Grounds for annulment

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Is it moral to use grounds based on oneself when applying for nullification? If you say it is, please cite a moral teaching from the Church that agrees with you, if you can. I have found two sources which say it is not. One is the old canon law of 1917 and the other is www.newadvent.org, under divorce.
 
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pianoplayingmom:
Is it moral to use grounds based on oneself when applying for nullification? .
I am not sure what you mean by grounds based on oneself?
However, it is my personal opinion that the grounds for annulment have been weakened to such an extent that just about any marriage can be annulled. According to the following site
divorcehelp.net/annulment.html
“**A spouse’s extramarital affair(s), …, etc. serve to demonstrate that the spouse exhibits an antisocial personality which would prevent him/her from fully understanding or carrying out the obligations of a lifelong relationship and therefore evidence that the spouse lacked the due competence required to form a sacramental marriage” **
"Many people believe that virtually any failed marriage can be annulled on the basis of incapacity and immaturity."
 
How about a girl who was pressured into marriage by her parents when she was only 17 or 18 because she became pregnant.

She really didn’t want to marry, but due to the influence of her parents, her being young, etc.
 
A description of the old canon law rule can be found in chapter III of Nullity of Marriage by Frank J. Sheed:
RESTRICTION ON THE GUILTY
We have just noted the statement of Pope Pius XII that an ecclesiastical tribunal has no right or power to demand more than moral certainty of the invalidity of a marriage; and we have noted the reason he gives–namely that those whose union is not in fact a marriage are entitled by natural law to marry. But the Church treats one class of people as having laid themselves open to being denied this natural right. The party who was the guilty cause of the alleged nullity of a marriage cannot petition for a declaration of its nullity.[5]
Thus he is in a curious position: he may be unmarried, but he is debarred from establishing the fact in the eyes of the Church, and so cannot contract a valid marriage. In other words, to have guiltily impeded one’s first marriage is like a kind of diriment impediment, not directly invalidating one’s second marriage, but preventing the declaration of the nullity of the first, so that the second cannot take place. This is the price a person must pay, the penalty inflicted upon him by the Church, for his wrongdoing in the contracting of the first union. The regulation is intended also to safeguard, as far as is possible, the rights of the wronged party to the union.
Note that this restriction applies only to one who was the guilty cause of the impediment or other ground of nullity; one who did not know he was acting wrongly would not be affected.
So the guilty party cannot himself petition for nullity. But he may place the facts before an official of the diocese called the Promoter of Justice. And it is open to this official to challenge the validity of the marriage himself.
  • [5]. Sacred Congregation of the Sacraments, “Provida Mater Ecclesia,” 15 August 1936, “Acta Apostolicae Sedis,” pp. 28- 313.
This rule was lifted by the American Procedural Norms (APN), which went into effect in the U.S. in 1970. The 1983 Code of Canon Law incorporated this aspect of the APN, as well as many others.

The article Annulments in America: Keeping Bad News in Context by Dr. Edward N. Peters discusses the effect of the APN changes on the number of annulments:
Other procedural changes included allowing a single judge to hear a case instead of requiring three judges to hear each petition, and eliminating caps on the number of qualified judges allowed to serve in a diocese; eliminating restrictions which prevented “guilty” spouses from seeking annulments, and allowing non-Catholics to file cases in diocesan tribunals; eliminating several of the more archaic regulations on the types of evidence allowed and the numbers of witnesses needed in nullity cases; and imposing new, or shortening old, time limits for the speedier treatment of marriage cases. Each of these Roman changes in procedural canon law has indisputably contributed to the dramatic increase in declarations of marriage nullity.
 
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Catholic2003:
A description of the old canon law rule can be found in chapter III of Nullity of Marriage by Frank J. Sheed:

This rule was lifted by the American Procedural Norms (APN), which went into effect in the U.S. in 1970. The 1983 Code of Canon Law incorporated this aspect of the APN, as well as many others.

