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I certainly thank everyone for their (name removed by moderator)ut. It seems I have a consensus on a way to approach this. But one question is not getting answered and I’m not quite sure that the quote above from the cathesis is clear to me either. Is there an admiration of beauty? What is real beauty? It is all around to admire it is that to lust after it? The beauty of a woman for example physically and otherwise should be the same as the beauty of a sunrise or sunset shouldn’t it?

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YES but not via such publications.

jimmyakin.com/2009/01/appreciating-beauty-vs-concupiscence.html (JA of CA)
 
no, you can’t, because they support the objectification of women.
Touche, but I’m speaking to a person (the OP) who apparently has no connection to a culture war and is not fit to judge the players in one, so I’m treating the publication as in a vacuum to make a point about temptation and changeable cultural standards of modesty. Next time I’ll send a memo.
 
The immorality of an image does not lie solely in the eye of the beholder.
Some expressions of “art” are intrinsically immoral, due to the producers’ intent, or the intent of the art, the way a woman is presented. Women are not sex objects and should not be presented as such.
That being said, a piece of art produced in a moral way can be twisted into immorality in heart of the viewer. For some men, simply dwelling on modest beauty can be an occasion for sin (that’s me).
 
Touche, but I’m speaking to a person (the OP) who apparently has no connection to a culture war and is not fit to judge the players in one, so I’m treating **the publication as in a vacuum **to make a point about temptation and changeable cultural standards of modesty. Next time I’ll send a memo.
No such thing exists.
 
It’s not a matter of if it does, it’s a matter of if it was intended to. I’m sure that there are some people who watch porn and think “ho-hum”. It doesn’t make porn any less immoral.
Oh, it’s still immoral. But my point is, if it doesn’t get me excited and I’m like “Big Whoop” when I see it, I don’t see how I have committed the sin of lust.
 
Oh, it’s still immoral. But my point is, if it doesn’t get me excited and I’m like “Big Whoop” when I see it, I don’t see how I have committed the sin of lust.
That’s correct, lust requires that you actually be lusting after someone.

There are other sins, as others are furiously pointing out, but if we’re talking about lust, you’d be aware if you were experiencing it.
 
Oh, it’s still immoral. But my point is, if it doesn’t get me excited and I’m like “Big Whoop” when I see it, I don’t see how I have committed the sin of lust.
You haven’t…

The sin is in the either explicit or implicit approval of such things.
Hooters cannot get my business no matter how great the food is.
Playboy cannot get me to buy it no matter how great the articles are.
Strip clubs cannot get my business no matter how hard those girls work to put themselves through college.
 
The sin is in the either explicit or implicit approval of such things.
Hooters cannot get my business no matter how great the food is.
Playboy cannot get me to buy it no matter how great the articles are.
Strip clubs cannot get my business no matter how hard those girls work to put themselves through college.
Agreed, but we’re not talking about a strip club. We’re talking about, for instance, a workout magazine or Sports Illustrated. I’m sure someone will make the argument that Sports Illustrated is trying to destroy the culture, and this may be true for all I know, but lots of people still think of it as a sports publication.
 
Agreed, but we’re not talking about a strip club. We’re talking about, for instance, a workout magazine or Sports Illustrated. I’m sure someone will make the argument that Sports Illustrated is trying to destroy the culture, and this may be true for all I know, but lots of people still think of it as a sports publication.
Oh yah…I know we are not talking about a strip club. That is exit #94 on this highway…we are at exit #15!

If you put up a girly calendar, in effect you are saying “This is what I think of women”. You wouldn’t do it if it was your mom on there. You wouldn’t do it if it was your daughter, sister, etc… You especially wouldn’t do it if it was the blessed mother represented that way.

I just re-read the OP, so sorry I’m actually kind of responding to a different problem. I see that the OP is not planning on displaying a girly calendar at all!
 
Agreed, but we’re not talking about a strip club. We’re talking about, for instance, a workout magazine or Sports Illustrated. I’m sure someone will make the argument that Sports Illustrated is trying to destroy the culture, and this may be true for all I know, but lots of people still think of it as a sports publication.
Maxim is not a workout magazine. It’s a sex and entertainment magazine whose chief selling point is in publishing racy photos of famous women.
 
So let me get a ruling. Maxim is out, but SI is in?
I agree.

I just picked up a copy of “The Ring” magazine and I see it has changed since I last saw it (10 years ago). They added a centerfold type thing featuring ‘ring girls’. I plan on tearing that part out altogether. 👍
 
Agreed, but we’re not talking about a strip club. We’re talking about, for instance, a workout magazine or Sports Illustrated. I’m sure someone will make the argument that Sports Illustrated is trying to destroy the culture, and this may be true for all I know, but lots of people still think of it as a sports publication.
Let’s be specific. For what purpose is the SI swimsuit issue published?
 
