God’s benevolence vs. pain and suffering

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Hitetlen:
Do you understand my position?
I perfectly understand your position. Your position is nothing more than a great “compendium” of blasphemies, heresies, misconceptions, errors, absurdities. Besides reason, you also lack the minimum common sense.
 
To Hitetlan, I agree that obeying laws has a survival advantage, which is why I wrote “It’s one thing to put yourself to the inconvenience of obeying the law because by doing so you’re saving yourself from economic and social chaos. You need a job, an orderly community and a functioning economy in order to retire early to that beach house. Why go beyond that?”

Why go beyond that? Why not end with the most convenient minimum? Why do any more? It’s only taking time away from you and what’s yours.

I still find your use of the word “unfair,” in quotation marks or not, interesting. The word carries moral weight, implies the possibility of a “fair” world. Reading your other posts I get the feeling that you’re no more resigned to the suffering in the world than anyone else. If this is simply the way the world is, why the sense that something is wrong with it? Why even consider the fate of children buried alive in earthquakes? They don’t affect you, your family or friends, your economy, your society, your law and order. Why even waste bandwidth worrying about them?
 
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doomhammer:
I perfectly understand your position. Your position is nothing more than a great “compendium” of blasphemies, heresies, misconceptions, errors, absurdities. Besides reason, you also lack the minimum common sense.
doomhammer - c’mon lets be civil here :tsktsk: .
 
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Hitetlen:
This was a nice post, thank you for it. However, you are mistaken, by lack of belief has nothing to do with pride. It has everything to do with lack of conviction.

You see, I can understand perfectly if believers trust God completely. What could be more logical and reasonable than to trust an infinitely knowledgable, powerful and benevolent being?

The question is this: how does one accept that such a being exists? Personal experience or trusting others. Trust whom? Trust other human beings, just as imperfect as I am? Trust the scriptures, written by other human beings, just as ignorant as I am?

God does NOT manifest himself to anyone. Allegedly he manifested himself to a selected few, a very long time ago. All we have is their testimony, which is just as unreliable as any other testimony.

To trust God, once one believes his existence is obvious. But to reach that point one must trust other humans. And the difference between me and other humans is only quantitative, not qualitative. Therefore there is no reason to trust them MORE than I trust myself. I trust myself, because I have a valid foundation for this trust, close to 60 years of it. I trust other humans, if they earn my trust. But I do not trust other humans a-priori, without ascertaning first that they deserve my trust. No matter how well-meaning they can be (and you, for example MUST be very well-meaning), that is insufficient grounds for trust.

Do you understand my position?
I do understand your position i also was an atheist (and an unhappy one), the question I have for you is - would you accept God (with conviction) if you felt his presence during prayer? This is my challenge to you - be honest and willing to feel God’s presence and search for him by closing your eyes for a mere five minutes in silence, try and blank out all thoughts except for that of being in God’s presence - you have nothing to lose (except 5 mins) but a heck of a lot to gain!
 
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deekod1967:
I do understand your position i also was an atheist (and an unhappy one), the question I have for you is - would you accept God (with conviction) if you felt his presence during prayer?
That is a very interesting question. I have to elaborate a little. You may not be aware, but when I was young I was brought up in a moderately religious environment. (Actually my grandparents were very seriously Catholic.) So as a kid I rarely questioned my beliefs. Later, much later I started questioning them, and eventually came to the conclusion that I don’t believe that God exists. I never had any bad experiences in church or outside it, just ceased to believe.

Now, if I would feel something you call “God’s presence”, I would be surprised. I would suspect that the feeling has a natural explanation to it. So I cannot say honestly, that I would accept such a feeling as a definite proof, or even an inclination. Now, I can devise experiments which would be pretty decisive, but as I was told many times, one is not “allowed” to test God.
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deekod1967:
This is my challenge to you - be honest and willing to feel God’s presence and search for him by closing your eyes for a mere five minutes in silence, try and blank out all thoughts except for that of being in God’s presence - you have nothing to lose (except 5 mins) but a heck of a lot to gain!
The trouble with your challenge is, that I could not do it “honestly”. I would not mind losing 5 minutes, but there would be no conviction in the attempt.

