Girlfriend Trouble

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My gf is very grumpy the day or so. We aren’t talking much at the moment. She feels I slighted her. Really didn’t mean to. One of those women and men think differently kinda situations. Please pray we be alright if it be God’s Will. Please pray for me too. When I am worried I tend to slip into self abuse. Haven’t fallen yet, but please pray God keep me strong.
 
Bad attitude. Your girlfriend is a unique and special individual with her own quirks and foibles. Don’t blame her gender that she is mad at you; honestly reflect on whether it is you or her that is causing this drama.

If it’s you that’s causing the drama, figure out if you are willing to change; if its her, figure out if you are willing to live with it.
 
I don’t think he is blaming her gender. He’s saying it was due to a common misunderstanding between the sexes.

OP: I am praying for your situation. If she hasn’t been speaking to you for a long time despite you apologizing because she felt “slighted”, you might want to discern this relationship a bit before it goes further.
 
It seems your going through a steep maturing learning curve,
Congratulations ! So many face your situation and brush it aside with some excuse which has the onus of blame on anyone else other than themselves…
You both must learn patients, tolerance, respect and humility … The only way you learn these things is to live life and learn to share your thoughts and feeling…
At least you realise there is a problem… Be true to yourself, buy her roses and a beautiful card, and movie tickets, hold hands and feel the love…
 
Hey buddy,
I know its hard to go through what you’re going through. I am by no means a professional but am going through something simmilar. Not talking much right now huh, well at least the communication lines are opened. Be THANKFUL for that! 🙂
Instead of self abuse try to take a look at what God might be trying to show you about your own weaknesses as an individual. Never be too proud to just apologize and let her know how important she is to you. Sometimes a heart felt apology is all it takes. I hope all goes well for you.

If you are looking for a good prayer, there is a good prayer asking for St. Jude’s intercession for healing relationships. If you do a quick Google search you’ll find it. Good luck! All the best!
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

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Layp3rs0n said:
My gf is very grumpy the day or so. We aren’t talking much at the moment. She feels I slighted her. Really didn’t mean to. One of those women and men think differently kinda situations. Please pray we be alright if it be God’s Will. Please pray for me too. When I am worried I tend to slip into self abuse. Haven’t fallen yet, but please pray God keep me strong.
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Our Father, Who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.
 
Hail Mary, Full of Grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou amongst women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now
and at the hour of our death.

Amen
 
Our Father,
Who art in heaven,
hallowed be Thy name;
Thy kingdom come;
Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.
 
thank you all so much for your prayers. This evening we talked it out and we are okay.
 
Lord, grant many graces for fortitude, humility, understanding, faith, hope, and love to these two souls. May they always cultivate in their lives a zeal to please the will of the Father. Send many powerful angels to their side in every moment of their temptation. Lead them joyfully toward the eternal kingdom, through every suffering and joy. Magnify the virtue of joy in their hearts. Have mercy, Lord. Our Lady, angels, and saints, pray with us. Amen.
 
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