Girlfriend's past

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Unfortunately you will have to move on from her. You are not married, and if you were to marry her it would forever haunt you (and her) causing an undercurrent of unrest throughout the marriage.
 
People who engage in premarital sex have a different way of defining relationships as well as the meaning and use of their sexuality. For instance, for a believing Catholic, hearing from a fiancee who is going to be gone for an extended period that it would be ok to engage in sexual intercourse with someone else in order to satisfy a sexual craving would be one of the most insulting and degrading things to hear from that fiancee.
Um…I engage in premarital sex and I would freak if my fiance gave me permission to go elsewhere if we were going to be separated for a long period of time. He would be equally insulted if I said that too. That may not end our relationship, but it would very seriously damage it. Most of the sexually active unmarried people I know would say the same.
 
And 2nd, if she had not been to bed with anyone to this point in her life, chances are that would only be if she were hideously unattractive, in which case you know you would not be with her anyway.
That remark is EXTREMELY insulting to all those people who sacrifice greatly to do things God’s way.
 
That remark is EXTREMELY insulting to all those people who sacrifice greatly to do things God’s way.
No it isn’t. This is how things are today, being realistic.
But the reason why more people don’t say it is because of the reactions it might get, like yours.
 
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