no – a crime isn’t a hate crime just because the victim is a member of a minority. the prosecuter has to show that the crime was committed *because *the victim was a member of a group (minority or majority, either one).
if the person who attacked your wife was yelling horrible things about women or white people (i’m just assuming – is that right?) or catholics, that could very well be a hate crime. if there’s no reason to believe that she wasn’t just a random target, then it probably isn’t a hate crime. the same goes for the other woman in your hypothetical.
Sorry, but that doesn’t cut it for me. The motivations for committing the crime only come in to play when trying to prove someone guilty. Murder, theft, rape, all of these things are bad enough - DA’s should prosecute to the maximum no matter what the motivation.
The problem is this: hate crime politicize crime in general. The motivation of the crime, and the subsequent higher degree of punishment could minimize the ramifications of committing that crime against someone @ random rather than at a special group. Our government is required to protect individual rights, not the rights of groups.
If someone commits a crime against me because I am rich (I’m not, though

), is in no way more wrong than against someone who is poor (vice versa).
When a person who belongs to some social/racial group (African American, White, Homosexual, Female, etc.) and a crime is committed against them, that group is not affected in the least by that crime in relation to the victim. I don’t care how you look at it. A man or woman lying there bleeding and robbed is the one who is victimized, not the group. You can say all day long that it puts fear into the group, or that it causes shame, or misery, or what have you, that group is in no way the victim.
Laws should be weighted more heavily against the offender in all cases, rather than making crimes against this group or that more severe.
Let me go on record in saying that the idea of hate crimes and the high level of punishment are a bad idea.
One final note: labeling something a hate crime insinuates that you know the mind of the offender. How do you prove this in cases where the evidence is not so obvious? If you can’t, then how can you defend yourself if a charge of a hate crime is levied against you?
This issue is open to too much error.