Of course. I am certainly not talking about pacifism.
What I am pointing out is the type of relationship we must have with our fellow brothers and sisters. It must be with acceptance of the fact that everyone is our brother and sister in Christ. That is why we do not carry a gun around. Just as we do not fear our brother or sister harming us, we do not fear the spiritual brothers and sisters in Christ. In fact, this is the essence of Christianity. Our life is a strife to get ourselves to love everyone as brothers and sisters in Christ.
Does that mean Pacifism? No. Those in authority will have to step in and discipline the flock. So in the case of the Church, God has given this authority to the Church. In the case of the law, God has given this authority to those who we have elected as leaders. They have a moral duty to maintain the law just as the church has a duty to maintain Christ’s teachings and laws.
But of course, when things go wrong, when authority is corrupt, when there is war, THAT IS CERTAINLY the TIME to bear arms. BUT, we are not yet in such a time and place, correct? And that is certainly not the type of situation that you are addressing either if I understand you correctly.
God Bless