Good suggestions. Could you also begin to view this time of year a little differently, more from a Catholic perspective? Around that time, we have All Saints’ Day and All Souls’ Day.
In Mexico, we have “Day of the Dead”. I once went to Oaxaca for that. In Oaxaca, “Day of the Dead” is huge. People pray for deceased friends and relatives. Now, they did a lot of other things, too. They generally celebrate a mass, sometimes even at midnight, believe it or not! Some of the customs I like, some I don’t. I think we also had …was it hot chocolate and bread? I forget exactly.
What I like is that they honor their dead. People will often set wreaths, candles, pictures, religious pictures and more at the graveyard. They will remember their deceased ancestors. Some of it comes from WAY WAY back, where people believed the dead came back to receive offerings, food, flowers, etc.
I’d say most families here seem to participate in this and remember their dead, at least once a year, if not more often.
I remember once I wanted to go to indian territory for their midnight mass but felt too tired. I would have also needed a cab. It was a lot of things, so I never did go.
Can you find some other outlet for these energies, a positive, Catholic one?
For example, you could pray for the departed souls. A lot of parishes have efforts also the entire month of November! I remember for November, we could write lists of departed souls. We’d stack them up and pray for them every day of the month of November in some parishes.
You, possibly more than many others, are away of the need for spiritual warfare against all this negative, evil activity. Why not turn your energies to fight it?!
Why not find some really powerful prayers that counteract this? You could also use a lot of sacramentals…wear a scapular, keep holy water at the house and use it frequently, wear a St. Benedict medal, say, and memorize that prayer. He used to be an exorcist!
There’s also the prayer of St. Michael, the Archangel, and the rosary. Anyway, I am so glad you recognize what’s happening and are fighting it. Best of luck, and God bless you!