Girl in class (compliment?)

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ok there this girl in my public speaking class and like we talk after calss and everything but usaual its me her and another guy from class. so anyways, yesterday were talking and she says “im starving i have nt eaten anythin since yesterday” i says “well you wanna go grab some lunch?” “actually i have class now” (wich she did) then the other guy says"stop hitting on her (jokingly)" and she replied"well hes doing a much better job than you!"

now i like this girl and i would like some insight, is this a good sign she may like me or is she just joking around?

thanks in advanced
 
It would be good to get some insight of other younger women, as they may have some insight. But as a married man with 3 kids, and a former high school teacher, my insight may be comical if not true!

God made men and women different so they complement one another, and never cease trying to figure the other out. Even if you ask her whether she is joking, she may not know, but surely will not tell you! 🙂 When I was young, I would have read into the comment that she likes me, but usually I was wrong. In my cases, that comment meant (please other guy, hit on me so this guy stops:wink: ). You will never know, but that’s the fun in it!

If you like her, ask her to go out. If she wants to, she’ll go; if she doesn’t, she’ll probably tell you she’s busy - or she might really be busy… But, if you are having fun hanging out with her in class, keep having fun. There’s no need to make things awkward if you think there might be something more. If something will come of it, let it happen, don’t try to force it to happen.
 
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ok there this girl in my public speaking class and like we talk after calss and everything but usaual its me her and another guy from class. so anyways, yesterday were talking and she says “im starving i have nt eaten anythin since yesterday” i says “well you wanna go grab some lunch?” “actually i have class now” (wich she did) then the other guy says"stop hitting on her (jokingly)" and she replied"well hes doing a much better job than you!"

now i like this girl and i would like some insight, is this a good sign she may like me or is she just joking around?

thanks in advanced
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I would say she is ‘hinting,’ as they say. When I was in high school/college, I was very shy…I think many girls (just like guys) have a hard time expressing themselves, so it’s these ‘read between the lines’ kind of comments that you have to pay attention to.🙂 I would ask her again…without anyone around, and see what happens. My vote? She says YES. Good luck.
 
My hunch is that she was just defending you, girls have that protective nature ( like I’m an expert:rolleyes: ). Your other friend made you feel stupid so she did the same to him.

I think you should give her another opportunity to go to lunch. If you are casual friends I think you’re on the right track to start off slow ( not a legitimate date ). I would give it some time no matter the circumstances of the first rejection the second opportunity shouldn’t come off the heels of the first.

You should look for what they call “indicators of interest” (does she laugh at your stupid jokes?) people do things subconsciously that betray them, like a girl may touch her hair if she is interested (I think this is a sign of insecurity).

If you really want to play “psycological games” don’t ask, say something like “so when are we gonna go on that lunch you owe me.”

Disclaimer: though I am married now I was never ever close to “successful” with women. I’m the biggest dork of them all.😛

An important question: What is her moral/religious stance ?
 
well shes full up greek, so i asume shes greek orthodox perhaps. thanks for all the advice.
 
Think she is definitly into you dude, the comment was a bit more than defending you, was def a subliminal message.

I would recomend trying to get her on a 1-to-1 setting, do a bit of flirting. tell a joke r sumting. meeting someone who has a similar moral code to you is very hard to do these days and I think its worth a shot!
 
Take it slow and just be friends. If it’s meant to be, it’ll happen:)
 
It’s best not to over analyize something like this. Maybe it’s a hint, or not. If you like her, ask her out to get to know her better. Worse comes to worse is she’ll say no.

On the other hand, worse comes to worse, might be if she says yes. 😛
 
well from one squid to another I’d say go ahead an give it a try. She probably does like you but the best way to find out is to ask the girl out. Preferable when she doesn’t have class.👍
 
its a difficult question.
you know the young lady better than we do.
I would say that her fast reply shows a woman with good self-esteem… she is probably good looking and self confident, no?
If I had been in the same situation, been her, I would have been shy - especially if I was indeed interested in any of the guys - and not have said something like that unless it was totally meant as a joke and I felt very comfortable around these guys. if however it is a very self-confident lady, I would think the remark was more encouraging to your friend than to you… its like: “Please you -take me to lunch”.
Sorry… I guess that was not a very favorable conclusion …
 
passivesquid said:
ok there this girl in my public speaking class and like we talk after calss and everything but usaual its me her and another guy from class. so anyways, yesterday were talking and she says “im starving i have nt eaten anythin since yesterday” i says “well you wanna go grab some lunch?” “actually i have class now” (wich she did) then the other guy says"stop hitting on her (jokingly)" and she replied"well hes doing a much better job than you!"

now i like this girl and i would like some insight, is this a good sign she may like me or is she just joking around?

thanks in advanced
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It looks like she was defending you, but it shows she likes you and she wouldn’t be offended by your really hitting on her, if you were. Maybe she would be interested in you, maybe not, but she wouldn’t look down on you. That’s a start.

By the way, her response to the other guy impressed me a lot and I think you’d have a worthy friend in her or perhaps something more, but don’t push it. A lot of friendships can be destroyed by pushing things too far forward. Remember she’s a lady and treat her as such.

I know this is hard, but once again: you win nothing by pushing things too far forward and you can lose much. Not pushing things too far forward too fast isn’t the same as inaction. 🙂
 
If u like her, chances are she senses it. So for her to say that to him, she definitely was defending u, and she may be showing that she is open to u asking her out.
 
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