Gay marriage, sexual morality and the media

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I have no problem with objective ethics. My option with the Euthyphro dilemma is that God does not have a choice. Things are good or bad independent of God. Correct ethics are discovered, not dictated by gods.
Well, I basically agree with you – God does not have a choice about what’s good or bad, since what is good and bad flows from God’s nature, and God does not control his nature. But then I don’t understand why you have assiduously avoided the terms “good” or “evil”, or why you have tried to relativize them to human desires. That is a very difficult way to do ethics, and it’s unnecessary if you really do believe in a universal moral law.
 
But then I don’t understand why you have assiduously avoided the terms “good” or “evil”, or why you have tried to relativize them to human desires.
I avoid reification, and it is all too easy to reify “good” and “evil”.
That is a very difficult way to do ethics, and it’s unnecessary if you really do believe in a universal moral law.
Is killing evil or is it just murder that is evil? Murder is relative to the laws in force at the time, while killing is not. Is the death penalty a universal evil or not? We can get into a lot of useless and unresolvable arguments about universals.

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I avoid reification, and it is all too easy to reify “good” and “evil”.
OK, just keep them as adjectives, then, as *ways *that actions can be. Surely actions can be good or evil. We don’t need to posit some Form of Goodness to claim that actions can be good. But the property of goodness is nevertheless an objective quality of certain actions.
Is killing evil or is it just murder that is evil? Murder is relative to the laws in force at the time, while killing is not.
Only by the legal definition of murder. But there is another definition of murder: “wrongful killing.”
Is the death penalty a universal evil or not? We can get into a lot of useless and unresolvable arguments about universals.
That’s why philosophers use the term “prima facie” – “on its face”. There are usually, but not always, exceptions to a certain generalized action being wrong. But each particular instantiation of this action is either right or wrong, depending on the specific circumstances. Lying is usually wrong, but in some circumstances justified. 🤷
 
There are usually, but not always, exceptions to a certain generalized action being wrong. But each particular instantiation of this action is either right or wrong, depending on the specific circumstances. Lying is usually wrong, but in some circumstances justified. 🤷
Which is why I avoid universals and absolutes in the area of morality, because of the exceptions and specific circumstances.

rossum
 
Which is why I avoid universals and absolutes in the area of morality, because of the exceptions and specific circumstances.
But I don’t see why morality is any different than science, in this respect. There ARE universal and absolute laws of nature, but almost any way we try to specify them ends up being somehow insufficient. The law of gravity is extremely hard to specify, for example. But the exceptions don’t make us think that there *is *no law of gravity; they just make us think our statement of the law of gravity is not quite accurate.

Likewise, the fact that killing is sometimes permissible should not make us think that there are no absolute moral laws, but only that “killing is always wrong” isn’t one of them. We need a subtler version of the law to get the answer right.
 
But I don’t see why morality is any different than science, in this respect. There ARE universal and absolute laws of nature, but almost any way we try to specify them ends up being somehow insufficient. The law of gravity is extremely hard to specify, for example. But the exceptions don’t make us think that there *is *no law of gravity; they just make us think our statement of the law of gravity is not quite accurate.
Correct. All such scientific “laws” that we actually use are provisional, and are open to being replaced by a better approximation, as Newton’s approximation to gravity was replaced by Einstein’s better approximation. Science calls such approximations “theories”.
Likewise, the fact that killing is sometimes permissible should not make us think that there are no absolute moral laws, but only that “killing is always wrong” isn’t one of them. We need a subtler version of the law to get the answer right.
Such absolute laws may or may not exist. All we can ever have is our current best approximation to whatever the law might currently be. We cannot even be sure that moral laws are fixed. It used to be moral to stone adulterers to death; that is no longer the case.

Such moral absolutes may, or may not, exist. It doesn’t really matter because all we can ever have is an approximation to whatever the absolute might or might not be.

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Re: Gay marriage, sexual morality and the media

I view gay marriage in terms of divorce.

One thing that really provokes me is the assault and attack on heterosexual monogamy, in the form of marriage. MANY people say “marriage is for fools” and “only fools get married”. People (some) think “marriage is an unnatural social construct” (in regard to *heterosexual *monogamy, in the form of marriage). As far as I’m concerned, these assaults and attacks on marriage apply to homosexual people in equal measure.

The famous statistic of heterosexual marriage is that “50% of marriages end in divorce”. I take that statistic (in addition to all the faithless statements, attacks, made against heterosexual marriage) and apply them directly to homosexual people. To me, it is the same all around.

If heterosexual marriage is unnatural, and for fools … same goes for homosexual people. Period.

Personally, I’m overtired of the faithlessness in heterosexual monogamy, and the way it has been SO attacked and defiled … made to be near worthless.

Heterosexual monogamy has been made to be a sort of falsehood, a “lie”. And I’m angry about it.
 
I don’t think gay marriage should be illegal. I don’t believe this conflicts with my beliefs, because I don’t think two people being ‘married’ at a desk by a man in a suit constitutes holy matrimony. So it is simply irrelevant to me.
Well, if you are Catholic, it does conflict with your beliefs, because the Church considers civil marriage to “count” as valid marriages. They are simply not sacramental.
 
…The definition of a Sacramental Marriage, by the Catholic Church, is the same as what has been accepted as a marriage since the dawn of written history. Not only is it the true definition, it is also the only logical definition…
That is not true. The children of Adam and Eve were not married sacramentally because sacramental marriage was not possible for humankind after the Fall and until the Incarnation. Everyone married prior to the Incarnation had a holy, natural marriage. The sacrament of marriage was instituted by Christ, well after the advent of written history. The Church accepts natural marriage as fully valid marriage separate from the sacrament.

