I would second the advice, although it will be clear that what I am giving is far more than regurgitation. Even though I study the Greek, I can make mistakes and there is always more to learn about scripture. This particular passage is one where I think a mistake/copyist error might have occurred from the original, or at very least a tricky way of stating something has happened that is worth considering carefully just because it is odd.
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The words specific for “carpenter” does not show up in the sentence, rather a word that could mean at most “skilled artisian” does. I say this because I have exhaustively checked all scriptural Greek for that word, and clearly the word is used for metal-workers, and other highly skilled craftsman. In that sense, it is strange to see the word “carpenter” used in English. This is not what the Greek says, but it is what tradition says Joseph was. The actual word is “tekt-On”, where the long O is for Omega and not omicron, if you get into an apologetics discussion. This isn’t a simple masculine single word; in my translation I used a vague word “of-the-children” because of that difference, which allows it to be a pun.
For now, just consider that the word’s spelling is best understood as “craftsmen” in the
plural and that can be defended the most strongly in simple apologetics. The word is much like the English borrow words: TECHnical, ArchiTECT, and TECHnician.

But to give a hint as to why I chose a different word – consider that these apolgetics about words are mere “childs-play”.
One of the previous posters mentioned “his brother lot’s son”, and claimed there is no word for cousin in Greek. That’s not strictly true, but it’s close. And if you look you’ll see another poster mention that Lot isn’t Abraham’s direct brother. There is a problem, then, in calling Lot Abraham’s nephew – and likewise it brings into question the incestuousness of Abraham marrying Sarai, his “niece”. Considering Genesis is part of the “Law”, or Torah, forbidding incest – the scribes or lawyers would have had to pay close attention to conflicting passages since people could argue for incest in certain circumstances if misinterpreted. (eg: King Herod with
Herodias) The exact meaning, then, of these relationships is a problem in English.
Joseph isn’t explicitly mentioned in the passages referring to the event, except for one, Luke 4:22. And the names of the children, or Josephs profession are
not mentioned in Luke, but it only says, “son”, as in :
“isn’t son he-is of Joseph being?”. (Yoda word order…matching the Greek…)
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Notice, in Matthew that incestuous Herod is mentioned immediately after this passage; and that quite possibly some of the people in the synagogue knew that Mary was pregnant before she had come to live with Joseph. (People do count the months of pregnancy…)
The negative of the question suggests that they are beginning to ask, is this really Joseph’s son?
There is another hint in Matthew 6:4 where Jesus uses the word “kinsmen” to answer them. Kinsmen is not used for close relatives, in general; It is a word that has a mildly dirty connotation, but refers to the fact that even if you don’t like someone in the family – they are family. It can very easily mean “cousin” and is
the reason I avoid saying that Greek doesn’t have a word for cousin. (There’s nothing quite like being contradicted by the very sentence after the one being discussed…)
Luke is the most Greek of the writers, being of Gentile origin, and it is only Luke who specifically mentions Joseph. Although Luke is the only one to mention Joseph, notice he
doesn’t mention Joseph’s trade. It wasn’t important to the argument going on, and is even a bit avant garde that the other gospels do seem to mention it; if we say “archtect” it captures the technical skill and prowess of the person involved, whereas if we say “carpenter”, it is a much lower ranking. Neither of the other Gospels clarifies this by reducing the standard of “teknOn” to wood craft – and in a sentence talking about someone’s lowly standing that is odd.

a little hyperbole:
…Is this not the architect’s son, …
…the stone which the builders rejected has become the corner stone…
There is an allusion to the fact that those who rule Israel are known as the builders. And it is in this passage that Jesus is expelled from the “Synagogue”, a place of local rule where the people are “lead-together-with”.
Even on synagogues today, you will see them labeled “Beth Israel” literally meaning – House of Israel. They are foremost, family and tribe.
I’ve got to stop now for a bit, but I’ll post again later and take a look at the two synoptic (seeing-together-with) gospels Matthew and Mark, and the specific grammar of the Greek sentences. It’s going to be technical, but I’ll do my best to be clear about what I show you.
Peace.
–Andrew.
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