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How do I get rid of all greed in my life? I always hear of organizations and politicians/etc. being greedy, but how do I myself get rid of it? Is it as simple as giving things away, or does it go a lot deeper?

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Greed is one of the Seven Deadly Vices (or sins), so it is deep in us, and a heavy temptation (some more than others) for all of us. So prayer, confession, and acts of penance are ways to battle it. If you need a more specific answer for your personal greed, ask a spiritual director. Spiritual directors are amazingly helpful.
 
Read these passages carefully(even if you’ve read it before) -

*"But Jesus, calling them together, said: Suffer children to come to me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God. Amen, I say to you: Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a child, shall not enter into it. And a certain ruler asked him, saying: Good master, what shall I do to possess everlasting life? And Jesus said to him: Why dost thou call me good? None is good but God alone. Thou knowest the commandments: Thou shalt not kill: Thou shalt not commit adultery: Thou shalt not steal: Thou shalt not bear false witness: Honour thy father and mother.

Who said: All these things have I kept from my youth. Which when Jesus had heard, he said to him: Yet one thing is wanting to thee: sell all whatever thou hast, and give to the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come, follow me. He having heard these things, became sorrowful; for he was very rich. And Jesus seeing him become sorrowful, said: How hardly shall they that have riches enter into the kingdom of God. For it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God.

And they that heard it, said: Who then can be saved? He said to them: The things that are impossible with men, are possible with God."* Luke 18:16-27

Jesus here is not speaking of those who have actual riches such as money, but instead He refers to those who have those things in their hearts, who’s hearts and affections are set on the things of this world, that’s why they asked Him “Who then can be saved?” because both the rich and poor held worldly riches in their hearts,

i don’t know if this is exactly what you are asking, but you asked if it goes alot deeper, and i would say yes, it’s not just a matter of what we possess, but what we are attached to, or more specifically, the things we are unwilling to give up or sacrifice for God, but the way to fight that and detach ourselves from an inordinate attachment to creatures and things, is to remind ourselves who gives to us in the first place, absolutely nothing we have is truly ours, but was given to us by God, and belongs to Him.
it also helps to meditate on the poverty of Christ, who willingly deprived Himself of every comfort and possession, so that He would have room only for us, from the time of His birth to His death…and we should likewise make room for Christ in our hearts this way, not by getting rid of what we possess outside ourselves, since we do need certain things according to our state in life, but we should empty our hearts, of all sin and attachment to things and creatures, so that God can rest inside our hearts completely.
and of course prayer will help you, and practicing the virtues, especially generosity both exteriorly and interiorly, being generous with your time, kindness, etc, but also having temperance(not overdoing or under-doing it)
there is one prayer in particular i like to pray called “Prayer for Detachment From Earthly Goods”
O Jesus, Who didst choose a life of poverty and obscurity, grant me the grace to keep my heart detached from the transitory things of this world, Be Thou infinitely more precious than all other possessions. My heart is too solicitous for the vain and fleeting things of earth. Make me always mindful of Thy warning words: “What does it profit a man if he gain the whole world, but suffer the loss of his own soul?” Grant me the grace to keep Thy holy example before my eyes, that i may despise the nothingness of this world and make Thee the object of all my desires and affections. Amen.

it’s also important to be patient with yourself, don’t lose your peace or get anxious if you don’t completely overcome a vice in one night, just do what you can, try your best, and God will see you through.

well, i’m not sure if this helps, but maybe if i knew exactly what kind of greed you struggle with i could try and give better advice.
 
Thank you, these are excellent suggestions and just what I needed to hear.
The reaso I ask is that there are a few greedy people
in my life and it made me wonder how I am greedy
and in what ways I can eliminate from my life.

I believe it’s a lifelong endeavor. Attachment to things, success,
status, money, love, attention, work, vanity-- these are things I struggle with.
 
How do I get rid of all greed in my life? I always hear of organizations and politicians/etc. being greedy, but how do I myself get rid of it? Is it as simple as giving things away, or does it go a lot deeper?
Although giving all things away would help you understand the experience of loss, there are other ways to do it. There are also ways that are not acceptable. In this day and age to even have food and shelter you need at least some amount of money. It’s not like you can produce your own food and provide your own shelter, unless you move away from civilization, which is an option but I’m assuming off the table of considerations. I mention it in case some other application by you or others would actually call for that.

So I’m saying you don’t have to give everything away. IMO that is questionable strategy because you’d just have to turn around and beg, borrow or steal to have a few necessities at least.

Here’s the issue: anything you need, controls you.

Anything you don’t need, you have free will decision whether to do it or not, without influence unfairly by your need. So that’s what you want: to have it and like it and even want it is perfectly OK, but train yourself to believe you don’t need it.

This way everything you own is by definition surplus, which is OK because Jesus said He came so that we can live our lives in abundance.

So the real issue isn’t exactly to get rid of something, but to get rid of your attachment to those things. Attachment is a need. Certainly one can get rid of both the item and the attachment to it, but these often don’t happen at the same time. So getting rid of the physical object it optional. Anything you do in your imagination, affects you spiritually just as if it actually were according to your thoughts. This is how prayer works; spirits don’t necessarily distinguish between physical and mental.

Grieving is the process of severing an attachment and dealing with the loose end of the tie that flags around annoyingly and keeps you focused on the loss. When you let go of something, even a dream or plan, there is grieving at the severance. Grieving is grieving; it’s getting over a loss, even imaginary. Expect it, and that may influence its severity or flavor.

Like you can live your whole life grieving over something you haven’t even lost yet, but might in the future. Like an IRA you’ve built up over the years that’s doing fine just now. That’s because in the spiritual world, time is not a factor so something that happens tomorrow can interfere with, or at least influence, something that happened yesterday. This is nothing new for God. Decades ago I studied the famous Double Slit Experiment in quantum physics class. For example, Jesus made use of this for benefit of His mother. When He died, He erased her original sin before she was conceived.

Greed and gluttony are a lot alike, so anything you know about one field you can try to abstract the major concepts and apply knowledge and experience with one, to the other.

Ah well I feel like I’m just prattling on …

Hope something there is useful. I wish you well in your progress. 🙂

Peace and joy,
Alan
 
I believe it’s a lifelong endeavor. Attachment to things, success,
status, money, love, attention, work, vanity-- these are things I struggle with.
Success is the one I like most. People think being “successful” is what it is all about, or perhaps serving a purpose or attaining goals as variations of the same concept. But that really isn’t it. That serves our dualistic minds that “success” equates to “worth.”

Alan
 
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