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Check out the South in general. Faithful Catholics are getting out of ‘Dodge’ (liberal North) and heading South.
Before a student can gain admittance, he or she must have a parish family agreement, signed by the student, by a parent, and by the family’s pastor. The agreement promises that the family will be active stewards in the parish. Weekly Sunday Mass attendance is expected, as well as participation in religious education classes and other parish life activities. On rare occasions, when a student or a student’s parents stop participating in parish life, a pastor will withdraw the agreement, and the student will be removed from the school.
According to Voboril, many of the schools are filled to capacity, and it can be very difficult for a family to enroll children without a parish family agreement.
It happens, infrequently, according to Burris, that a family may drop out of a parish “from the standpoint of being active stewards, and not be actively involved in time, talent and treasure commitments.” Under those circumstances, a student may be asked to leave the school. “It’s a sad day for us at the school,” he said.
Nielsen said, “I’ve had examples where parents have said, ‘Well, I can’t get a parish family agreement because I’m not going to church.’ Yet, they want their child to receive Catholic education, and they might say, ‘Well, I’ll pay you $8,000 in cash.’ ” (Tuition at Bishop Carroll High School for those without the parish family agreement is approximately $7,000 per year.)
“I would put them on the waiting list. They say, ‘Well, can I just pay $8,000? That’s not a problem.’ And I would say, ‘That’s not what’s important here. What’s important is that you are an active Catholic member.’ ”
In that situation, she said, “You feel bad and wonder, Are you punishing the child?”
According to Msgr. Tom McGread, who was instrumental in the founding of stewardship in the diocese, “The big question is, What good would Catholic education do for them if they don’t get support at home? That’s the big problem.”
Many parents in Wichita and elsewhere want their children educated in Catholic schools because, according to Voboril, “they’re stronger academically, better disciplined, and they’re safer. Now I think all that is true of our schools, but people here know that if you are going to get into our schools, whatever reason you come for, our schools exist to form disciples of Jesus Christ.”
The students in the schools, according to Voboril, are an astounding 98 percent Catholic. The non-Catholic students are often the children of teachers. The great majority of teachers are also Catholic.
As someone in the liberal North, I can see why, and I’ve been contemplating it myself lately. Many of the states here have beautiful scenery, architecture, and culture (what’s left of it anyway), however the people themselves are more often than not rotten. Those realities become immediately apparent to Southerners who move here… The ones I’ve spoken to have said as much. I don’t see the situation in the North getting better any time soon, so I probably will move once I’m financially able to do so.Check out the South in general. Faithful Catholics are getting out of ‘Dodge’ (liberal North) and heading South.
Could you elaborate on this? What constitutes “rotten”? And what “realities” are you referring to?however the people themselves are more often than not rotten. Those realities become immediately apparent to Southerners who move here… The ones I’ve spoken to have said as much.
If I were in your shoes, I would simply pray to our Lord for guidance. Go where He wants you to go. Trust in his guidance and providence.Strictly from a Catholic perspective, which of the following six cities would you prefer to move to and why?
If you accounted for other conditions (weather, jobs, housing), would your answer change?
- Charlotte, NC
- Durham, NC
- Fort Worth, TX
- Huntsville, AL
- Lexington, KY
- Tyler, TX
I posted this in the Traditional Catholicism board and not Catholic Living because I was looking for particular feedback, but please move/delete if this is inappropriate.
And is it a faithful, orthodox Parish?And there is also St. Matthew, the largest parish in the US.
Oh yes, there’s that daily. And I was inspired to post here.If I were in your shoes, I would simply pray to our Lord for guidance. Go where He wants you to go. Trust in his guidance and providence.
Yes, I’m not terribly into large cities either…but work. If you have recommendations for smaller cities with robust economies, we’re all earsOf those listed I’d probably choose Charlotte. But I have no plans on moving anymore.
Tampa, FLNone of these six cities appeal to me.
Can’t we please see the name of the city behind curtain number seven?
Thanks for all the details. I love Colorado, Utah, Idaho, etc. but high elevations make everyone in the family quite ill. We’d tried it and couldn’t ever adjust.I used to live in Colorado, the diocese of Colorado Springs is pretty nice, with a booming Catholic population too might I add! There’s a nice Traditional Latin Mass parish run by FSSP there in the southern part of the city.
I’m sorry, but that word left my vocabulary six years ago.Yes, I’m not terribly into large cities either…but work. If you have recommendations for smaller cities with robust economies, we’re all ears