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But God does test us. There are many examples of that. Some of those tests can be hard. In other situations He allows things to happen. Take a look at the book of Job!Sayings like this can be cute…but
They’re very dangerous theologically speaking.
God does not “give” us burdens or battles. This kind of thinking leads one to think that God sits up there in heaven and says things like “I’m going to make that one unemployed today” or “I’m going to set that family’s house on fire” or “I’m going to give that one some terrible disease.” It’s a horrible way of thinking about God, when we follow it to the natural conclusion.
No, God does not give us battles or problems. Those things happen. Thinking that God imposes such problems on people is not only superstitious but it says that God is mean, unfair, capricious,…I could go on and on. It’s really a terrible way to think of how God interacts with His people.
These sayings are well-meaning and often very cute and appealing on the surface but they are a horrible way to think about God.
I see it differently.No, God does not give us battles or problems. Those things happen.
No, God does not give us crosses to carry. The world gives us crosses (as metaphors for our problems and trials, of course), not God.I see it differently.
Nothing “just happens”. If so, it would be as if God was not involved in His own creation.
God allows sufferings to come upon us. Just as happened to Our Lord. It wasn’t just a random accident.
Of course, God gives us a Cross to carry. Why would Jesus tell us if we don’t take our Cross we are not worthy of Him?
The Cross is given to us by God. The stronger we are, the heavier the Cross Our Dear Lord blesses us with!![]()
I don’t see God as punishing us. I do see Him preparing us for what lies ahead.No, God does not give us crosses to carry. The world gives us crosses (as metaphors for our problems and trials, of course), not God.
God allows suffering because this world is Fallen in sin. He does not impose suffering on us, certainly not as a consequence of our faith in Him.
I wish you could see that another way to phrase what you posted would be to say that the more faithful we are to God, the more He punishes us for that fidelity.
Suffering does not come from God. It is a consequence of Original Sin. Christ came to relieve our suffering.
So you not see how saying that suffering is imposed on us by God contradicts so much of what we believe?
What you aren’t seeing is this:I don’t see God as punishing us. I do see Him preparing us for what lies ahead.
Bishop Curling helped Mother Theresa with the dark night of the soul that she felt during her lifetime. “Incense always goes upward.” Not everybody is called to work in the streets of Calcutta with the poorest of the poor. During her lifetime, she advised those who felt so called to first look in their own neighborhoods. If they could not endure the work necessary where they were, how could they endure Calcutta? Detroit and New York were just as in need.
At the closing of Mass, we are called to “go and serve the Lord”? In what capacity are we called? Are we called to the front lines, or to serve humbly in the rear? Not everybody is a prophet or leader. The job of the servant who sets out the chairs for a charismatic conference is just as important as the person who proclaims God’s Word from the altar. He just may not be as visible. A doctor in a hospital may diagnose what is wrong with a patient, but every person on the team contributes to helping the person become well again, including the patient. What caused the patient’s illness in the first place was lifestyle, an accident, or germ.
Some of us do face difficult spiritual battles.Does a commander send his soldier into battle unprepared? We have the rosary, and other prayers. We have the Mass, and the indelible marks of the Sacraments. We have the indwelling Spirit by virtue of Confirmation, and whatever gifts that God wishes to provide. He who is in us is greater than he who is in the world.
A soldier also follows lawful orders, and goes where commanded. I am not God, and need not be more than He calls me to be.
Yes, do take a look at the book of Job.But God does test us. There are many examples of that. Some of those tests can be hard. In other situations He allows things to happen. Take a look at the book of Job!
Suffering is a blessing that we can offer to God for ourselves and for others.No, God does not give us crosses to carry. The world gives us crosses (as metaphors for our problems and trials, of course), not God.
God allows suffering because this world is Fallen in sin. He does not impose suffering on us, certainly not as a consequence of our faith in Him.
I wish you could see that another way to phrase what you posted would be to say that the more faithful we are to God, the more He punishes us for that fidelity.
Suffering does not come from God. It is a consequence of Original Sin. Christ came to relieve our suffering.
So you not see how saying that suffering is imposed on us by God contradicts so much of what we believe?
You’re assuming that suffering is necessarily a punishment.I wish you could see that another way to phrase what you posted would be to say that the more faithful we are to God, the more He punishes us for that fidelity.
I think that is precisely what I said.What you aren’t seeing is this:
I am saying that God does not cause the suffering in the world.
What you are addressing is how we react to that suffering, as His people.
I am saying that God does not make one person sick so that another person (ie doctor) can do His work on earth. Neither does God look down and say “that person over there is very faithful to me, therefore I’m going to strike him with some terrible disease.”
We do! That’s exactly what we do in the Anointing of the Sick. We pray for God to deliver us from both sin and suffering, which go hand-in-hand.Suffering is a blessing that we can offer to God for ourselves and for others.
No, I don’t see where suffering is necessarily evil. Our Lord taught us to embrace the Cross. If suffering was evil we would run from it.
Of course, Our Blessed Lord imposes suffering upon us due to our sins.