The article Annulments in America: Keeping Bad News in Context by Dr. Edward N. Peters discusses the effect of the APN changes on the number of annulments:
Yes, but…does this mean that it is now moral for the “guilty party” to petition for an annulment when it wasn’t moral before, according to the old canon law? Can morality truly change when canon law changes? Thes are really the questions I have. A friend is giving me the boot because he believes strongly that my application for an annulment, in part based on my “guilt”, is morally wrong and has declared me unsafe to be around. I have not been able to prove through binding Catholic teaching that I am correct in this. I have moral certitude that my marriage is invalid, due to both of us, not just me, and I think that will be proven through my witnesses’ testimony. I do not see how my petition is immoral.
 
  1. Just because something is against canon law does not mean it is immoral. Ordaining married priests would be a good example to demonstrate this principle.
  2. We have a moral obligation to obey canon law. That’s the only “immorality” conceivable in this situation. Canon law NOW states that the “guilty” party CAN apply for an annulment.
  3. Unless your friend is on the diocese’s marriage tribunal and is assigned to judge your case, he has no business or competence to second guess the Church in this matter.
These are, I believe the relevant facts.
 
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pianoplayingmom:
Yes, but…does this mean that it is now moral for the “guilty party” to petition for an annulment when it wasn’t moral before, according to the old canon law? Can morality truly change when canon law changes? Thes are really the questions I have. A friend is giving me the boot because he believes strongly that my application for an annulment, in part based on my “guilt”, is morally wrong and has declared me unsafe to be around. I have not been able to prove through binding Catholic teaching that I am correct in this. I have moral certitude that my marriage is invalid, due to both of us, not just me, and I think that will be proven through my witnesses’ testimony. I do not see how my petition is immoral.
Your friend’s argument is so off-the-wall that I can’t think of any official source that directly refutes it. Maybe Deacon John Cameron will see this and help.

There are some people who claim that altar girls are immoral even though the canon law changed to allow females to serve at the altar. There are other people who claim that communion in the hand is immoral, even though the Pope approved an indult to allow this as well. Your friend’s argument is along this line. However, the Church does not and will not ever approve of immoral acts.

Even when this procedural rule was in force, it was in some sense a technicality, as the last sentence of my Sheed quote indicates (and the link goes on to discuss in detail). Instead of the “guilty” party filing for the annulment, is was the Promoter of Justice who filed the case.

Is your husband/ex-husband opposed to the annulment? If not, then this entire discussion is moot, as the purpose of the old rule was to allow the “innocent” party to prevent the “guilty” party from remarrying in the Church. (You may recall hearing of things way back when like, “His wife wouldn’t give him an annulment,” referring to this rule.)
 
My husband is not against the annulment. He couldn’t care less. He figures, now that we are civilly divorced, we are no longer married and what I do, from here on out, regarding any Church matter, is my problem/concern.

Thank you for helping me with this. If someone would post here a binding moral teaching on this matter of guilt vs. right to applying for annulment, I’d be most grateful. I’m being kept awake at night, worrying about this.
 
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pianoplayingmom:
Yes, but…does this mean that it is now moral for the “guilty party” to petition for an annulment when it wasn’t moral before, according to the old canon law? Can morality truly change when canon law changes?
It is not a matter of “moral” versus “immoral”. It is only a matter of “allowed” or “not allowed” by Canon Law. Canon Law has changed MANY times throughout the history of the church. It is the legal system of the Church. It is not a matter of doctrine or morals.
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pianoplayingmom:
A friend is giving me the boot because he believes strongly that my application for an annulment, in part based on my “guilt”, is morally wrong and has declared me unsafe to be around.
With friends like this who needs enemies? This “friend” is mistaken. The documents previously provided CLEARLY indicate that Canon Law was changed.
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pianoplayingmom:
I have not been able to prove through binding Catholic teaching that I am correct in this. I have moral certitude that my marriage is invalid, due to both of us, not just me, and I think that will be proven through my witnesses’ testimony. I do not see how my petition is immoral.
It is not. The previously provided documents are clear on this. ALSO, if it were against Canon Law then the Tribunal would not have accepted your petition.

Be at peace, you have done nothing wrong. The burden of proof is on your friend. Tell this “friend” to provide you with a document stating that this is against Canon Law-- and the document cannot be prior to 1983, the year Canon Law was most recently updated.
 