Just yesterday my wife and I went to church, to commemorate her recently deceased stepfather. It was a nice, touching ceremony, I did not mind to go with her. Both of us recall the “old guy’s” memory pretty much every day when we sit down for dinner. He was a nice addition to the family, and left a lot of good memories behind. So, even though neither of us is religious (and he was not relgious either) we went. We were honest in our attempt to honor his memory. If God wanted, he could have touched us, then and there. But nothing happened.

So, what can I say?

(Side remark: I appreciate your comment to doomhammer, but please don’t worry about him. Both he and Mike O follow me around and both make ugly remarks. I don’t mind them, actually they provide good entertainment, and wonderful contrast to all the nice posters. :))
 
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stella95:
To Hitetlan, I agree that obeying laws has a survival advantage, which is why I wrote “It’s one thing to put yourself to the inconvenience of obeying the law because by doing so you’re saving yourself from economic and social chaos. You need a job, an orderly community and a functioning economy in order to retire early to that beach house. Why go beyond that?”
Well, laws are not everything. I do not obey all of them. (Example: there is a local ordinance which forbids feeding someone else’s expired parking meter. I habitually violate that “law”, because I consider it unacceptable thet they try to interfere with my good intentions. I am a born “rebel” :))
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stella95:
Why go beyond that? Why not end with the most convenient minimum? Why do any more? It’s only taking time away from you and what’s yours.
Yes, it is true. But I strongly believe in positive reinforcements, since they work so well. The “golden rule” is a pretty good observation. So if I go and do more than “expected”, it will be propagated, and eventually it will come back to me. Maybe it is “selfish”, but effective.
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stella95:
I still find your use of the word “unfair,” in quotation marks or not, interesting. The word carries moral weight, implies the possibility of a “fair” world. Reading your other posts I get the feeling that you’re no more resigned to the suffering in the world than anyone else. If this is simply the way the world is, why the sense that something is wrong with it? Why even consider the fate of children buried alive in earthquakes? They don’t affect you, your family or friends, your economy, your society, your law and order. Why even waste bandwidth worrying about them?
I see your point. But, you see, I am not a monster (at least I hope so ;)) and I do feel compassion toward others. That is how I was brought up.
 
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deekod1967:
doomhammer - c’mon lets be civil here :tsktsk: .
“Your position is nothing more than a great “compendium” of blasphemies, heresies, misconceptions, errors, absurdities. Besides reason, you also lack the minimum common sense.”
Hitetlen’s (The Unbeliever) words:
Blasphemies: “the God of Christianity does not exist.” “Of course I would not serve the God as described in the Bible”
Heresies: “You cannot appeal to the Bible, since it is just a concoction of fallible humans.” The Bible is just a loosely connected set of ancient stories written by rather uneducated people.”
Misconceptions: “Whether you believe in something or not is not subject your volitional control.” “We are without total knowledge, especially when it comes to God’s very existence.”
Errors: “The Catholic Church is just another human establishment, therefore fallible.” “The longevity of the Church means nothing.”
Absurdities: “Life has no intrinsic value, has no external purpose” “the lack of belief is more rewarding”
Multiply by 100 by 100 by…
 
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deekod1967:
APOSTOLIC LETTER
SALVIFICI DOLORIS


Thank you for taking a look into the profound Apostolic Letter “Salvici Doloris” (post #29).
If you need more of Hitleten’s “compendium” of blasphemies, heresies, misconceptions, errors, absurdities:

“Obviously an omnipotent, omniscient and omnibenevolent being should never tolerate anything even remotely “evil”.”
“Omnipotence is being able to do anything except a logical contradiction.”
“even God cannot “undo” the injusticies of the past”
“Apart from the ridiculous idea of “souls” you are somewhat correct.”
“Forget about the “angels”. No need for more mysticism.”
“if God does not prevent a wildfire, when he allows a drunken guy beat his kid and kill him, is he still “good” in you opinion?”
“In this case God created this world to observe pain and suffering, and therefore he is cruel.”
“God’s omniscience does not mean that God knows everything, it only means that God knows everything that can be known. If something cannot be known, God does not know it.”
“Allegedly (God) manifested himself to a selected few, a very long time ago. All we have is their testimony, which is just as unreliable as any other testimony.”
 
