From the diocese:
Did either you or your former spouse have extremely little or no dating experience before becoming engaged? Were either of you on the “rebound” from a broken engagement or previous marriage when you decided to enter this marriage? Did you see marriage as simply “the next step” without much consideration? Did the two of you date for only a brief time? Was the decision to marry made impulsively, or without much thought? Did either of you make immature and impulsive decisions in other areas of life (career, finances, etc.)? Would you say you really did not know one another well enough to marry when you did? Was your decision to marry based on some pressing issue or circumstance (for example, a pre-marital pregnancy, difficult home situation, peer pressure, escape from another relationship)? Did family or friends express serious concerns about this marriage and did you choose to ignore them?
If I said yes to these, and the Tribunal said, “Oh, there ya go, It wasn’t a Sacrament” I would take it to Rome for sure!
This is crazy! Don’t you think @JulianN or @(name removed by moderator)?
If Jesus showed this list of questions to His disciples when they said, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is not expedient to marry” instead of His actual reply, I think they would have said, “Oh, ok… no worries!”