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Monica37
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Just wanted to post these thoughts and see if they are shared by those who attend the EF regularly.
I went to an OF last night for a baptism. It has been a really long time since I have gone to one so I was really uncomfortable with the rubrics for the laity at first, then it kind of came back to me (for the most part). But I still had my mind in the EF so when it came time for the petitions, I usually have a list of specific people that I pray for during both the living and the dead prayers. I found that I could not pray for all I usually pray for because the quiet time was too short. So I thought, oh well, I’ll have an opportunity to focus after Communion, but the music was so loud during and after communion, that all I wanted to do was put my hands over my ears. There was also a lot of talking around me as well.
Now, I know that my preference is clearly a mass that has more quiet spaces in it than one that moves from one thing into another, but I had never noticed it before I went to an EF. It seemed like a really nice parish with lots of participation, but no offense, it made me really grateful for the more contemplative, quiet mass of the EF.
I went to an OF last night for a baptism. It has been a really long time since I have gone to one so I was really uncomfortable with the rubrics for the laity at first, then it kind of came back to me (for the most part). But I still had my mind in the EF so when it came time for the petitions, I usually have a list of specific people that I pray for during both the living and the dead prayers. I found that I could not pray for all I usually pray for because the quiet time was too short. So I thought, oh well, I’ll have an opportunity to focus after Communion, but the music was so loud during and after communion, that all I wanted to do was put my hands over my ears. There was also a lot of talking around me as well.
Now, I know that my preference is clearly a mass that has more quiet spaces in it than one that moves from one thing into another, but I had never noticed it before I went to an EF. It seemed like a really nice parish with lots of participation, but no offense, it made me really grateful for the more contemplative, quiet mass of the EF.