All deacon takes a vow of celebacy. An unmarried candidate for the permanent diaconate takes the vow of celebacy and can not marry after ordination. A married candidate for the permanent diaconate takes the vow of conditional celebacy. This vow is “conditional” on the death of a permanent deacon’s spouse. If the married permanent deacon’s wife should preceed him in death, he is restricted from remarrying again.
If upon the death of his spouse and the lack of a committment to his children (those that might be dependent on him - normally under the age of consent), a widower permanent deacon can petition his bishop and seek permission to continue on to priestly ordination. This rare and is the
exception rather than a rule.
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All deacons DO NOT take a vow of celibacy. Only unmarried deacons make a promise to remain celibate.
Two distinctions here:
ONE:
- A vow and a promise are not the same thing - vows are taken by consecrated men and women (brothers, sisters, and priest of religious orders).
- Promises are taken by diocesan clerics (deacons & priests). They are similiar to vows, but not the same thing canonically.
TWO:
- Only unmarried deacons make a promise of celibacy, meaning they will not marry. The promise is not administered to married candidates. I was ordained in November (with the revised ordination rite) and one of my nine classmates was widowed. Only he made the promise of celibacy.
I assume “DIT” means “deacon-in-training.” How far along are you in your studies? How is it going?
We are blessed here in the Archdiocese of Omaha to have 180 deacons, nearly as many as we have priests. In a couple of months we will ordain 17 more (largest class ever), which will be our 28th class overall!
It is quite simply the case that the pastoral needs of our people would not be met without these wonderful men to are sacramentally configured to the servanthood of Jesus Christ.
God bless all the deacons, and all those who assist them with prayer, support and encouragement!