How can we say anything is God’s “will”?
How do we not know it is just “chance” for the good things that happen in our life?
For example, when people say, “Oh, it was God’s will that such-and-such occurred/did not occur,” how can we believe that? What if it was just a random chance?
This is not an easy question to answer. The mere fact something happens does not mean God wanted it to happen.
I’ve had a fair number of spiritual experiences of one sort or another. A couple of years after I became a Christian, I had a vision where someone appeared to me and said, “Mr. Missenden is going to come to you with a job offer. I want you to take it.” In the vision I argued back, stating that I’d just come out of a unstable situation and now has a government job. The other party stated that if I stayed where I was, there would be a conspiracy against me and I’d lose my job.
I basically ignored the vision and forgot about it. But a few weeks later, the pastor, the above Rev. Missenden came to me and said, “A person I know who works with disabled people asked me if I knew of any good administrators, and I thought about you. There wouldn’t be much money in it, but I think you’d be happier there.” Then he added, “I think that if you stay where you are, there’ll be a conspiracy against you and you’ll lose your job.”
To cut a long story short I didn’t take the job and about ten years later I lost my job. I have reason to believe there was a conspiracy, including at least one pastor, a member of the Dutch Reformed Church, and other parties.
Yet the pastor at a later time said to me in his office, “I think that was an important decision”, with the implication that I’d missed an important boat. However he then went on to say, “I hold myself partly responsible. You were a new Christian at the time, And I think you’d have had trouble down the track anyway.”
I asked him why he thought I’d have trouble.
He replied, “I think you’ll become Catholic and it’s mainly a Protestant outfit. So I think that eventually you still would have lost your job.”
So there it is. I didn’t take the job, and I did lose the position I held some time later. I think God wanted me to take the job. However due to a lot of very frustrating events, I don’t really trust God. In fact, a few years after the pastor’s death, I had a vision one night where someone said to him, “He doesn’t trust me!” To which the pastor replied, “Now that you’ve shown me all this, I don’t blame him! You expect him to do all these things, and you treat him like this!”
For a start I have a 3/4 hearing loss, I was bullied for 20 years by an abusive father, I’ve had all my efforts to do the right thing at home, school, work and even my original Protestant Church thrown back in my face. So I don’t trust God.
Take it or leave it. But God does have a will. But just because something happens or doesn’t happen, doesn’t mean that it was God’s specific will or desire. Some things are very definitely NOT His will. Evil things are the devil’s will. But God allows these things to happen, and can use even evil things for good, for those who trust Him, to quote Paul.
The problem is that He can make it very hard to trust Him. Believe me.