framers of the Constitution.
This isn’t a matter of opinion, it’s extremely clear fact which has been explained again and again. The framers of the constitution certainly did not disagree with the fact that law must be morally sound, or they would not have spent so much time justifying breaking off from England a few years earlier in the first place. None of what you posted before even hints that they thought that morality and law were separate. The one you made red only said that they won’t pretend their government has divine guidance, but does not say that they won’t try to build moral principals into law.

The founders were very wary of the law saying that it is perfect because it had direct divine inspiration, which would (assuming it was wrong, which it would almost certainly be) essentially excuse any action by the government and make it non-reproachable. They were not wary of trying to make law based on morality. Otherwise there would be no bill of rights - all of that stuff is to try to keep the government from violating basic rights, because violating basic rights is wrong.

Once again: All “ought” or “should” statements are moral statements. To say the law should do something is a moral statement. To say the law should not do something is a moral statement.

You can make no value statement about law that is not a moral statement.

If your position is that you cannot make value statements about law, then you have no reason either to support to be against creating legalized gay “marriage”. If you did have such a reason, then it’d be a “should” statement.
 
. It is in the interest of justice that we must vigorously separate Church and state.
We have separation of church and state. We have no state church, period. That separation does NOT mean that a) religious reasons are no good outside church, b0 the moral reasoning of the faithless is to be privileged over that of the faithful. or b) the law is indifferent to morality.

The law may allow, say five years from now, that the organs of children with low IQs (-who for that reason do not cross the threshold from human being to person) may be harvested and given to children who are also persons and whose health should prove of greater benefit to society. This may become the law. Or it may become legal to use prisoners for medical experiments without their consent, or even their knowledge in some cases. But it would be wrong. Seeing that, some may fight to overturn such laws. If they succeed, it will be a good thing to see such laws repealed. To say they are merely laws and that there is no place for moral judgment in either their passage or repeal is to misunderstand moral reasoning. Heck, as the great philosopher of science (and non-believer) Karl Popper used to say, “Science presupposes ethics.” Law does too.
 
The only reason why I said anything at all are because of your previous comments trying to separate law and morality despite the fact that they are fundamentally inseparable.
Okay, so here we have our point of disagreement. I assert law in the US is essentially morally neutral and is based on protecting the rights of the citizen. You believe otherwise as you state below:
This isn’t a matter of opinion, it’s extremely clear fact which has been explained again and again. The framers of the constitution certainly did not disagree with the fact that law must be morally sound, or they would not have spent so much time justifying breaking off from England a few years earlier in the first place. None of what you posted before even hints that they thought that morality and law were separate. The one you made red only said that they won’t pretend their government has divine guidance, but does not say that they won’t try to build moral principals into law.

The founders were very wary of the law saying that it is perfect because it had direct divine inspiration, which would (assuming it was wrong, which it would almost certainly be) essentially excuse any action by the government and make it non-reproachable. They were not wary of trying to make law based on morality. Otherwise there would be no bill of rights - all of that stuff is to try to keep the government from violating basic rights, because violating basic rights is wrong.

Once again: All “ought” or “should” statements are moral statements.
*That tree ought to be producing more fruit, I wonder if it’s not getting enough water?

You should see this movie, Elmo, it’s fantastic! *

So, not all ought or should statements have moral content.
**To say the law should do something is a moral statement. To say the law should not do something is a moral statement. **
But the law itself is not moral, it is factual. It describes actions necessary or forbidden and consequences of the actions. It defines things essential to itself, like “person” or “consent” or “citizen.” The law is created around individuals and their welfare. It is not based on things being “right” or “wrong” but simply defines what is legal, illegal, required or forbidden. Law has no moral content,* per se*. Not in the US.

You can make no value statement about law that is not a moral statement.

*Law that is too vague invites abuse and is difficult to enforce.
*
If your position is that you cannot make value statements about law, then you have no reason either to support to be against creating legalized gay “marriage”. If you did have such a reason, then it’d be a “should” statement.
But my reasons, as a person and an individual, for supporting or objecting to a law can be about my own personal morality. This doesn’t imbue the law with morality, however. There is no objective reason to bar persons of the same sex from participating in civil marriage. The objections are purely moralistic, and relative due to not all persons sharing the same moral imperatives on this topic.
 
