I was wondering if you have ever assisted someone to become a Christian, and how you approached this person and helped him/her?
Thanks!
Hey water!
I am helping my SIL come back to the CC. Her mother and 3 siblings converted to the WBTS (the JWs) 13 years ago. She was 8 when this happened, so she basically was forced into it. She’s now 22, and I am helping her come back to the CC. She was disfellowshipped because she made a mistake and had a baby out of wedlock. She’s a single mom and has struggled to feed her baby and have a place to live. She’s doing good though because her baby is her motivation.
Well, now, she wants to come back to the CC. I was telling her about the many mistakes the WBTS has made in the past, I bought the book “Crisis of Conscience” by Raymond Franz, a former JW who was a member of the governing body and was one of the 144,000 who are going to heaven. He disagreed with the JWs and got out, so I have that book, told her about it, and also about the UN affiliation this organization had when they say the UN is evil. Also, I showed her the “Pillar of Fire, Pillar of Truth” tract, and gave her a little book of prayers. I am taking her to a rosary prayer session so she learns how to use a rosary, and today we’re going to Church so she can speak to a priest and confess.
I guess it was pure luck with me because she was DF’d and was a bit disappointed already w/the JWs. So I made sure I stuck my foot in between the door and helped her out by showing her the mistakes of the JWs. Maybe I did wrong by showing her the mistakes, but I also showed her the great things our Church has to offer.
Also, a big part of this was that her mother just came back to the CC as well, so now she has help from her mom and her SIL (me). Her mom’s in Mexico, so I’m the only one she can turn to here. Her 3 JW siblings live here, but don’t know we’re doing this, if they knew they’d be very angry at the 2 of us. Especially her brother because I am married to him. I’ve been going out with her this whole week and talking to her about our faith and how priests are there to help, not to humiliate as the elders do in the WBTS. We’ve been hiding what we are doing because I don’t want to argue with my DH. Maybe later on, when she’s ready to come out as a Catholic to her siblings I can come out clean as well.
But to help a soul in need I will keep it a secret as long as I have to (this is something I will have to talk to a priest about because I don’t know if it’s a sin, but I am happy to do it).
Hope this helps…