Good one-liners on Modesty?

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Does anyone know any good short quotes about modesty? I’m looking to give some thoughts ahead of Halloween, which in my area is an excuse for young women to go out on the town in lingerie, apparently. I’m especially looking for something which appeals to feminist-minded individuals–Bible quotes are not terribly effective for someone intent on walking down the street wearing heels and underwear.
 
Aren’t you cold?

Does your mom know that you’re wearing that?

I don’t have many one liners but isn’t it interesting how young ladies will dress for halloween? My daughter (15) went looking for a costume for a halloween/birthday party and she could not believe the immodest choices. It must be an opportunity for those who fantasize about dressing that way and know that they probably shouldn’t during the rest of the year. That should say something in itself…teachccd
 
It does boggle my mind. Women really must not realize what goes through our heads. Actually, what I’m looking for is something to post on Facebook before the girls finalize their costumes.
 
It is not charitable to make snide comments on a stranger’s wardrobe.

There is the story of an old priest who was with some other parishioners when a very scantily clad woman came by. The parishioners began to say “did you see that woman :eek:” to which Father replied “yes, she has such lovely eyes”.

Find the beauty. Find the good
 
Does anyone know any good short quotes about modesty? I’m looking to give some thoughts ahead of Halloween, which in my area is an excuse for young women to go out on the town in lingerie, apparently. I’m especially looking for something which appeals to feminist-minded individuals–Bible quotes are not terribly effective for someone intent on walking down the street wearing heels and underwear.
All that is valuable is kept protected…

maybe you can derive something from the following;

“…Because of the woman’s dignified status among God’s creatures, women have grave responsibilities. Through their roles as wives and mothers, women help bring about the perfection of the human race in Christ…”

Deut. 22:5 – “A woman shall not wear anything that pertains to a man, nor shall a man put on a woman’s garment; for whoever does these things is an abomination to the Lord your God.”
While we are no longer under the legal canons of the Old Covenant, the New Covenant incorporates their holy principles. To that end, women should think twice about wearing pants, trousers and other articles of clothing that “pertains to a man.” Such clothing obscures her feminine identity and plays to a wicked society that wants women to usurp the authority of men.

Lev. 18:17 – “You shall not uncover the nakedness of a woman and of her daughter, and you shall not take her son’s daughter or her daughter’s daughter to uncover her nakedness.” When women dress immodestly (showing their legs, stomachs, and even more), they are uncovering their nakedness to a fallen world and leading people into serious sin. To the extent women intend to sexually excite others by their immodest dress, they are guilty of mortal sin.

Prov. 11:22 – “Like a gold ring in a swine’s snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.” That is, a woman’s true beauty is her inner beauty, the sacred and mysterious creature that God has made. When she dresses without discretion, she mars her true beauty, and becomes a swine.

Rom. 12:1-2 – Paul commands us to present our bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God which is our spiritual worship. Our bodies are temples of the Holy Ghost which we offer to God through prayer, fasting and other self-mortifications, which include dressing modestly and living chastely.

Gal. 5:16,23 – Paul says “walk by the Spirit and do not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to prevent you from doing what you would. But the fruit of the Spirit is…chastity.” Those who wish to invoke the desires of the flesh by their immodest dress are opposed to the Holy Spirit. They commit grave sin against God and their neighbor.

1 John 2:16 – “Live as free men, yet without using your freedom as a pretext for evil, but live as servants of God.” Woman cannot use their beautiful bodies as a pretext for evil (that is, to sexually tempt men) without committing serious sin. Such women are not “servants of God,” but “servants of Satan.”

Rom. 6:13 – “Do not yield your members to sin as instruments of wickedness, but yield yourselves to God as men who have been brought from death to life, and your members to God as instruments of righteousness.” Again, Paul teaches that the body can be used for good or evil. Women must cover themselves so that their bodies are not instruments of wickedness, leading weak men into sin.

1 Cor. 11:14-15 – “Does not nature itself teach you that for a man to wear long hair is degrading to him, but if a woman has long hair, it is her pride? For her hair is given to her for a covering.” Throughout Scripture, that which is sacred is “veiled.” Thus, as sacred vessels of life, women are to be veiled in modest dress, as well as when praying or prophesying (see 1 Cor. 11:4-16).

1 Cor. 6:9-10 – Paul says that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God. These include those practice immorality, which includes immodest dress. Immodesty in dress shocks the honest man and offends Almighty God. See also Eph. 5:5
1 Cor. 6:19-20 – “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, which you have from God? You are not your own; you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” See also 1 Cor. 3:16-17. Women who dress like harlots are glorifying the devil, not God, in their bodies. Paul says that we must do all for the glory of God (1 Cor. 10:31).

Matt. 5:28 – Jesus says “everyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” But this is a two-way street. If women dress modestly, this temptation is mitigated. If not, this temptation is enhanced. Both the woman who dresses to attract lust, and the man who gives into the lust, are culpable before God.

