Perhaps this is a poor choice of words on your part, but how is “prefer[ing] to live in Candyland” delusional? You prefer to live in the dark reality we live in? You prefer the violence in the streets, the wars, et al.? Call me delusional but I prefer to live in peace.
We should live in the reality of the Light of The World, Jesus Christ.
We should live in the Kingdom of God, but be
fully aware that this Kingdom is currently physically located on Planet Earth, which is the domain of the Prince of the Power of the Air, Satan himself. To lose awareness of this fact, or to deny this fact, is folly.
Even though it is tempting and desirable, we should not try to create a “fortress” on this earth in which we remain constantly and NEVER venture out into the world.
There are Christians who do this. At one of the Protestant fellowships in our city, it is totally possible to be born, live in the nursery and pre-school, then the grade school, middle school, and high school, then graduate and go to the college, then work in the church, and then retire into the nursing home. Theoretically a person in this fellowship would never need to experience ANYTHING out in the “world.”
But this is not what Jesus intended for his disciples. He sent them OUT into the world to be salt and light. Jesus said “I am the Light of the World.” But later on, he tells his disciples, “YOU are the light of the world.”
We are Christ’s Body, and He doesn’t remain in hiding.
I Thessalonians 5: 5 & 6 says “For you are all sons of light and sons of day.
We are not of night or of darkness, so then let us not sleep as others do, but let us be alert and sober.”
Italics are mine. The Bible is full of analogies of light vs. dark, and it is clear that Christians are of the light, not of the darkness. This verse says it clearly.
What does this actually mean for real people? We should live totally in the light of Jesus Christ and we ourselves should not participate in those things that belong to the dark.
But we should ILLUMINE darkness. In order to do that, we have to go into the dark places, learn about the lives of the people who live there, grow to love the people who are trapped or lost in the dark, and light the way for them to cross over into the light.
Acts 26: 17 & 18 says, “…the Gentiles, to whom I am sending you, to open their eyes so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the dominion of Satan to God, in order that they may receive forgiveness of sins and an inheritance among those who have been sanctified by faith in Me.”
Romans 2: 19 “…are confident that you yourself are a guide to the blind, a light to those who are in the darkness.”
Ephesians 5: 11 “And do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them.” (Read on in this chapter about darkness and light).
Of course this has to be balanced with passages like II Corinthians 6: 14–"Do not be bound together with unbelievers, for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?
I think this passage refers to an actual partnership, not just friendship, between light and darkness. We have to discern the difference. It’s one thing to go see Rocky Horror Picture Show and have a good time with your pals throwing rice and cards. It’s another thing to get involved with or voice support for the lifestyles that are advocated by the show, or to get caught up with the show to the point where your home decor, your wardrobe, your music, etc. are dominated by dark, goth decor that does not present a message of the Light of the World.
A lot of Christians refuse to have ANYTHING whatsoever to do with darkness. They won’t venture out of the safety of the fortress that they have created. I think this is wrong.
I think it is deadly to raise children with no awareness of the darknes that surrounds them. They must be armed and taught the proper way to live as Children of the Light in a dark and dangerous world. A lot of Christian parents mean well as they attempt to hide all the darkness from their children. But all too often, this strategy backfires when the child has their first experience confronting darkness. They are defeated soundly because they have no armor. Or sometimes, the child is drawn to the Beauty of Darkness (“the Music of the Night,” as it is called by the Phantom), and crosses over totally into the Dark Side and we lose them.
As I said, we need to live in reality, not in a sweet fantasyland that doesn’t exist.
Perhaps the issue that Lost Wanderer is dealing with is one that all of us struggle with. What is the balance? How can we be “in the world but not of the world?”
Is it OK to watch football and to laugh at those baudy ads featuring well-endowed young women (and terribly handsome men!)?
Is it OK to enjoy secular rock music?
Is it OK to read the local newspaper? (I know fundamentalist Christians who do NOT bring the newspaper into their homes because it contains a horoscope.)
Is Halloween OK?
Is it OK to drink alcohol? (I say absolutely not, but I know that many Catholics disagree with me on that issue!)
These are all practical daily questions that Christians struggle with.
I think that the question we need to ask ourselves is, “Are we illuminating darkness with the Light of Jesus , or are we part of darkness?” And possibly we need to ask a third question–“How can I illuminate darkness if I refuse to go there?”