Ok, here is the update!
I went today. I did not take my family because I am the one emotionally invested in this and they are not. I was curious. Before I get started on my observation. No, I did not receive communion. The day before I talked to a priest (not SSPX) about going to see it and to experience the EF. He cautiously counseled me. So I felt ok. The Chapel was small but it was kept up. What surprised me was the younger age of the parishioners. Half were young families in their 20s or 30s. I was very impressed by 2 things.
1 The absolute reverence and respect shown by the parishioners. I have not seen that at that level in a Mass ever.
2 The homily was the best I have heard in a few years.
My family and I could never regualry attend.
I told her it was like homeschool.
We homeschool but we arent THAT kind of homeschooling family.
We like tradition but we arent THAT kind of traditionalist.
There was a little bit of a creepy factor but I like to attribute that to the fact that I was seeing something for the first time. I had no difficulty with following along.
I contrasted this experience by attending my regular Mass with my family later in the day. the āyouth Massā Which was strangely not as crazy as usual probably because our rock band was on tour (the teens went to a stubbinville conference.)
Both Masses were special in their own way.
If they are regularized I really think they could help fill a need especially in our diocese. And I could see going occasionally. Again, the homily was amazing and will definitely give me something to chew on for a while.
As for the atmosphere. It was pretty normal. Picture of the Pope in the hall, Vatican flag up by the altar. Heck, I cant find either of those two things in our Cathedral.
One thing I found currious was the posted directions for receiving Communion. They stated that you had to be a member of the Roman Catholic Church which I thought was odd because there are other rites. And that by direction of the Church you had to observe an hour fast though they would like it to be three. The reason I found this currious is that I believe that the āhourā rule is a Post V2 thing and it would seem encouraging that they are recognizing that as a legitimate authority.
There was no rabble rousing or references to the āmodernist Churchā so that is a good thing!
All in all it was an interesting experience.