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Hitetlen:
… if I would feel something you call “God’s presence”, I would be surprised. …I would suspect that the feeling has a natural explanation to it. … So, what can I say?
These three remarks seem to sum up nicely your position IMO, and I honestly understand your position having “been there” myself.

I wasn’t really brought up religious although my parents took us to Mass once or twice a year etc. I came to know God’s presence after a “near death” experience, I felt him there with me as my car tumbled down an embankment at 70mph after skidding on ice. For me this was no “natural” high or adrenalin rush, I felt Him watching as the car bounced upside down and two fence posts crashed through the windscreen just missing my face, I felt Him advising me that “this is it” - I screamed “No!” at the top of the voice and the car ended right way up in front of a tree and the drivers door opened itself. I walked out with a slight bruise to my elbow, and a killing blow to my ego. I was so sorry for having doubted God and I went to Mass the next Sunday, then 6 months later I met my wife in Lourdes, the rest as they say is history.

A skeptic will of course put my “conversation with God” down to adrenalin, endorphins or some other natural high, but I know in my heart that it was real and that is the difference here between you and me.

I ask that you allow God to let you know that He is real, this can only be done by letting Him into your heart. Think back on your life, think of the times when things have “just worked out for you” - is that really all down to chance? Think of the vast majority of people in the world all believing in a God for millenia and now you say that they are they all wrong? Think of all the stories of “near death” experiences, how they all tie up to talk of “going to the light” - would people really make that up - why? Think of all the miracles that have been verified by medical authorities (i.e Lourdes)…
lourdes-france.org/upload/pdf/gb_guerisons.pdf
Think of the 70,000 witnesses (including non-believers) of the miracle of the sun at Fatima…
ewtn.com/fatima/apparitions/October.htm
Think of the Our Lady of Zeitun appearing to thousands… zeitun-eg.org/zeitngal.htm
I could go on.

You seem honest in your attempts to seek truth and I appluad you for that. But you need to cast aside your previous notions of God and leave yourself open to the idea that He may actually exist. You will never understand a believer’s point of view unless you really and honestly try to get God’s attention. Believe me - when God makes His presence known to you, you will know its not a “natural high” but your Creator showing his Love for you.

This may be your “wake up call” - what have you to lose?
 
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doomhammer:
Thank you for taking a look into the profound Apostolic Letter “Salvici Doloris” (post #29).
If you need more of Hitleten’s “compendium” of blasphemies, heresies, misconceptions, errors, absurdities:.”
Doomhammer - whoah boy! - your not helping to win any arguments like this.
 
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deekod1967:
(Hitleten) You seem honest in your attempts to seek truth
Are you kidding? Just in case you need more from Htleten’s “compendium”:

“not more mythology… God is enough.”
“God has neglected to notify me about this “grace” so I never received it. Maybe he sent it with Snail-Mail, and it got lost in the traffic.”
“I don’t believe in the concept of “soul” either.”
“I realized how unacceptable the religious worldview is.”
“I am only interested in secular reasoning. Biblical quotes I don’t care about.”
“So do you assert that I should be able to force myself to believe in the absurdity called the “Christian God”?”
“Can you prove that Jesus was really resurrected? Of course not. These are simply parts of an ancient tale.”
“I will not even contemplate the idea of “omnipresent” because that is sheer nonsense.”
“I don’t have a “soul” as far as I can see. And I don’t think that anyone could “know” what God wants from us.”
 
