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coolduude
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Hi all,
I’ve been posting here recently about trying to discern God’s will for my ex girlfriend and I. I don’t want to repeat myself and my history, so here are some links that will fill you in on what you should know; the link in the parenthesis is the respective thread:
forums.catholic-questions.org/showpost.php?p=8013579&postcount=1 (forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=572618)
forums.catholic-questions.org/showpost.php?p=8058216&postcount=1 (forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=572618)
So if you read those (the first link for both will fill you in enough) you should be good with my back-story. But feel free to ask questions
Anyway, I’ve been thinking about His will and I’ve come to think that He is presenting two options to me that are both His will (neither is against His will): One option is that we do get back together. The other is that we don’t. And both of these satisfy His will; one is not better or worse than the other. So it’s up to us (my ex and I) to do what we think is best for us. I am still praying for confirmation or denial that this is indeed His will.
If this stuff doesn’t make sense I can try to explain it clearer.
So with all this in mind, am I over thinking this? Should I just move on? I’m giving this so much thought because I have heard that if one follows God’s will, he will be truly happy here on earth. And I want nothing more than to find happiness, and follow His will in the process, even if it means letting go of this girl for good. Also, my ex and I made it the goal of our entire relationship to determine if we would be suitable marriage partners. I think it ended too early to adequately determine if we could marry or not, but I won’t expand on that right now.
And lastly, I apologize that I’ve been flooding the forums with my relationship posts. My best friend can only do so much for me, thus I turn to you guys
Thank you for giving this a read,
coolduude
Yay! This is my 2,000 post!
I’ve been posting here recently about trying to discern God’s will for my ex girlfriend and I. I don’t want to repeat myself and my history, so here are some links that will fill you in on what you should know; the link in the parenthesis is the respective thread:
forums.catholic-questions.org/showpost.php?p=8013579&postcount=1 (forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=572618)
forums.catholic-questions.org/showpost.php?p=8058216&postcount=1 (forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=572618)
So if you read those (the first link for both will fill you in enough) you should be good with my back-story. But feel free to ask questions
Anyway, I’ve been thinking about His will and I’ve come to think that He is presenting two options to me that are both His will (neither is against His will): One option is that we do get back together. The other is that we don’t. And both of these satisfy His will; one is not better or worse than the other. So it’s up to us (my ex and I) to do what we think is best for us. I am still praying for confirmation or denial that this is indeed His will.
If this stuff doesn’t make sense I can try to explain it clearer.
So with all this in mind, am I over thinking this? Should I just move on? I’m giving this so much thought because I have heard that if one follows God’s will, he will be truly happy here on earth. And I want nothing more than to find happiness, and follow His will in the process, even if it means letting go of this girl for good. Also, my ex and I made it the goal of our entire relationship to determine if we would be suitable marriage partners. I think it ended too early to adequately determine if we could marry or not, but I won’t expand on that right now.
And lastly, I apologize that I’ve been flooding the forums with my relationship posts. My best friend can only do so much for me, thus I turn to you guys
Thank you for giving this a read,
coolduude
Yay! This is my 2,000 post!