Matt. 5:29 – Jesus follows His teaching on committing adultery in the heart by saying “If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and throw it away; it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell.” Again, Jesus clearly teaches that we can sin mortally with our eyes, and this often happens when men lust after immodestly-dressed women. Men are responsible for having “custody of the eyes,” but women are responsible for helping them maintain that custody. Job 31:1 – “I have made a covenant with my eyes; how then could I look upon a virgin?” Men must resolve to not look lustfully upon women, and women must not dress in a way that will arouse these temptations in men.

continued at;

scripturecatholic.com/modest_dress.html
 
It is not charitable to make snide comments on a stranger’s wardrobe.

There is the story of an old priest who was with some other parishioners when a very scantily clad woman came by. The parishioners began to say “did you see that woman :eek:” to which Father replied “yes, she has such lovely eyes”.

Find the beauty. Find the good
Certainly not my intent! I just want to give people something to think about ahead of time.
 
The best one I have heard was either here or on another forum. A woman said her mother always told her “Don’t display what isn’t for sale.” 😉
 
It is not charitable to make snide comments on a stranger’s wardrobe.

There is the story of an old priest who was with some other parishioners when a very scantily clad woman came by. The parishioners began to say “did you see that woman :eek:” to which Father replied “yes, she has such lovely eyes”.

Find the beauty. Find the good
Nor is it charitable for women to dress half naked or near naked in order to draw attention to themselves Modesty is charitable; Immodesty is not.
 
I was listening to a Mother Angelica tape last week. She commented on seeing an eighty year old woman in a miniskirt six inches above her knee. Mother said she commented to the sisters with her, “I don’t know what she expects to happen - but I bet it doesn’t.” 😃
 
It is not charitable to make snide comments on a stranger’s wardrobe.

There is the story of an old priest who was with some other parishioners when a very scantily clad woman came by. The parishioners began to say “did you see that woman :eek:” to which Father replied “yes, she has such lovely eyes”.

Find the beauty. Find the good
To an extent that’s true, but I believe the call to introspection present in a remark such as “aren’t you cold?” seems appropriate- the answer to your question is yes, and yet she choose to wear clothing that had less utility than other options, so the next question would be why. There’s nothing snide there- however, “You must be lost, the brothel is over on 26th street” might be a bit much.
 
It isn’t a one liner, but I heard THE best encouragement for modesty on Relevant radio a week or two ago.

The speaker (a former model) was pointing out something to the effect that a woman’s face is THE most direct visual window into her soul, her very being. When a woman dresses in such a way as to direct men’s eyes away from that and towards another part of her body, she is saying

“I don’t like what is inside me and you probably won’t either. Why don’t you look at this other part of me instead? You might like that.”

Devastatingly true of many women today. Don’t give up on yourselves ladies. Us guys ain’t all that perfect on the inside either. You might be surprised at how many guys like what they find in your PERSON, not just your body.
 
It isn’t a one liner, but I heard THE best encouragement for modesty on Relevant radio a week or two ago.

The speaker (a former model) was pointing out something to the effect that a woman’s face is THE most direct visual window into her soul, her very being. When a woman dresses in such a way as to direct men’s eyes away from that and towards another part of her body, she is saying

“I don’t like what is inside me and you probably won’t either. Why don’t you look at this other part of me instead? You might like that.”

Devastatingly true of many women today. Don’t give up on yourselves ladies. Us guys ain’t all that perfect on the inside either. You might be surprised at how many guys like what they find in your PERSON, not just your body.
I like that. 👍
 
When i was 18 I wore what I thought was a dress-length sweater, and opaque dark tights, to campus to hang out with my friends in the sun. I felt stylish until I looked in a shop window – and discovered that my sweater wasn’t dress-length – and my nylons weren’t totally opaque, either.:eek: I went home in a real hurry and thought a long time about the outfit and how not to do that again.
It doesn’t help that fashion advertising shows a V-neck to the navel and teetering spiked heels and describes the look that results as “smart… professional… classic… cozy… cute…” It takes a lifetime for a woman to figure out that that’s not actually the message of the clothes in the ads. By then it’s a little late.
Costume parties leave most young women with the impression that it’s all pretend, and therefore any loss of dignity and any effect on men will also be only make-believe. It takes maturity to understand that some things are real even in a costume context. But by that time we hardly ever go to those parties anymore, and aren’t there to say anything tot hose who don’t understand yet.🤷
 
There was another thread here on CAF about modesty, in which someone linked to an article about modesty. There was a statement in the article that a woman who dresses immodestly is saying that the best thing about her is her body. 😦
 
The best one I have heard was either here or on another forum. A woman said her mother always told her “Don’t display what isn’t for sale.” 😉
Are a woman’s face, hair, and neck for sale then? I don’t think women need to wear burkas.
 
It is not charitable to make snide comments on a stranger’s wardrobe.

There is the story of an old priest who was with some other parishioners when a very scantily clad woman came by. The parishioners began to say “did you see that woman :eek:” to which Father replied “yes, she has such lovely eyes”.

Find the beauty. Find the good
👍👍👍
 
I use this with teenage girls (7th & 8th graders) to gently let them know how to dress:

Ladies, please make sure Victoria has a few secrets left.

Usually gets the point across.
 
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