Girlfriend angry at me for doing drugs

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I misguidedly, and without thinking of consequences consumed THC infused soda at school. My plan was for the THC to “hit” me by dismissal, and it did indeed. Thus far told nobody has bothered telling me anything besides the fact I acted “really expletive stupid”. I hate the fact I consumed the product. I hate the fact she is angry at me. I hate my poor choices. I hate that I am not able to talk to her for the time being.

I already plan on going to confession, but I am not sure what to do for the time being. It hurt even more when she told me that she was disappointed. There’s nothing worse. Having her angry at me is quite terrible, but disappointment? That really hurts. I do not know what do to

Next day edit: My girlfriend already forgave me. She wanted to ensure I had thought about my actions, and the consequences. Now it is time to ask God for forgiveness. I am going to confession today before mass.
 
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Go to confession and promise her it will NEVER happen again. If she dump you, well…
Be glad no one else knows and told the school.
You dodged a bullet, man.
 
Continue to pray and go to confession as soon as you can. Just continue to do your best from here on out in tandem with God’s grace. If she’s angry that’s okay, just make it right by doing the next right thing from here on out. All we can do is learn from our mistakes. Just take this as a lesson.
 
If you are in the US, what you did is stupid because it is a federal crime. You could do far more than make a girlfriend angry, you risk your job or more.

If you live in a country where THC is legal, then, as long as you are of legal age to consume and you did not abuse it, there is no sin.
 
Thank you. I plan on going to confession either right before mass, or directly afterward. It really hurts.
 
Accept Christ’s forgiveness in Confession and then forgive yourself.
 
We all are disappointed in ourselves. Don’t beat yourself up. Repent. Confess. Do penance. Reconcile.
 
It is legal in the state of California, however I am 18 years old. The legal age is 21+ to consume. I get your point though. Thank you.
 
Weed is a man-made religion. I’ve seen the shrines. What was that pesky 1st Commandment again…???
 
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My plan was for the THC to “hit” me by dismissal, and it did indeed.
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The longer term issue is why you need to do this.
You have a great girlfriend who cares enough to get angry when she says you on the wrong path.

Don’t get concerned about her disappointment, get concerned about what she is concerned about…why you need to do this.

You haven’t really started to even think about this by the looks of it.
Isn’t it time to put your energy into that?

Are you experiencing a lot of emotional pain in your life at the moment?
 
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Did you drink the entire soda? That’s a lot of THC, friend. Those are really meant for sharing.

Anyway, we are human and make mistakes. If you’re in a state where cannabis is illegal or if you are underage, going to confession is necessary. Ask for forgiveness from your partner but don’t forget to forgive yourself.

And next remember “you can always take more, but you can’t take less”.
 
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It is legal in the state of California, however I am 18 years old. The legal age is 21+ to consume. I get your point though. Thank you.
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Even at 21+ I would not consume this drug. It’s nothing more than a vice, and a dangerous one at that.

God Bless You
 
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i wouldn’t sweat the load

it was a one time experience

don’t do it again

tell your gf to calm down…
 
You’re young, it sounds like you take full responsibility for this, go to confession and put this behind you.
 
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