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deekod1967:
These three remarks seem to sum up nicely your position IMO, and I honestly understand your position having “been there” myself.
Yes, they do sum it up.
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deekod1967:
I wasn’t really brought up religious although my parents took us to Mass once or twice a year etc. I came to know God’s presence after a “near death” experience, I felt him there with me as my car tumbled down an embankment at 70mph after skidding on ice. For me this was no “natural” high or adrenalin rush, I felt Him watching as the car bounced upside down and two fence posts crashed through the windscreen just missing my face, I felt Him advising me that “this is it” - I screamed “No!” at the top of the voice and the car ended right way up in front of a tree and the drivers door opened itself. I walked out with a slight bruise to my elbow, and a killing blow to my ego. I was so sorry for having doubted God and I went to Mass the next Sunday, then 6 months later I met my wife in Lourdes, the rest as they say is history.
I certainly do not wish to downplay your experience. Such things happen to many people, but not all, not by a long shot. I did not have a NDE, per se, even though I was very close to death about 12 years ago. I had a massive heart attack, all the way, to the point that my heart stopped, and I had to be “rebooted” (to use computer lingo :))
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deekod1967:
A skeptic will of course put my “conversation with God” down to adrenalin, endorphins or some other natural high, but I know in my heart that it was real and that is the difference here between you and me.
Yes, to both accounts. I am a skeptic, and yes, that may be the difference.
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deekod1967:
I ask that you allow God to let you know that He is real, this can only be done by letting Him into your heart. Think back on your life, think of the times when things have “just worked out for you” - is that really all down to chance?
Sure. I have a wonderful marriage, but I paid my “dues” up front with usury interest. My first marriage was an absolute disaster. Had I been a Catholic, I might still suffer in that horrible relationship. And no, it could not and would not have changed, except for the worse.
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deekod1967:
Think of the vast majority of people in the world all believing in a God for millenia and now you say that they are they all wrong?
Why not? Our knowledge increases rather slowly, and the majority of the people were wrong the majority of time about the majority of their beliefs. That is hardly surprising.
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deekod1967:
Think of all the stories of “near death” experiences, how they all tie up to talk of “going to the light” - would people really make that up - why?
No, I don’t think that they “made it up”, but what of it? Our brain is a very complex organ, and under such stressful circumstances the neurons can “misfire”.
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deekod1967:
Think of all the miracles that have been verified by medical authorities (i.e Lourdes)…
Sorry, those are not convincing. Different specialists are qualified to make judgment calls in different fields. The specialsts who are qualified to assess “miracles” are the stage magicians. They are the ONLY ones who are trained to see through subterfugue (maybe involuntary ones, but still…).
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deekod1967:
You seem honest in your attempts to seek truth and I appluad you for that. But you need to cast aside your previous notions of God and leave yourself open to the idea that He may actually exist.
I am open to that possibility. But the old adage still stands: “extraordinary claims require extraordinary proofs”.
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deekod1967:
This may be your “wake up call” - what have you to lose?
To answer that we would need a whole new thread. 🙂
 
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deekod1967:
Doomhammer - whoah boy! - your not helping to win any arguments like this.
Hehe, don’t bother with him. It is rather flattering to have someone following you and taking the task of creating a running total of your posts.
 
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Hitetlen:
Why not? Our knowledge increases rather slowly, and the majority of the people were wrong the majority of time about the majority of their beliefs.
thank God we have you, the new “light of the world”
 
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deekod1967:
Doomhammer - whoah boy! - your not helping to win any arguments like this.
just to know with whom you are dealing…
(note: all of your questions to Hitleten have been answered before, on this thread or similar threads).

“It is pride which puffs them up with that vainglory which allows them to regard themselves as the sole possessors of knowledge, and makes them say, elated and inflated with presumption, “We are not as the rest of men,” and which, lest they should seem as other men, leads them to embrace and to devise novelties even of the most absurd kind.” Pascendi Dominici Gregis, St. Pius X, September 8, 1907
 
Hitetlen:

You just can’t seem to figure it out. If life isn’t pain-free, easy, and fully enjoyable, then there cannot be an omnibenevolent God.

All you keep proving is that your sense of logic is insufficient to quantify who or what God is. Certainly if you cannot understand a specific and complex scientific field, you accept the testimony of those who are experts in that field. In other words, you accept their testimony on faith.

Now, if a saint performs a miracle, why can you not take their testimony of God on faith also? Of course, even if medical records are offered to show that a miracle, say of healing, had occured, you would fight the proof with some argument or another, wouldn’t you?

Do you see the dichotomy? You accept science on the testimony of others if you understand the particular science, and on faith of the testifier if you do not. You do not accept God on the testimony of others, whether you understand the particular aspect of God or not.

Thus, there is no efficacy in debate with logic, sense, or reason. The simple truth is, the one called Hitetlen simply does not want to believe in God.

Now, if you can put your faith in fallible men whom you have never met, why is it so hard for you to understand how we can put our faith in an infallible God whom we have met in a spiritual manner?

