I remember celebrating both Halloween and All Souls/Saints Day as a child in a R/C school, and at home.
At present, Halloween for me (as a non-Catholic) is slightly linked to a sacred celebration called Samhain, but it does not equal Halloween. These are two different observations held at the same time of year. I ask that you please indulge me while I provide some information, so you can understand what I am saying.
Samhain is a spiritual/religious holy-day, and Halloween is a secular holiday – not the same thing, although the word holiday comes from the term holy-day. Some members of the Pagan community feel that Halloween itself is tacky, and that it trivializes Samhain. Personally, I do not think that the solemnity of Samhain is diminished by the fun of Halloween. Depending on the individual spiritual path followed by any particular branch of Paganism/Wicca, there are different ways to celebrate Samhain; however, typically we focus on honoring our ancestors, and/or acknowledging the cycle of death and rebirth in nature, similar to what is done by Mexican folk who follow the custom of El Día de los Muertos — the Day of the Dead (Oct. 31 - Nov. 2).
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Day_of_the_Dead
During that time, families create altars in their homes to “welcome” spirits of departed relatives. Vigils are held, and families often go to cemeteries to decorate and perform maintenance on the graves of deceased family members, leaving for them “gifts” of food, drink and possessions.
All of this is very similar to that which we Pagans do in memory of those who have gone before us. We respect death as a natural part of life. steps up on soap-box We do not worship “the dark side” and wish that Hollywood would stop lumping us in with “goths” and Satanists and demons and vampires (etc.). steps down from soap box
Halloween is about “scary stuff” –
Samhain is about remembrance and respect.
Now that you know the difference between the holy-day of Samhain and Halloween… I would like to provide you with some very relevant quotes/links for you in relation to Catholicism and Halloween.
Father Augustine Thompson, O.P., an associate professor of religious studies at the University of Virginia, wrote an article for Catholic Parent Magazine (2000), entitled Surprise: Halloween’s Not a Pagan Festival After All, excerpts and link which follow here:
“We’ve all heard the allegations: Halloween is a pagan rite dating back to some pre-Christian festival among the Celtic Druids that escaped church suppression. Even today modern pagans and witches continue to celebrate this ancient festival. If you let your kids go trick-or-treating, they will be worshiping the devil and pagan gods.”
“Nothing could be further from the truth. The origins of Halloween are, in fact, very Christian and rather American. Halloween falls on October 31 because of a pope, and its observances are the result of medieval Catholic piety.”
“The next time someone claims that Halloween is a cruel trick to lure your children into devil worship, I suggest you tell them the real origin of All Hallows Even, and invite them to discover its Christian significance, along with the two greater and more important Catholic festivals that follow it.”
beliefnet.com/Faiths/Catholic/2000/10/Surprise-Halloweens-Not-A-Pagan-Festivalafter-All.aspx
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…A blog containing a thought-provoking article (in CCM Magazine) by John Fischer (excerpt and link below):
“Not to diminish the reality of spiritual warfare–something to be taken seriously by all believers–but the last day of October is not a spiritual battle any more than any other day. If Satan comes out on Halloween, he doesn’t go back into hiding the next morning. Whether the origins of Halloween are pagan or otherwise, what we have today is a culture-wide event that glorifies pretending more than the underworld. It’s actually one holiday that adults haven’t taken over–the one time kids get to “be” whatever they want to be. Our participation–or lack thereof–in such a popular, cultural event is only indicative of our ability to have a good time with silliness, not a measure of our standing in a fight between good and evil. If Satan wins anything on this day, he may win more through the darkened homes of Christians than anything else.
The truth is, Christians never have anything to fear–on this night or any other–or God is not God and His promises are not true. What we should be concerned about is a retreat from our homes, when, more than any other time, it’s important to be there with our lights on and a bowl full of treats near the door. If there is a darkness on Halloween night, I, for one, am going to at least make sure that it will not be on my block, at my house."
crockerchronicle.blogspot.com/2006/10/repost-halloween-trick-or-treat.html