Have you been hurt by your church?

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By people in charge of it, yes. The pastor of the parish/parish for most of my youth was quite the authoritarian and frankly it’s just a series of bad memories at this point. He later was found to have mismanaged money at the parish where my parents still belong to and the parish is now in debt to the tune of millions.

A priest with whom I was personally acquainted with in college (even spent an Easter day with him) was later arrested and pled guilty for his role in a kiddie porn ring.

My fiance was an organist at a church in his teenage years and we discovered only recently that the priest that ultimately fired him from that job (for very vague reasons) was later convicted for serial child molestation. My fiance also was the son of a former priest himself and their family was treated horribly and pretty much had to skip from parish to parish each weekend. It was considered so bad to “steal” a man out of the priesthood that no parish community was really willing to tolerate their presence for any length of time.

People let you down.
 
I’m putting this thread in the Non-Catholic Religions section because I want people from all faith communities to have a chance to respond.

Have any of you been hurt by your church? How has it affected your journey to heaven?
When I was in RCIA many years ago I had a Roman Catholic priest threaten to sue me in front a group of people. He also said he went to his bishop and that his bishop supported him. This bishop apparently did not believe in a concept known as due process because he never came to me to get my side of the story. Not very charitable or Christian for two Shepherds to treat one of their sheep.

I eventually withdrew from RCIA because of deep theological disagreements and have never looked back. I have forgiven them, but to this day I will never associate myself with a highly organized religion ever again. I got hurt once and I am not going to put myself in that position again.
 
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