Thal59
 
Hitetlan, I’m no theologian, sorry.

All I can suggest is that you look clearly at the world as you believe it to be, and think clearly about your reaction to that world. Why do you suffer along with the pain and suffering in the world whether that suffering affects you or not? If this is the world, meaningless and uncaring and if we are a part of this world, why do you feel that something is wrong with suffering that happens on the other side of the globe?

If words like fair, unfair, good, evil have nothing to do with the world as it is, if there is no meaning in the world, why do we, all of us, speak as if things should be fair or unfair, good or evil? Why can’t any of us but sociopaths fit that meaningless reality around us, if it is the one reality that we belong to?

I used to study English lit at a time when deconstructionism was all the rage. Many of my professors believed passionately that words had no intrinsic meaning; that literature had no intrinsic value; that there were no universals. Yet these same professors went to great lengths to make their meaning clear, argued ad nauseum with one another about meaning, spoke more than one language, and communicated successfully about the impossibility of communication with other professors from different cultures.

You remind me a little bit of these professors. You don’t believe there’s meaning in the world, yet you take the trouble to communicate your meaning to us. You don’t believe the universe cares about us, yet you care about others. You don’t believe in morality, yet you call the universe unfair, and you are probably outraged and furious when you see cruelty.

Don’t know…how did a miracle like you appear in a meaningless universe?

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Thal59:
You just can’t seem to figure it out. If life isn’t pain-free, easy, and fully enjoyable, then there cannot be an omnibenevolent God.
Well, that is not exactly what I propose, even though your scenario would be the most logical one to an omnibenevolent being. What I was asking is that how can an omnibenevolent being allow the senseless pain and suffering we see arond us. Simple pain-avoidance is not what I am suggesting.

As for the rest, please take time to read post #40 above. Still, I will explain it detail.
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Thal59:
All you keep proving is that your sense of logic is insufficient to quantify who or what God is. Certainly if you cannot understand a specific and complex scientific field, you accept the testimony of those who are experts in that field. In other words, you accept their testimony on faith.
It depends on what you mean by the word “faith”. Yes, you are correct, I trust the so-called “experts” - but only to a degree, not absolutely. First, the experts must prove that they are worthy of this title. But that is not all, they have to prove it, over and over again, that they are still worthy. Einstein could not accept quantum mechanics in his old age, even though he was an “expert”. If a doctor would give me a diagnosis, which I find suspicious, I would immediately go ask another one. This “faith” as you call it, is vey tenuous, and must be reinforced all the time.
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Thal59:
Now, if a saint performs a miracle, why can you not take their testimony of God on faith also? Of course, even if medical records are offered to show that a miracle, say of healing, had occured, you would fight the proof with some argument or another, wouldn’t you?
Of course I would. When the famous “Fermat’s last theorem” was finally proved, no one accepted it unquestioningly. All the capable mathematicians jumped at it, doing their very best to try and disprove it. So far they failed in their attempts, but they keep trying. In science there is no trust, no faith, only facts and experiments. No one accepts anything on “faith” alone.

If and when a “miracle” will occur in a proper double-blind experiment, conducted by atheist stage magicians, then and only then will I take this miracle seriously.
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Thal59:
Do you see the dichotomy? You accept science on the testimony of others if you understand the particular science, and on faith of the testifier if you do not. You do not accept God on the testimony of others, whether you understand the particular aspect of God or not.
There is no dichotomy. I am skeptical about the experts of science just as much as I am skeptical about the “experts” of religion.
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Thal59:
Thus, there is no efficacy in debate with logic, sense, or reason. The simple truth is, the one called Hitetlen simply does not want to believe in God.
Sigh I explained it so many times before. “Want” has nothing to do with it. To believe or to doubt are not subject to volitional control. One either believes or not.
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Thal59:
Now, if you can put your faith in fallible men whom you have never met, why is it so hard for you to understand how we can put our faith in an infallible God whom we have met in a spiritual manner?
In the post (#40) above I said that I can understand your trust in God. I find your trust a reasonable one. Once someone accepts the premise that an omnimax God exists, that is the logical next step. But to accept that such a being exists, only ironclad proof is sufficient, hearsay, old books, testimonials are not enough.
 
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