I have a question about genuflecting. I was wondering if it was appropriate to genuflect appon leaving the mass. I know obviously we do it appon entering. I have not seen it done in our current parish but have in others I have visited. What are your thoughts.
I try to genuflect twice when coming and twice when going. I enter the church, stopping just inside the door, face the tabernacle, and with the holy water on my hand I kneel to the ground with my right knee while making a Sign of the Cross. Bowing my head, I stand as gracefully as possible, and proceed to a pew, where, facing the tabernacle, I genuflect without making a Sign of the Cross. At the end of Mass, I reverse this order when exiting the pew and facing the tabernacle and genuflect without making a Sign of the Cross. Then, just as I approach the doors exiting the church, I’ll genuflect while making the Sign of the Cross, and stand while bowing my head.
This is something, believe it or not, I picked up when learning my sword manuals in the Marine Corps. The twice genuflecting follows customary military etiquette – in that, you salute when you arrive and leave an area where there is an unaccompanied woman or commissioned officer. You should also salute when coming to and departing from their immediate presence. There’s a whole ancient and martial aspect to the customs of recognition of vertical authority. These ancient practices are not to be forgotten as they are cultural and cannot be stripped from men without doing a great deal of harm. Moreover, I strongly believe that some of these practices arose out of obedience. They are part of our body language and communicate clear, unencumbered messages.
Let others see you genuflect with reference and sincerity. I honestly believe many of faithful have no idea what they are acknowledging. Often I’ll see someone walk past a tabernacle as if nothing is important there, but then they’ll do a quick ‘woop-woop’, bowing at the midsection as their strut past the alter area.