I work with people in India who make 1/5 the salary I do, for performing basically the same job. They live 8 to 10 people in an efficiency apartment, most without airconditioning. Since they have more space at work, and AC, they prefer staying at work to going home, so they willingly work 12-14 hours a day for only 8 hours pay. Owning a home is not even in the realm of their thinking. They are thrilled just to own a car. Most send all of their money to their parents to help support their multiple siblings’ education. And, they are grateful for the opportunity to work. More people in the world are like these people, than like us.
We are spoiled in this country, thinking that going to 4 year university, owning a 3 bedroom house, with 2 cars, in a nice neighborhood, with a white picket fence is a necessity, and anything short of that is somehow “unfair” and “frustrating”.
Living in the United States of America provides unlimited options, with unlimited possibilities. But nothing in this life is free, every option requires hard work and sacrifice, planning, good health, and a little good luck.
Pray hard, work hard, and quit thinking that somehow you are a victem of the life that you have chosen or have been delt. No one is entitled to going to university, or owning a home, or only working 40 hours a week . That used to be called “The American Dream” not the “American Entitlement”.