. To say they are merely laws and that there is no place for moral judgment in either their passage or repeal is to misunderstand moral reasoning. .
But I didn’t say that. On the contrary, I have always insisted that the objections to gay marriage are subjective and oral instead of objective. What I am saying is that laws, themselves, are morally neutral. We often bring our own moral judgement to them when we vote or support or object.
 
Alright, I’m going to respond to most of what you said, but it’ll be the last part that’s most important. Some of the beginning stuff is probably purely semantic disagreement, but the stuff at the end is… not.
*That tree ought to be producing more fruit, I wonder if it’s not getting enough water?

You should see this movie, Elmo, it’s fantastic! *

So, not all ought or should statements have moral content.
Alright, fair enough, I wasn’t specific enough - neither of those statements are what I meant by “ought/should statement”. The first is a statement that things are not as you expect. The second is advice using the language of duty even when no duty is implied.

Let me restate: any statement that a thing should be a certain way, where should is taken to mean that if things are not that way people have some sort of duty to make them so, is a moral statement. Any time you tell me I should do something and actually mean it - mean that I have any sort of obligation at all to do so - you are making a moral statement.

Or to put it another way, the only duty is a moral duty.

(If we generalized one step further out: All questions are theological questions.)
But the law itself is not moral, it is factual. It describes actions necessary or forbidden and consequences of the actions. It defines things essential to itself, like “person” or “consent” or “citizen.” The law is created around individuals and their welfare. It is not based on things being “right” or “wrong” but simply defines what is legal, illegal, required or forbidden. Law has no moral content,* per se*. Not in the US.
It is very much based on things being right or wrong, and if it gets this base wrong, there are problems. A society where people suddenly decide that it’s ok to massacre a large portion of the population, and make laws that cause this to happen have made immoral laws. The laws they made did not change morality, true, but because the laws were based upon a faulty understanding of it, bad things happen.

For an example of the moral basis of laws: Murder is prohibited because killing other people (except in self defense and all of those cases where killing isn’t murder) is wrong.

You can turn around and say that “no, it’s to protect people’s right to not get murdered.” But this is the same statement. There is no difference whatsoever between saying people have a right to not be murdered and that it is wrong to murder someone. There is no difference between saying that people have a right to practice their religion and saying that it is wrong to try to stop people from practicing their religion.

Even speed limits are based on morality. We have roads. Use of roads are regulated to protect the life and property of those using and near the roads. The statement that life and property should be protected and that the activities of those using the roads may be restricted to reach this end is a moral statement. Thus a speed limit is set. What the exact number is, so long as it does the job, doesn’t really matter, but the fundamental reason why the law even exists is moral.

A law that requires something immoral is bad law and should not exist. A law that forbids something morally necessary is bad law and should not exist.

In short, protecting the citizens’ welfare is a moral obligation.
You can make no value statement about law that is not a moral statement.
Law that is too vague invites abuse and is difficult to enforce.
Fundamentally a moral statement. Assuming you think those things are bad. Otherwise, it’s a comment along the lines of “that shirt is blue,” which is not a value statement.
But my reasons, as a person and an individual, for supporting or objecting to a law can be about my own personal morality. This doesn’t imbue the law with morality, however.[emphasis mine] There is no objective reason to bar persons of the same sex from participating in civil marriage. The objections are purely moralistic[emphasis also mine], and relative due to not all persons sharing the same moral imperatives on this topic.
Moral relativism is false. There is no such thing as personal morality. There is such thing as personal perception of morality, and that perception is either right or wrong on every point.

Morality is objective. I say there are moral reasons for a law not to pass. If my perception of morality on this point is correct, then those reasons are objective reasons for the law not to pass and it shouldn’t. If my perception of morality is incorrect, then those reasons are simply false and not reasons at all.

A law which is supported by objective morality is moral. A law which is opposed by objective morality is immoral. My perception isn’t doing any sort of imbuing, and none needs to be done. Morality or immorality is already there.

That there are people who are wrong about morality does not change anything, really. All the statements about not coercing people to violate their own perception of reality (within reason) are simply part of true morality itself. There is no need to say “you must ignore morality because some people disagree with you.” Ignoring morality is always bad.

So - If I say it is immoral for gay people to act as though they are married, and I further say that it would be immoral to treat them as though they are married, then if I am right a law which requires people to treat them as though they are married is OBJECTIVELY wrong. If I’m wrong then I have no argument.