Sacramental marriage is a wrong turn here. Its reality is not an adequate argument against same-sex marriage. The argument against same-sex marriage is that it is not natural; that is, it is not in keeping with God’s deliberately expressed intent in creating man and woman for each other. Same-sex marriage is not obviated by some definition instituted by the Church (or by Christ, her Founder) but by natural law. Two people of the same sex can live together, love and care for each other, and even provide each other physical pleasure by mutual genital stimulation (note I say they can, not that they ought to). However they can no more be married than a man can conceive and give birth to a child.
 
You were not forced to change YOUR definition nor are you forced to embrace anything. God gave us brains to think for ourselves.

As for all the mentioning about how same-sex marriage was voted down by public votes, this is an issue that never should have been voted on in the first place. Would anyone here support a bill that would put the issue of banning Catholicism up to a vote? Of course not. Because our religion is between us and god. One being Catholic does not affect one who is an atheist, or a Baptist, or Jewish. In that same vein, the government allowing same-sex couples to enter in to a marriage “contract” does not affect those who do not wish to enter into said contract.

Now, I know I will be met with a dozen responses saying how gay marriage will lead to this and that. The majority of these arguments are simply based out of fear, or things that have nothing to do with the vast majority of gay people who enter into a civil marriage. If one wants to argue about “gay relationships” being talked about and public schools, or a florist and Baker being sued, that is a separate issue. Something should not be banned simply because a few extremists within that community go out of their way to make life harder for others.
Jesus commissioned us to go out to the whole world and proclaim the Gospel. That is one reason why it is important for us to stand up for God and against evil. The fundamental problem here is that masturbation is a mortal sin and we should help people to fight the temptation toward that behavior. Acquiescing to or even sanctioning any type of evil makes us, to an extent that only God can determine, a participant In that evil.

Though there are many reasons, that is at least one reason why those of us who are attempting to live a life totally consistent with Church teaching pray and fight so diligently against the liberal media who keep telling us that it’s okay to do anything we want, any time we want, any way we want and that there are no consequences. Nothing could be further from the truth. Finding that out one second after you die is a very poor time indeed.

I think that it is even more difficult in a democratic society to understand that God, not people, makes the rules. Part of our priestly, prophetic, and kingly mission as Catholic Christians is to help people to understand the truth so that they can choose heaven over hell, light over darkness, life over death, and God over Satan. Peace and Blessings, Deacon Paul
 
You were not forced to change YOUR definition nor are you forced to embrace anything. God gave us brains to think for ourselves. .
Really, no one was forced to embrace anything? Tell that to the bakers who got sued for refusing to make a wedding cake for a gay wedding.

Why not let the bakers have THEIR own definition of what a marriage is then?

Or Bed and Breakfast owners, or employers who offer marital benefits.

Can they still continue to use their own definition of marriage?
 
You were not forced to change YOUR definition nor are you forced to embrace anything. God gave us brains to think for ourselves.

As for all the mentioning about how same-sex marriage was voted down by public votes, this is an issue that never should have been voted on in the first place. Would anyone here support a bill that would put the issue of banning Catholicism up to a vote? Of course not. Because our religion is between us and god. One being Catholic does not affect one who is an atheist, or a Baptist, or Jewish. In that same vein, the government allowing same-sex couples to enter in to a marriage “contract” does not affect those who do not wish to enter into said contract.

Now, I know I will be met with a dozen responses saying how gay marriage will lead to this and that. The majority of these arguments are simply based out of fear, or things that have nothing to do with the vast majority of gay people who enter into a civil marriage. If one wants to argue about “gay relationships” being talked about and public schools, or a florist and Baker being sued, that is a separate issue. Something should not be banned simply because a few extremists within that community go out of their way to make life harder for others.
Kitcat - as a Catholic, would you at least **prefer **to see the State adopt pretty much the same definition as your Faith does?

The State (in a given jurisdiction) has only a single definition of Marriage, and it applies to us all. But there are many religions, applicable only to their members - so your “banning Catholicism” analogy falls flat. There is no valid comparison. The Government deciding that 2 blokes can “marry” changes the publicly proclaimed meaning of the institution that married couples entered. In doing so, our State is proclaiming that 2 blokes getting together in a sexual relationship is a good thing, the same thing as Marriage.

Please consider an alternative to redefining marriage. Instead - encourage the State to create a legal framework that addresses the needs of arbitrary persons who wish to live together, to share assets and to care for each other indefinitely. A legal framework that does not carry the implication that it is a sexual relationship (for that is surely irrelevant to the State unless the 2 are entering Marriage). A framework that is not called “marriage”.
 
in a free country such as my own you can marry whoever you want. it’s been like that for decades. I feel bad for the people in lesser countries who don’t have this.
 
A catechetical response to same-sex marriage Using a logical argument, the author explains the Church’s position on a difficult issue John Cavadini OSV Newsweekly

osv.com/OSVNewsweekly/ByIssue/Article/TabId/735/ArtMID/13636/ArticleID/14030/A-catechetical-response-to-same-sex-marriage.aspx
I read this article, and it does lay out pretty well where the current trends are taking us. To me, the whole push for gay marriage seems irrational, since it simply ignores the biological facts of men and women and procreation.

What it says is that sexual complementarity is nothing but an accident of evolution with no meaning; that motherhood and fatherhood are equally meaningless, and children are mere products which can be produced by artificial means to whatever specifications one might desire. That’s what technology is for. It tells us that Mom, Dad, and children are no more meaningful as a family unit than two guys, two women, or any other combination you may desire, and kids are an option which can be ordered from the IVF store down the street.

That is a social experiment without precedent. Family has historically been the basic unit of any civilization. The new trend tells us that now, family means nothing—that we can make it up as we go along and hope for the best.

But the best we can hope for is that the ensuing social collapse will not be so total that recovery is impossible.
 
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