Now I must confess this thread has garnered much more attention than I had anticipated, but I actually had the curiosity to see where this goes. But this is a question I ask myself quite often because I have same sex attraction, there ain’t much I could have done to change and I’m guessing god doesn’t offer refunds or exchanges for crosses he gives us. But I’ve done resolved to live a life of chastity because
- I love my faith and want to live true to it
- I love my family and don’t want to shame or hurt them
- I’m quite prude
- I respect the sacrament that help make me
But the most compelling reasons for me were religious, cultural and personal preference and none of the reasons strongly secular. And I’m going to be honest it’s not an easy cross to bear, but god gave us free will to accept or reject his grace. My problem is that if gay unions are wrong, unnatural, bad for society etc. well I can point out a bakers dozens of morally reprehensible things that are legal under the law on the top of my head. Case and point the infamous Virgin Mary elephant poo icon. But we don’t pass laws against them as rancid as they are, because I think we acknowledge the freedom to fall from grace. For what wisdom is the cross if we only begrudgingly accept it because it is forced on us? Anyway that’s just my take on it, but if I had to vote I would defend marriage because of my reasons listed above and not because the secular reasons discussed above. To me they are very weak in the eyes of the legal system and honestly we’re taking a pretty big butt whooping in a lot of demographics