Guy lingo?

[Anglewannabe]

Getting dolled up can be a lot of work for a woman, .

When I first read this I was offended. But then I had to chuckle, I have never spent more than 15 minutes getting ready for a date and received a lot of compliments so I guess I will let that one go to my head

 

[Anglewannabe]

Guys flirt and don’t have feeling for the woman?

I am a women and I have flirted with men I didn’t like. I just thought they were fun to flirt with. Usually it is a joke, unfortunately though sometimes it wasn’t to them

 

[Anglewannabe]

So, I’m guessing most guys don’t just come out and tell a woman they like her. Unless they do? Do y’all say certain things to get a girl to get a hint? If a guy were to say a woman is pretty for instance, I would naturally think he is doping a hint but can it be said in a platonic manner? I’m totally clueless

There is no hard and fast rule since it depends a lot on the man, the culture he was from and the chemistry between the 2 people. I have flirted differently with different men because I sensed certain things would go over better and others wouldn’t.

Cultural influence in my opinion is a big one. I am Caucasian and lived in Mexico for a summer. Every time I got into a taxi, the second thing the driver said me was ‘Where are you going?’. The first thing was always 'you have beautiful eyes

 

[Mr_Friscus]

So, I’m guessing most guys don’t just come out and tell a woman they like her. Unless they do? Do y’all say certain things to get a girl to get a hint? If a guy were to say a woman is pretty for instance, I would naturally think he is doping a hint but can it be said in a platonic manner? I’m totally clueless

A guy coming out and stating “I like you” is a horrible way to go about it.

• It degrades the man. How would he know he liked you? You haven’t even talked yet.
• It suggests desperation and low self-confidence. There’s a pace to getting to know someone, and giant jumps by men are simply because of their inner shortcomings.

 

[on_the_hill]

What does this mean? Guys flirt and don’t have feeling for the woman? I know from my view, I would never flirt on purpose unless I had at least some feelings for a guy.

In a way, it’s a game.

 

[pensmama87]

In a way, it’s a game.

Or throwing a bunch of spaghetti at the wall to see if hopefully one piece sticks.