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Yes I have what can I do about it?
I don’t understand what you’re asking. There’s nothing to “do.” Just don’t hit on her. She’s too young, especially since given the age difference I’m guessing you’re in some kind of supervisory relationship to her.
 
Legally speaking that’s a No Go.

You probably shouldn’t consider anyone under 21.
 
I don’t know
This post was edited due to my uncharitable nature in the original post. This updated post is the intentions I was going for. Forgive me for my careless original post.

Let’s focus on what we do know. You are a practicing Catholic. This girl is most likely not like you stated. When girls and boys become of age, unless grounded by some values and morals, have a great chance of falling to the traps of Satan in this world. Many girls and boys party pretty hard until they are 25 or older. They are out getting drunk, using illicit drugs, having sex, etc. Also, without a foundation of faith, will probably be sucked into the progressive lie and feminism, supporting abortion, contraception, gay “marriage”,etc. It is best to be a friend from a distance.
 
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You have no reason to think she is not Catholic and what you have to say about women until the age of 25 is disgusting and not true. Maybe you need to meet better women instead of making such generalizations.
 
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Even when she becomes of age, this girl, unless grounded by some values and morals, will fall to the traps of Satan in this world. Girls party pretty hard until they are 25 or older. They are out getting drunk, using illicit drugs, having sex, etc.
That’s a pretty judgmental take. ‘Girls’ party hard?! Really? All ‘girls’? What about boys? Why assume the worst of a young lady who, I remind you, is still underage and of whom we know absolutely nothing? Maybe she’s horrible, but why assume the worst. Wowza.
 
You have no reason to think she is not Catholic and what you have to say about women until the age of 25 is disgusting and not true. Maybe you need to meet better women instead of making such generalizations.
That’s a pretty judgmental take. ‘Girls’ party hard?! Really? All ‘girls’? What about boys? Why assume the worst of a young lady who, I remind you, is still underage and of whom we know absolutely nothing? Maybe she’s horrible, but why assume the worst. Wowza.
I’m not judging. I am giving the young man some advice that could very well be true, but it also could be false. When girls and boys get 21 or so, they want to go to a bar, etc. They are enjoying some “freedom.” What I am saying is that this man will need to most likely wait for this girl to mature and that could be awhile.
 
When girls and boys get 21 or so, they want to go to a bar, etc. They are enjoying some “freedom.”
I suggest you widen your boundaries. And going to a bar doesn’t equate to your accusations of illicit drugs and sex.
 
I suggest you widen your boundaries. And going to a bar doesn’t equate to your accusations of illicit drugs and sex.
Forgive me mam for offending thee. I was just trying to offer some perspective for the lad. You are right that not everyone is out partying and fornicating. However, many are. Many Catholic young adults are out doing these things as well. Pornography is rife among men in the Catholic Church. Satan uses the sins of lust to capture many souls. I was not making the comments to the young lady but to the man, nor was it in anyway pointed as disrespect to the young lady.
 
She’s a minor, stay away. If you love her you’ll stay away from her till she’s at least 22.
 
You seem to have issues with females. Your post regarding transgender bathrooms suggests that 12-13yo girls are bigots because of their discomfort of sharing locker and bathrooms with natal males.

I prefer not to be called mam; doctor or Mrs. will do.
 
You seem to have issues with females. Your post regarding transgender bathrooms suggests that 12-13yo girls are bigots because of their discomfort of sharing locker and bathrooms with natal males.

I prefer not to be called mam; doctor or Mrs. will do.
Well Doctor, I have a feeling you missed the context of my post on transgender bathrooms. You may try reading it again in its entirety.

Again, I did ask for your forgiveness on my comment as it was not meant to offend.
 
Legally speaking that’s a No Go.

You probably shouldn’t consider anyone under 21.
The OP didn’t specify his country, but I’m assuming it’s the U.S.

I’m not aware of any laws in the U.S. that prohibit dating minors. There are laws that cover statutory rape, but not dating.

Unless the OP is planning to sleep with this girl within the next year, dating her may be ill-advised (and I would argue that it is ill-advised), but it wouldn’t be illegal.
 
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