I think I might be able to help you out.
As far as the charismatic movement goes…it is alive and well. It was actually very much approved by PJPII and Fr. Groechel and Jeff Cavins are both considered to be Charismatic, if I’m not mistaken.
There are seminars in many parishes, and the good ones are led by good, faithful, charismatic priests…Life in the Spirit.
It talks about God’s love, Jesus Christ and how we come to know him and need his salvation for us, Forgiveness, healing (through forgiveness), and the gifts of the Spirit. If taught correctly it enphasizes the sacraments and that the “Infilling of the Holy Spirit” is a RENEWAL of the sacrament of Confirmation…it is not a sacrament or a pseudo-sacrament, but a way to come to know the Holy Spirit better.
The Holy Spirit is alive and well in the Catholic Church, and I point to the election of Pope Benedict XVI as solid proof in that matter…he was clearly chosen by the Holy Spirit for our time and clearly, in order to elect him, the Cardinals, all of whom have free will, were led and obeyed the Holy Spirit in their votes.
Tell your friend that the fuits of the Spirit of patience, hope, charity, generosity, faith, temperance, etc., are alive and well in the Chuch. Tell your friend further that the charisms of tongues, prophecy, etc., are also alive and well and in a healthy state for those who are of the charismatic spirituality and throughout the Church as a whole.
Tell your friend that they do not have a corner on the Spirit and that the focus of the Charismatic Renewal of the Catholic church seeks only to deepen the faith of ALL the members of the Church and the faithful everywhere in the Triune God.
I do not consider myself to be charismatic but I do attend the prayer meetings…I feel drawn to go, and I have to say that the experience has deepend my faith and my ability to be silent and humble before the Lord in the Blessed Sacrament.
It is alive and well…your friend need not worry that the Holy Spirit will abandon the Church, for we have been promised that the gates of Hell will not prevail.