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1ke:
Be at peace, you have done nothing wrong. The burden of proof is on your friend. Tell this “friend” to provide you with a document stating that this is against Canon Law-- and the document cannot be prior to 1983, the year Canon Law was most recently updated.
Thank you for your words. Unfortunately, my friend doesn’t trust anything after Vatican II.
I’m wondering if maybe I need to find new friends. :hmmm::yup:
 
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pianoplayingmom:
Thank you for your words. Unfortunately, my friend doesn’t trust anything after Vatican II.
I’m wondering if maybe I need to find new friends. :hmmm::yup:
AH HA. Here is the problem. Your friend is not in union with the Church if he rejects the 1983 Code of Canon Law, Vatican II, or Magesterial documents after 1965.

Yes, you need new friends, not ones that put Pharisitical burdens on you. This person has problems, don’t get sucked in to any of this “anti Vatican II” nonsense.
 
If someone would post here a binding moral teaching on this matter of guilt vs. right to applying for annulment, I’d be most grateful.
I can tell you how the legitimate law of the Catholic Church views it.

The 1917 code was abrogated and the American Procedural Norms were extinguished when the 1983 code was promulgated by the supreme authority of the Church, namely the Roman Pontiff, and not your friend. The Roman Pontiff, also known as the Supreme Pontiff, has chosen to state as law, that either party may ask for his or her marriage to be examined for invalidity. As some of us may recall, this same pontiff is the Vicar of Christ on earth, and his laws and teaching may be safely followed by the faithful. We who are in full communion with him observe his laws.

The new code places no requirement placed on the petitioning party in terms of guilt or innocence. It has completed re- ordered the entire question of who may petition for a decree of nullity. According to the norms of canon 10, this formally revokes the prior restrictions. The former law, through canon 1971 §1 and a number of decisions of the Committee for the Interpretation of the Code from the 1920s-40s, prevented non Catholics and those who caused the nullity from acting as petitioners. It prevented adulterers — but not the innocent party — from suing for canonical separation, which is not the same as a suit to determine the nullity of marriage.

As canon 1058 says, “All persons who are not prohibited by law can contract marriage.” This is considered to be a right which arises from divine law.

The question then becomes whether or not the prior marriage existed as a valid marriage so that it would prevent a subsequent marriage.

To this end, a member of the Christian faithful has the right to know whether or not that marriage was valid. We have a natural right to know our status in the Church, because we must know it in order to know our rights and duties and then exercise them. For example, with only limited exceptions, married people have the duty to persevere in conjugal living. If a marriage was not a valid one, though, the parties do not have that obligation.

Consequently they have the right to ask a competent Church court to determine that. Canon 221 thus reads in part, “§1. The Christian faithful can legitimately vindicate and defend the rights which they possess in the Church in the competent ecclesiastical forum according to the norm of law.”

Therefore, canon 1674 presents the right to challenge a marriage, “The following are qualified to challenge [impugnandum] a marriage: 1º the spouses; 2º the promotor of justice when nullity has already become public, if the convalidation of the marriage is not possible or expedient.” This acknowledges the essential dignity of the human person, just as canon 1476 does, which permits the non baptized to bring a cause to trial.
A friend is giving me the boot because he believes strongly that my application for an annulment, in part based on my “guilt”, is morally wrong and has declared me unsafe to be around. I have not been able to prove through binding Catholic teaching that I am correct in this. I have moral certitude that my marriage is invalid, due to both of us, not just me, and I think that will be proven through my witnesses’ testimony. I do not see how my petition is immoral.
I do not see that it is immoral to exercise a divine right to seek justice in the Church. This person seems to be more rigorous than the Church, in which the supreme law is the salvation of souls (canon 1752).

The reasons for the invalidity of a marriage are not based on questions of moral guilt. If they were, the Church would view adultery as a reason for declaring a marriage invalid, and it never has, nor will it. In a nullity case, the tribunal will sift the true difference between failures in the moral realm and the causes for nullity which are recognized in law.
 
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mjdonnelly:
How about a girl who was pressured into marriage by her parents when she was only 17 or 18 because she became pregnant.

She really didn’t want to marry, but due to the influence of her parents, her being young, etc.
Pregnancy before marriage is a vaild issue in annunlment, because it tends to show the marriage was not wholly voluntary.
 
Thank you all for the information you have shared here. It is helping tremendously. The truth shall set us free!
 
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