I’m a little bothered by the comments referring to indulgences.

Perhaps it’s just me, but I believe God’s love and mercy don’t work that way. The more
I study and write about our catechism, the more I realize that it’s not about anything man can do, has done, or will do. We are loved! End of story!
Then it gets interesting
We are called to respond to that love. So we pray, perform random acts of kindness, learn the faith, share it with others, become virtual vessels of faith in action if you will. Our intention of doing this is not to gain a heavenly reward for being good. It is not to avoid God’s justice. The way we respond to being loved so much is a direct reflection on how we communicate with God and develop our relationship with Him.
Doing things to gain indulgences seems to imply an “if I do this, God will do that” type of relationship. I know in my heart that Jesus didn’t suffer and die for me and all my sins, so I could escape His justice by gaining plenary indulgences. He did it so I would know how much He loves me, and so I would love Him in return. Naturally our response to God’s love could very well lead to exercising plenary acts of indulgence, but my heartfelt response is what determines whether or not I will escape God’s justice.
And if/when I do go to Purgatory, it won’t be a punishment. It will be a cleansing or recovery. Heaven is completely pure and without blemish. It’s only right that I wash up before meeting God face to face. It’s necessary to clean my wounds and let them heal properly before entering the final home of all eternity.
One of my biggest concerns with our faith is all the misplaced guilt that leads us to an unholy fear of God. Recognizing God’s greatness and responding in kind is one thing, but being afraid to live because He might come down and bash us in the head or send us to Hell is neurotic and very unhealthy. We were loved into existence that we might share that love, not to recite rules out of fear that love might not be as great as we know it is.
Just look at the cross, my friends. Does that look like a God who would cast you out on a whim? Jesus on the cross and in the Eucharist, humbly handed to us through the hands of another with no choice of who receives Him, regardless of what is in their hearts, is the God of the Catholic Church. He is the one and only true God, the one that would do anything to save our souls. I really don’t believe we need to be so scared of Him. I think we might be better off just loving Him in return.
Blessings to all

Teresa