For those of you who have a problem/wonder if it is ok raising your hands during the Our Father at the mass then weep no more and open you Bible
1 Timothy 2:8 (New International Version)
8 Therefore I want the men everywhere to pray, lifting up holy hands without anger or disputing.

<<< raise those hands./quote
So what do we women do?
Seriously why limit this to the Our Father? Shouldnât we be âlifting up our holy handsâ everytime we pray? Why donât we hold our hands up for the entire Mass? Itâs all prayer, right?
Actually I donât mind people in the orans position. I really donât. . . provided they use common sense. Most people do. Itâs the few who donât who are the problem, which is of course the case with just about any problem.
Itâs the big beefy men (bless them) who SUDDENLY decide to âlift hands highâ and smack into the little old ladies (like me). . .or just barely miss us but rather pointedly invade our personal space.
I think I recall reading that most people see or sense an area of about 18 inches âall aroundâ as being a reasonable personal space. Now even in a well filled congregational pew, you usually donât have much trouble getting that. . .UNLESS you have a very âspirit-filledâ person. . .(especially if you have one on EACH SIDE OF YOU). . .who manages to bring his hands, forearms, and elbows right smack dab into your personal space. Suddenly instead of 18 inches round you have two big old arms waving around maybe 12 inches, 6 inches, or even less, around your head. Very, very distracting.
But I guess thatâs the idea behind urging everybody to do this, because if youâre doing it yourself, youâre in a position to âsmack downâ arms in YOUR personal space or take YOUR personal space in somebody ELSEâS personal space etc.
And then comes the Our Father and itâs not just âraise the handsâ but âraise hands AND grab the hands of othersâ. . .
Almost invariably when I see this I have the urge to start singing, âWe are the Championsâ and flick my lighter. . .
(JK on that last. . .)
As I said, I personally do not mind whether a person utilizes the orans position (a perfectly noble prayer position). . .but since common sense and courtesy can be in rather short supply nowadays, even in a church, please remember while youâre caught up in the spirit of using your whole BODY to âworshipâ that you watch out for other bodies and donât make them uncomfortable, or even in pain from a direct hit. . .