Get an ice cream maker, but be careful of the raw egg in the ice cream recipe. It could cause salmonella or something. (I am a kill-joy).
Some parents can be extremely controlling. I knew a father once who told his adult daughter how to brush her teeth and not swallow any toothpaste. This father also told her not to get married. The young woman had no life, really, because the father was very controlling. He would pick fights with her over her dates.This was difficult, but there was no counseling for the family because her father wouldn’t allow such a thing.
At the time, when she was still in school, he forbade her to go to Communion every day because “she needed her breakfast.” That was when there was a longer fast required. Her classmates did OK, however.
There comes a time to just let go. Some kids join the military to get out from this sort of thing and maybe that’s a good idea.