But we’re Catholic.

So we know that I’m right.

So we know that a law which requires people to treat gay couples as though they are married is bad law.
 
Depends on what you mean by “support”. Supporting someone’s right to be wrong is not the same as believing that wrong is right.
It seems that there are some here who support the right to be wrong, but maybe only one or two who believe that wrong, is right.
 
Maybe we are talking about the law of the land and offering the same opportunities and benefits to all adults and think what everyone else does in the bedroom is not our business. I believe as single adult persons have been subsidizing marriage for all these years, that all persons should have the same access to the benefits.

I would also support the removal of all benefits and any government involvement in the domestic arrangements called marriage.
Julia Mae, since I think all would agree that you are the most vocal gay supporter on this thread, I’ll put it to you bluntly, and hope you will answer without equivocation- should priests of the Roman Catholic Church perform marriages between same sex couples?
 
Alright, I’m going to respond to most of what you said, but it’ll be the last part that’s most important. Some of the beginning stuff is probably purely semantic disagreement, but the stuff at the end is… not.

Alright, fair enough, I wasn’t specific enough - neither of those statements are what I meant by “ought/should statement”. The first is a statement that things are not as you expect. The second is advice using the language of duty even when no duty is implied.

Let me restate: any statement that a thing should be a certain way, where should is taken to mean that if things are not that way people have some sort of duty to make them so, is a moral statement. Any time you tell me I should do something and actually mean it - mean that I have any sort of obligation at all to do so - you are making a moral statement.

Or to put it another way, the only duty is a moral duty.

(If we generalized one step further out: All questions are theological questions.)

It is very much based on things being right or wrong, and if it gets this base wrong, there are problems. A society where people suddenly decide that it’s ok to massacre a large portion of the population, and make laws that cause this to happen have made immoral laws. The laws they made did not change morality, true, but because the laws were based upon a faulty understanding of it, bad things happen.

For an example of the moral basis of laws: Murder is prohibited because killing other people (except in self defense and all of those cases where killing isn’t murder) is wrong.

You can turn around and say that “no, it’s to protect people’s right to not get murdered.” But this is the same statement. There is no difference whatsoever between saying people have a right to not be murdered and that it is wrong to murder someone. There is no difference between saying that people have a right to practice their religion and saying that it is wrong to try to stop people from practicing their religion.

Even speed limits are based on morality. We have roads. Use of roads are regulated to protect the life and property of those using and near the roads. The statement that life and property should be protected and that the activities of those using the roads may be restricted to reach this end is a moral statement. Thus a speed limit is set. What the exact number is, so long as it does the job, doesn’t really matter, but the fundamental reason why the law even exists is moral.

A law that requires something immoral is bad law and should not exist. A law that forbids something morally necessary is bad law and should not exist.

In short, protecting the citizens’ welfare is a moral obligation.

Fundamentally a moral statement. Assuming you think those things are bad. Otherwise, it’s a comment along the lines of “that shirt is blue,” which is not a value statement.

Moral relativism is false. There is no such thing as personal morality. There is such thing as personal perception of morality, and that perception is either right or wrong on every point.

Morality is objective. I say there are moral reasons for a law not to pass. If my perception of morality on this point is correct, then those reasons are objective reasons for the law not to pass and it shouldn’t. If my perception of morality is incorrect, then those reasons are simply false and not reasons at all.

A law which is supported by objective morality is moral. A law which is opposed by objective morality is immoral. My perception isn’t doing any sort of imbuing, and none needs to be done. Morality or immorality is already there.

That there are people who are wrong about morality does not change anything, really. All the statements about not coercing people to violate their own perception of reality (within reason) are simply part of true morality itself. There is no need to say “you must ignore morality because some people disagree with you.” Ignoring morality is always bad.

So - If I say it is immoral for gay people to act as though they are married, and I further say that it would be immoral to treat them as though they are married, then if I am right a law which requires people to treat them as though they are married is OBJECTIVELY wrong. If I’m wrong then I have no argument.

But we’re Catholic.

So we know that I’m right.

So we know that a law which requires people to treat gay couples as though they are married is bad law.
Agree, Iron. Anyone who argues that societal laws have no basis in morality has a fundamental lack of understanding of both moral theology and the origin of the legal code. Even terms are shared, such as culpability, circumstance, ignorance, etc. A basic moral theology course covers this thoroughly.
 
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