“God chastises those who He loves”.
We are all thankful that through suffering in Purgatory, we can be purified for heaven.
Suffering is the means that God gave us make to reparation for sin – what a gift!
Jesus lets us share in His Cross - if we are willing.
You’re assuming that suffering is necessarily a punishment.
We can look at the saints - even the most innocent. Look at the martyrs.
I’m sorry to say this but your post expresses a fundamental misunderstanding the gift of the Incarnation.Plus I’m going Way beyond what the slogan says.
It says “God gives his hardest Battles”.
it doesn’t even say suffering.
A battle is not necessarily an evil. It’s not necessarily even a suffering.
I understand your view here, but we need to be careful about identifying a person’s suffering with their own sin. But in any case, why would Satan cause a sinner to suffer? No - he wants the sinner to have joy in doing evil. Suffering is what can turn us away from sin - just as a good parent causes some hurt to the child by disciplining. That hurt prevents more evil in the future. This is pretty basic stuff.We do! That’s exactly what we do in the Anointing of the Sick. We pray for God to deliver us from both sin and suffering, which go hand-in-hand.
You’re making a categorical error here in defining suffering as sickness.If suffering were a blessing, then the Gospels would be filled with examples of Christ going around inflicting pain and illnesses on people. Are you aware that in the Gospels, Christ always (yes, always) heals the sick and never inflicts sickness?
Well, it’s pretty simple and yes, perhaps we’re reading different Gospels (and Epistles since you’ve seemed to miss Hebrews 12), but of course Our Lord caused people to suffer. That’s why they killed Him. Think about it.Are you not aware that in the Gospels Christ frees people from their suffering and illnesses? Really, have you never seen that?
If you didn’t have the suffering, then you couldn’t overcome it, and so you wouldn’t have this blessing.Overcoming the suffering can be a blessing.
The error in what you write is that you are conflating two different things.I understand your view here, but we need to be careful about identifying a person’s suffering with their own sin. But in any case, why would Satan cause a sinner to suffer? No - he wants the sinner to have joy in doing evil. Suffering is what can turn us away from sin - just as a good parent causes some hurt to the child by disciplining. That hurt prevents more evil in the future. This is pretty basic stuff.
You’re making a categorical error here in defining suffering as sickness.
Jesus, as far as the Gospels tell us, never got sick. So, you’re saying He never suffered?
Have you ever had someone insult you? Have you ever had someone humiliate you? Have you ever been rebuked for doing something wrong? If so, would you call those acts of suffering that you endured?
Well, it’s pretty simple and yes, perhaps we’re reading different Gospels (and Epistles since you’ve seemed to miss Hebrews 12), but of course Our Lord caused people to suffer. That’s why they killed Him. Think about it.
If you didn’t have the suffering, then you couldn’t overcome it, and so you wouldn’t have this blessing.
But I understand what you’re saying.
I guess we’ll just have to disagree.
I can see that you didn’t want to address what I had to say.Suffering is not a blessing.
When I say you are blessed to suffer for Christ’s sake – that is a Christian reaction to suffering.a–suffering
b–the Christian reaction to suffering.
You are falsely characterizing what I am saying—greatly so.I can see that you didn’t want to address what I had to say.
Adam & Eve - O Felix culpa
God allowed a universe where there would be temptations and sufferings. As St. Thomas Aquinas explains, “so that greater good would come from it”.
God is all Justice. In allowing his children the possiblity of sin, God also created the possiblity that they would be separated from Him forever. That is the price of freedom - that is the risk that God took in giving humanity integrity and choice to love or not.
You have the mistaken belief that we must do everything we can to avoid suffering on this earth. This is totally false in the Catholic perspective. There are abundant examples among the lives of the saints. Someone mentioned St. Maximillian Kolbe. He was not required to put himself in a gas chamber. He chose suffering willingly - and did not run from it.
I don’t know your background. You sign yourself as “Fr” - that means little to me on an internet forum unless you want to give your name and diocese. I’ve had long discussions when men who claimed to be priests who were invalidly ordained schismatics … and other such things.
So, if you are a real priest (and even if not) - I think it would be best to re-frame your theology so that you bring an appreciation for the value of suffering into it, and get rid of the notion that suffering is universally something to avoid and run from.
Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you.** But rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ**, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed. If you are insulted because of the name of Christ, **you are blessed, for the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you.
** 1 Peter 4:12
So they went on their way from the presence of the Council,** rejoicing **that they had been considered worthy to suffer shame for His name. Acts 5:41
and if children, heirs also, heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ,** if indeed we suffer with Him so that we may also be glorified with Him**. Romans 8:17
that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death; Philippians 3:10
and our hope for you is firmly grounded, knowing that as you are sharers of our sufferings, so also you are sharers of our comfort. 2 Corinthians 1:7
"Blessed are you when people insult you and persecute you, and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of Me. Matt 5:11
Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ’s sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Corinthians 12:10
When I say you are blessed to suffer for Christ’s sake – that is a Christian reaction to suffering.