Going From Catholic Schools to Public Schools

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The public schools in this area are reported to be good. I don’ know I have not had any first hand experience. Is it true that God cannot be mentioned in public schools at all?I wish the voucher system could have been approved. Seems very unfair that we pay such high school mandate taxes and don’t benefit from that and then have to shill out for tuition for Catholic schools and get no tax benefits etc. Even with children in college, when filling out the FAFSA they do not take into consideration the amount of money one has to pay for Catholic schools. I was told that was my choice. The big family cannot seem to win in any direction.
 
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Halo:
Is it true that God cannot be mentioned in public schools at all?.
This is a touchy subject and varies greatly from one district to another, and even from one school to another. In my public school experience, teachers are allowed to talk about religion as long as they do not appear to be trying to preach. Prayer in class is strictly forbidden. I have seen public high schools where religious clubs are allowed, and even invite faculty to come to their meetings to speak, lead prayers, and so on and nobody complains. I have also seen schools where the student handbook expressly forbids gatherings of teachers and students on or off campus for religious purposes, unless a teacher just happens to attend the same place of worship as a student. In my high school classroom, I usually take my cues from my students (within the boundaries set by my profession) when it comes to discussing religion, because many of my students and their families identifiy themselves as Catholics or some other variety of Christian… Last year, when the new Pope was chosen, I mentioned the fact to my students as they were arriving for class, and was immediately pepered with questions about who can be the Pope, what he does, how he is selected, and so on. I spent some time answering these to the best of my ability. I have to say they were more attentive to that impromptu discussion than they were to many other things we talked about that semester!
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Halo:
I wish the voucher system could have been approved. Seems very unfair that we pay such high school mandate taxes and don’t benefit from that and then have to shill out for tuition for Catholic schools and get no tax benefits etc. Even with children in college, when filling out the FAFSA they do not take into consideration the amount of money one has to pay for Catholic schools. I was told that was my choice. The big family cannot seem to win in any direction.
I don’t know if I would want to see public school vouchers go to private (especially Catholic) schools. This is not because of any desire to protect the public system. In fact, I think it would be nice to have the competition. The fact is, I do not trust the secular government to leave the schools alone if they accept its money. Catholic schools are able to operate as they do because they are privately funded. There was a church in the Diocese of Sacramento that fired a teacher recently for her involvement in Planned Parenthood. I doubt the state could refrain from interfering in that sort of thing if the school was funded by taxpayer dollars.

I think it would make more sense if parents recieved tax refunds equal (or at least close) to the amount they pay annually in private tuition for their K-12 student, or at least equal to the amount that the public system would use to educate the child, if he or she were attending the local public school. That way, parents have a little less financial strain, an the government keeps its grubby paws out of religious schools.
 
We pulled our son out of a fantastic public elementary after second grade and homeschooled him for third grade. Now we have had the chance to fully investigate all the catholic schools in the area and are very happy with the one we have found. We are by no means rich, but we are willing to make the sacrifices necessary to send our four kids to a school where they will not feel like lepers if they show their beliefs openly.

How many adults can say that they openly and ardently express their Catholicism in public or at work, but never the less expect a child to overcome peer pressure and do just that in an environment that’s hostile toward any religious expression?

I’m not sure about other parts of the country, but here in SE Michigan there are many schools to choose from, especially if one is willing to get the kids to a school a few miles away. And as for the Catholic high schools, there are several that are $8000 a year and more, but the quality of the college prep education is beyond anything that the public schools have to offer. At $5000 per year we have a great Catholic high school just up the road that offers several AP classes, foreign language, and a great sports program to keep the kids active and involved. Science labs and everything else.

As for Church teaching on where we should send our children, I haven’t checked the current Catechism, but the Baltimore Catechism that everyone used to use states emphatically that kids are to be put in Catholic schools if at all possible. If the Catholic community at large supported the schools more vigorously, tuition would be lower for everyone.

Basically, put in the effort to find a orthodox Catholic school, make the sacrifices necessary to send your kids there, and live the faith at home every day!
 
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Halo:
Is it true that God cannot be mentioned in public schools at all?
Each State runs the schools, so there is no cookie cutter “public school”. Each district has a unique school board - we have had our son in 4 districts/2 states, not one of those schools have been like the monster public schools I see described on some forums…

The public school where he now goes, the Gideons give out Bibles, they have “meet me at the flagpole” day, they have abstinance week, they have prayer in the locker room before sporting events, every teacher is a professing Christian, they have “Left Behind” books in the school library! My son has no problem praying before meals, skipping meat on Fridays in Lent, wearing his Ash Wed ashes, being dismissed when needed for Mass or other Church activities. He wears pro-life T-Shirts and stickers. It is a very good school, he is in 3 AP classes.

Look at the school, at the community, and that will give you an idea of how the climate will be…
 
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My question is this. What should I say when the kids confide in me about it, and should I remain silent to their parents about this? What does the Church say about this topic? Is there any documentation discussing this?
I would ask the kids if they want you to talk to the parents for them.

What does the Church say about it?(I did not read all responses so maybe someone else already posted this.)

I found this in ask the Apologist: Catholic Education it includes the documentation for the answer.

God Bless,
Maria
 
My son who is a senior was not allowed back at his Catholic high school his senior year due to his grades(he had been in Catholic school since Kindergarten) he went to public school and it is the best thing that has ever happened to him. I flushed $15,000 down the drain at the Catholic high school in my opinion. Not only is the spiritual aspect absent in this particular Catholic high school but it is college prep - they are not interested in kids that are below average students. My son is a happier more well adjusted child in public school and they value the fact that maybe college isn’t going to be his track (he is going to work for a contractor this summer in hopes of learning to build homes).

My sophomore son last night told me he hates going to that same Catholic high school. We haven’t sent the deposit for next year and probably won’t! I work 2 jobs to pay tuition and are still behind!

For all those who are “afraid” of the public schools just spend some time around the public school kids. I know we didn’t because we were very isolated away from these kids. You will find the same problems with drugs, drinking, sexual promiscuity in Catholic schools. I teach my kids about our Catholic Faith because frankly, the Catholic school does a fair job at best in this area.

If I sound a little bitter, I am. But believe me, I’m much better now then I was when my son was “kicked out” of the Catholic school. God works in mysterious ways!
 
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