Ok people… since “coming back” to Catholicism a couple of years back I have wanted to attend a Latin Mass…
I plan to do this before I go on my “mini-pilgrimage”… in doing so I need your advice…
on what you might ask? well… any websites to check out traditional Latin Masses… what to expect… is there something special I should do?.. what can I expect?..
its like going on a trip to a place you’ve always heard about but never quite got to visit…
thanks so much!
Blessed be God!!!
I recently-- two Sundays ago-- attended my first extraordinary rite mass.
It was a very pleasant experience, and I’m going to try to go weekly.
My experience was this-- it’s pretty much impossible to follow along perfectly the first time.
Don’t worry. Be attentive and be prayerful. Throw yourself into the wonderful sense of silence which the extraordinary rite, in my opinion, is so good at doing. If you miss prayers, it’s no big deal. It’s a mass, and it’s objectively fruitful regardless of what you do. As long as you are being attentive and not day-dreaming, you’re fine.
You’ll learn that some things are different. The priest has many more silent prayers than in the ordinary rite. This will throw you off. It’s possible that you’ll miss the entire consecration, until he elevates the host or bells start ringing. I did.

Incidentally, that’s why those things exist-- to clue you in to it.
The best way to gauge what the priest is doing-- since you won’t
hear him most of the time, is by his actions. For instance, the prayers have specific actions which the priest will do-- combinations of varying types of bows, genuflections, signs of the cross and hand movements. This is totally impracticable to learn at first, or even at second. But missals
tend to show these along with the prayers.
So, again, I recommend this-- relax (in other words don’t fret or be anxious), attempt to follow along, but don’t kill yourself when you get lost. If you do get lost, maybe find a vocal prayer or motion which you can latch on to, which should be coming up, and be prayerful in the interim.
Of course, it will probably prepare you to peruse the order of the mass once or twice before going so that you can identify prayers (when you hear the latin words), and other things like that. But the best method of learning is doing it. God bless, and best of luck.