He often does not rinse or clean any of the vessels used during the celebration of the Eucharist - I am not sure if this is ok, nor do I know what he may do after mass.
It is permitted for the priest to wait until after Mass to purify the sacred vessels. (GIRM 163)
He wings the Penitential Rite, all of it, never reads just wings it. He also normally wings the Opening Prayer. He also wings the General Intercessions.
If by “wings it”, you mean he makes up his own, that is certainly not allowed for the Opening Prayer. How does he “wing” the Penitential Rite? Does he come up with his own invocations which precede “Lord have mercy / Christ have mercy / Lord have mercy”? If so, that is allowed (assuming he doesn’t make up non-Catholic things!). The General Intercessions are also free-form, although they should adhere to a general structure: “For the needs of the Church; For public authorities and the salvation of the whole world; For those burdened by any kind of difficulty; For the local community.” (GIRM 70)
During the Eucharistic Prayer he always adds “May the Body and Blood of Christ allow us to more and more embody Him in our time and space.” I am careful to hear what he says during the Consecration, and he actually normally reads it. During this particular mass he did not put water into both chalices, and lifts the chalice and host during the consecration, but not after the consecration, he just keeps them at the same height.
Priests are not permitted to alter the words of the Eucharistic Prayer (or the Mass in general, really). While he has good sentiments, he is adding catechetical glosses to prayers instead of simply catechizing the faithful at the proper times. Some priests feel the need to make the Mass more relevant with additions based on the readings of the day, etc., instead of using the homily (or other things outside of Mass).
He needn’t put water in
all chalices, just the principal one.
He should elevate the Host after its consecration, and the Chalice as well. Could you explain more clearly what he did or didn’t do?
Lastly, this priest normally changes minor words or the order of words during the Gospel reading.
It may be that he is just not reading carefully.
This week he stopped [early] … Not the approved short form, just decided to stop there, where he wanted to stop.
That’s not his choice to make.
But this week, for the first time we had the added feature of an acoustic guitar. Not only that but our organ which we bought a few years back, for tens or thousands of dollars, was also replaced with an electric keyboard.
I am sorry to hear about your parish’s change in music. It is unfortunate.
This new choir also went on to change the form of the Great Amen and Holy, Holy so much so that I couldn’t participate
Those parts of the Mass are meant to be ones in which the
whole congregation (not just the choir) participates in.
The Agnus Dei was so different I had never heard anything like it, the last “Lamb of God” was replaced with “Jesus Christ”.
Changing the words of the
Lamb of God is not permitted.
Am I just more concerned about how I want mass to be and should be more concerned with worshiping God?
It’s not about how
I want Mass to be celebrated, or how
you want Mass to be celebrated, or even how
the priest wants Mass to be celebrated. It’s about how
the Church wants Mass to be celebrated:
t is the right of all of Christ’s faithful that the Liturgy, and in particular the celebration of Holy Mass, should truly be as the Church wishes, according to her stipulations as prescribed in the liturgical books and in the other laws and norms. Likewise, the Catholic people have the right that the Sacrifice of the Holy Mass should be celebrated for them in an integral manner, according to the entire doctrine of the Church’s Magisterium. Finally, it is the Catholic community’s right that the celebration of the Most Holy Eucharist should be carried out for it in such a manner that it truly stands out as a sacrament of unity, to the exclusion of all blemishes and actions that might engender divisions and factions in the Church.
You have certain liturgical rights which should be respected by all in the Church.