I see…so because YOU don’t see it as dishonorable, I CAN’T?
You, of course, can see anything anyway you want. You don’t have to agree with anybody outside of yourself. But I’m merely pointing out that your logic on this particular issue is faulty. Your argument is that when a person makes a promiss to God, that person must keep the promiss even if he later believes the promiss to have been made erroneously or in vain. A simple example demonstrates why your assertion is illogical:
Suppose Catholic parents have their child baptized in the Catholic Church. During the baptism ceremony, Catholic parents are required to
promiss to God to raise that child in the Catholic faith. Now suppose the Catholic parents at some point in the future convert to Mormonism. Are they still bound by their original promiss to God to raise the child Catholic even though they are now Mormon? Would you consider that person dishonorable if they break that promiss by raising the child Mormon? (Remember, you said it’s not the content of the promiss that counts, but the mere fact that a promiss was made to God.) By your logic, the answer would be ‘yes’ to both questions. But clearly the logical, reasonable answer is ‘no,’ they are no longer obligated to keep that promiss because their beliefs have changed.
How about an even more extreme example: Suppose a radical Muslim makes a promiss to God to carry out a suicide bombing. It’s a promiss to God, right? You would agree that it would be ludicrous for that person to keep such a promiss just because it was a promiss to God. So there has to be something more that binds us to keep our promisses to God other than the mere fact that we made those promisses. And that something more is that the promiss has to be
valid. The content is
very important. And if a person, through conversion to another faith, now believes that old promiss to be invalid, that person is no longer obligated.
The same logic applies to ex-Mormons who promissed to not discuss the temple ceremony outside of the temple. When they converted, their belief system changed and with it their previous promiss was nullified by the mere fact that their new belief system totally denies the legitimacy of the LDS temple and everything associated with it. In fact, they may even feel somewhat
obligated to discuss the ceremony if their new belief system values warning others about the falsehood of their previous religion.
Now, as to an ex-Catholic priest maintaining the confidentiality of confessions after said priest converts to another faith–the same logic applies. In my opinion, if they now feel they made a false promiss to God, then they are no longer obligated to keep that promiss. I would argue that they are obligated to keep confessions secret for other reasons, but not because they made a promiss to God that they now believe was false.