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KarenNC
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Desert,
You miss the point. The point I was trying to make was that I have relatives who are just as messed up as netmil(name removed by moderator)'s niece and her family, but they claim Christianity. Perhaps not Catholicism, but Christianity nonetheless. I speak out of personal experience with multiple people, just as netmils mom does.
I am capable of recognizing that their problems are not Christianity in its entirety, much less monotheism in its entirety. I have said so on many occasions in this forum and thread. I do not use their poor judgement and behavior to justify hurling denigrating insults at everyone who claims to be a Christian under the guise of trying to “help them learn to be better people” or to deny evidence presented to me by people in the Christian community that my experiences may not be the norm.
I recognize that there are people who claim adherence to every religion who are immature, gullible, deceptive, immoral, looking for a power trip, emotionally or psychologically in need of help or just so desperate they will hang onto and believe anything, hearing only what they want to hear. Sometimes they even make it into leadership positions, more’s the pity. There are people who have a distorted view (even in the opinion of their fellow believers) of what their religion teaches.
I also recognize that there are people in every religion who are not any of those things.
The relatives I described (and these are real individuals in my life in real situations, not “categories”) are not what I consider to be normative Christians (Christians who represent the standard or “average” Christian worldwide), much less the ideal of Christianity nor the only possible description of anyone who calls him or herself Christian. I fully realize that they have a distorted view of what I believe Jesus and the Bible taught about being Christian and what most Christians would understand as being Christian.
The point is ** it’s the people, not the religion**.
I wish I could “fix” my relatives, too, just as much as netmil(name removed by moderator) wants someone to “fix” her niece. It is heartbreaking to watch people you care for follow what you believe to be a self-destructive or willingly self-deceptive path, whatever the cause, and know that, in the end, the only ones that can make a decision to change are themselves. (I also know that they consider I am doing so–the families of many Christian converts did/do, too)
Wicca and other Neopagan religions are indeed “popular” right now and have been given lurid stereotypical misrepresentations by the media, usually either demonized or overly romanticized (gosh, that’s never happened to any other group!
). That makes it look “cool” and potentially attractive to those who want an excuse to act immaturely, dishonorably or irresponsibly, as well as those who mistakenly believe the media portrayals are accurate. I imagine there were teens in Rome drawing fish symbols, wearing crosses and claiming to be Christian to shock their parents or get out of going to the “boring old sacrifices” as well.
There is not a governing body out there scrutinizing every publication by or presentation of Wicca or other Neopagan religions, any more than there is in Christianity. Go take a look at some of the more “out there” books in Christian bookstores today. Christianity has had 2000 years for a universally consistent approach to develop and it hasn’t happened yet. Wicca has had about 50. Give it time
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There are many charlatans claiming to be leaders in the Neopagan community just as there are in the Christian one and I have no problem with denouncing them or them being criticized. There is nothing in my religion that prevents me from saying I believe something is wrong simply because someone chooses to attach the label “Neopagan” to it. I don’t think Christianity or Catholicism forbids that either, at least not based on these forums
. “Shade tree preachers” are not a phenomenon unique to Neopaganism.
Just because Jimmy Swaggart exists, claims what he claims and does what he does in the name of Christianity, should I equate you, the Pope or Billy Graham with him? I don’t think so. I may not agree with the theology of the Pope, you or Billy Graham, but I don’t automatically write any of you off as losers, charlatans or nutcases.
If you used to follow these sorts of preachers and say you did so with judgement and discernment, I am glad you showed more sense than my relatives. Actually, I am even willing to admit that some of these preachers may have helped a few people along the way without benefitting monetarily, if that has been your experience.
I have read the Bible in its entirety many times, including the Apocrypha (not as many times). That’s why I call these preachers charlatans. I find their message and approach totally inconsistent with the book and deity they claim to follow.
Hmm, if you think my stuff is worth being printed out, maybe I should write a book and make the “big bucks,” joining all those other Neopagan writers on their private planes and yachts?
You miss the point. The point I was trying to make was that I have relatives who are just as messed up as netmil(name removed by moderator)'s niece and her family, but they claim Christianity. Perhaps not Catholicism, but Christianity nonetheless. I speak out of personal experience with multiple people, just as netmils mom does.
I am capable of recognizing that their problems are not Christianity in its entirety, much less monotheism in its entirety. I have said so on many occasions in this forum and thread. I do not use their poor judgement and behavior to justify hurling denigrating insults at everyone who claims to be a Christian under the guise of trying to “help them learn to be better people” or to deny evidence presented to me by people in the Christian community that my experiences may not be the norm.
I recognize that there are people who claim adherence to every religion who are immature, gullible, deceptive, immoral, looking for a power trip, emotionally or psychologically in need of help or just so desperate they will hang onto and believe anything, hearing only what they want to hear. Sometimes they even make it into leadership positions, more’s the pity. There are people who have a distorted view (even in the opinion of their fellow believers) of what their religion teaches.
I also recognize that there are people in every religion who are not any of those things.
The relatives I described (and these are real individuals in my life in real situations, not “categories”) are not what I consider to be normative Christians (Christians who represent the standard or “average” Christian worldwide), much less the ideal of Christianity nor the only possible description of anyone who calls him or herself Christian. I fully realize that they have a distorted view of what I believe Jesus and the Bible taught about being Christian and what most Christians would understand as being Christian.
The point is ** it’s the people, not the religion**.
I wish I could “fix” my relatives, too, just as much as netmil(name removed by moderator) wants someone to “fix” her niece. It is heartbreaking to watch people you care for follow what you believe to be a self-destructive or willingly self-deceptive path, whatever the cause, and know that, in the end, the only ones that can make a decision to change are themselves. (I also know that they consider I am doing so–the families of many Christian converts did/do, too)
Wicca and other Neopagan religions are indeed “popular” right now and have been given lurid stereotypical misrepresentations by the media, usually either demonized or overly romanticized (gosh, that’s never happened to any other group!
There is not a governing body out there scrutinizing every publication by or presentation of Wicca or other Neopagan religions, any more than there is in Christianity. Go take a look at some of the more “out there” books in Christian bookstores today. Christianity has had 2000 years for a universally consistent approach to develop and it hasn’t happened yet. Wicca has had about 50. Give it time
There are many charlatans claiming to be leaders in the Neopagan community just as there are in the Christian one and I have no problem with denouncing them or them being criticized. There is nothing in my religion that prevents me from saying I believe something is wrong simply because someone chooses to attach the label “Neopagan” to it. I don’t think Christianity or Catholicism forbids that either, at least not based on these forums
Just because Jimmy Swaggart exists, claims what he claims and does what he does in the name of Christianity, should I equate you, the Pope or Billy Graham with him? I don’t think so. I may not agree with the theology of the Pope, you or Billy Graham, but I don’t automatically write any of you off as losers, charlatans or nutcases.
If you used to follow these sorts of preachers and say you did so with judgement and discernment, I am glad you showed more sense than my relatives. Actually, I am even willing to admit that some of these preachers may have helped a few people along the way without benefitting monetarily, if that has been your experience.
I have read the Bible in its entirety many times, including the Apocrypha (not as many times). That’s why I call these preachers charlatans. I find their message and approach totally inconsistent with the book and deity they claim to follow.
Hmm, if you think my stuff is worth being printed out, maybe I should write a book and make the “big bucks,” joining all those other Neopagan writers on their private planes and yachts?