With Candlemas coming up in a few weeks, this is a great time to get candles blessed at an FSSP parish.
Yesterday, the Feast of the Presentation (CandleMass), I attended Mass at my parish, which in the past blessed Candles at that Mass - we have a large number of Hispanics, who apparently are more into that old tradition (they also bring water bottles to be blessed). Unfortunately, the traditional blessing didn’t happen. After Mass I asked the priest to bless the candle I did bring - and he did.
I have a tradition to bless the throats of my grandkids on the Feast of St Blaise - using the standard prayer of St Blaise while holding the blessed candle to their throats - then ask the kids to bless their parents in the same manner.
Some say that only a priest or a deacon should bless in such a manner, yet the Book of Blessings allows for laypeople (like myself) to say such a blessing. All the baptized are members of the royal priesthood - and we may exercise - what the Church allows - in private, what in public is reserved to the ordained priesthood.
My feeling is, that in a family setting, this ritual blessing (by a baptized person) has the same effect as that of a priest or deacon in a public ritual setting. I would rather my grandkids learn to bless their parents than to curse them - as many seem to do. Also, unfortunately, my grandkids are not being formally cathecized, except by my traditions that I bring to their home periodically throughout the year (their parents are not practicing their (our) faith, but I continue to pray that they eventually will.