Let’s be specific. For what purpose is the SI swimsuit issue published?
I mean, he doesn’t need to read that issue. I get Bloomberg magazine and one issue’s front cover and main story was the business of pornography. I obviously ditched that issue. Do I need to unsubscribe altogether? No.

Frankly I think ESPN’s “The Body” issue is far less objectionable than the SI swimsuit issue. Seems to be far more about the human form than anything else; they frequently have disabled athletes participate as well. If I didn’t think so low of ESPN in general for being hacktackular when it comes to its journalism, I’d say that The Body could qualify as high art.
 
So let me get a ruling. Maxim is out, but SI is in?
I think my friend, all of this is because you have no standard to draw from as to what is inappropriate. To clarify, in the past, one would automatically say that both these magazines are inappropriate. Why? Because the women portrayed in these magazines are dressed inappropriately i.e. will cause temptation to the average viewer. Similarly, a woman will be more than hesitant to dress this way because they will feel “yucky” or “being used”.

This form of knowledge on what is tempting to the average individual as well as instilling a conscious attitude toward what is exposed in women is fostered by Culture. As Bl. JP II indicates in his Theology of the Body, such a fostering is indeed good and the personal sensitivity it instills in one regarding ones body and those of others is reflective of the truth of a human being.

Good news is that this is still the case in some parts of the world. Bad news is that the Western part of the world has more or less completely eradicated such a standard.

So if you asked my mother for an example, she will tell you that both these magazines are inappropriate though she might not be able to justify reasons for her intuition. But most who have grown up in this culture would have to start a whole discussion to analyze the situation using moral theology to try and determine if its good or bad. The problem for them is that the data required to judge if its good or bad (i.e. is it tempting to the average individual) is no longer known. Everyone just gives their opinion from their own experience. This too would be fine if the Culture had instilled a healthy personal sensitivity. BUT, as is stands, our current culture does not do that and instead is built around advocating one to dress as sexually attractive as possible.

Now the short answer to your question is that both the magazines you mentioned are not ok to be purchased for the following reasons.
  1. It portrays women wearing inappropriate attire
  2. Buying the magazine will promote the magazine and make it the popular standard for women to strive toward
  3. It causes temptation for the average man
  4. Even if it did not cause temptation to you, it will still cause temptation for the average man and you will be promoting the manufacture of such magazines.
In all this, keep in mind that the main point of what is tempting to the average man was determined by tapping in to the cultural sensibilities that were passed down to me (and ideally to you if you had lived before the whole sexual revolution). Now you might say that this method doesn’t seem foolproof. But the question to you then is “How can you do better?” In my humble opinion and experience, most likely no or someone has not come up with a better solution to my knowledge. Having a GOOD Culture is invaluable just because of things like this.
 
Waiting patiently while everyone argues enough to realize a totally subject criteria is no criteria at all…
 
Waiting patiently while everyone argues enough to realize a totally subject criteria is no criteria at all…
That is unfortunately a mistake. The issue here is not that there is a subjective criteria. There is a truly objective criteria to determine proper course of action i.e. What is tempting to the average person.

The problem here is that you and many others do not know how to answer that question because you live in this crazed culture that advocates one to tempt others and at the same time enjoy being tempted/ illicit sexual pleasure. So you have thought it to be subjective or perhaps that such a objective answer does not exist. Strictly logically speaking, as long as there is data, there will always be an average. This average is also not a subjective average. I am not even sure what it would mean to call something a “subjective average”. So your idea that such a thing is subject is purely an error on your part.
 
Waiting patiently while everyone argues enough to realize a totally subject criteria is no criteria at all…
Catechism:

2523 There is a modesty of the feelings as well as of the body. It protests, for example, against the voyeuristic explorations of the human body in certain advertisements, or against the solicitations of certain media that go too far in the exhibition of intimate things. Modesty inspires a way of life which makes it possible to resist the allurements of fashion and the pressures of prevailing ideologies.

2525 Christian purity requires a purification of the social climate. It requires of the communications media that their presentations show concern for respect and restraint. Purity of heart brings freedom from widespread eroticism and avoids entertainment inclined to voyeurism and illusion.

2522 Modesty protects the mystery of persons and their love. It encourages patience and moderation in loving relationships; it requires that the conditions for the definitive giving and commitment of man and woman to one another be fulfilled. Modesty is decency. It inspires one’s choice of clothing. It keeps silence or reserve where there is evident risk of unhealthy curiosity. It is discreet.
 
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