If a person goes to Mass and doesn’t want to be with people, then they’d be better to stay home.
Mass isn’t an individual exercise in spirituality, but a community involved exercise, Communion comes from the word, “community,” or “union.” with that community of believers who are in union through faith in God.
That is one point of view. I will just reiterate, not everyone wants to interact with others. We are attending a liturgy. It is not an exercise in interpersonal dynamics.
Pope Benedict XVI wrote in Spe Salvi, that salvation was never intended to be individualistic, but socialistic.
I’d be interested to read that. Souls are saved individually. I am not saved because my family or my neighbors are saved. There is, to be sure, the communion of saints, but when it comes down to it, each soul chooses God individually.
Deacons do not have consecrated hands and are ordinary ministers of the Eucharist. So this argument hold no water for me.
You are free to have a preference, but we need to throw out this tired, old argument of “only the priest’s hands are consecrated, only he can touch the Eucharist…”
Aquinas said that, not me. Aquinas is not the Church, and he is not infallible. I think even he would admit that there can be exceptions to this, but that is what they are, exceptions, not the rule. Call them whatever, ordinary or extraordinary, deacons have been, and are, allowed to handle the Eucharist, even though, as you well point out, their hands are not consecrated. They are, however, in Holy Orders.
Actually if you where unfortunate enough to think the whole whole Catholic church was an ice cold “Everyone to themsleves” sort of affair (after a lifetime of being lapsed or an Atheist) and it was your first time ever at a Catholic mass.
How would you feel then?
It’s not always about what “I want” sometimes friend, and there are way more serious things we need to contend with. Comparing this with TLM protocol is rather “stretching” the point it seems.
It’s interesting that you bring this up, because when I first encountered the Catholic world, I
did find it puzzling that everyone seemed so absorbed in themselves within the liturgy. Then I came to understand precisely what goes on in the Mass (the Real Presence), and how that Catholics are often engaged in an intensely individualistic, personal relationship with Our Lord, and it all made sense.
I find your “I want” comment puzzling as well. Am I hearing you say that regardless of how much we may want to be alone with our thoughts and our spiritual journey, the liturgy is a community affair and we have to come to it as “part of a great big group”, not just ourselves? That it is so important to make people feel welcome, that the liturgy needs to be interrupted so that the priest can say “hello everyone”? Or something else?