Have You Ever Discerned Or Been In A Religious Order?

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And which order was it?

I thought it would be nice to know who and how many in the CAF community discerned, or were, or still are religious.

Thanks!
 
Sure they do. 🙂. I forgot abiur lay order
Respectfully opinion only…in Jesus time was it about division. like laity existed?

Why one is asking…
I am Holy thou art to be Holy also…a call out for all to be ordained into Holiness who believe in Him?
Was never a call out for just the few to make it their life long profession, but a call out to… all… to live a way of Life of Holiness, a call out to all in serving him…in all walks in Life…for the good of all…would this be a correct way to understand what is being said here? 🤔

A house divided cannot stand…

Being One Holy Family of God, … all being called into serving him and being called into Holiness?
Even St Peter makes this a little clearer to understand as written does he not…when the people gathered around…place St Peter as being above them…St Peter said. In trembling do not bow to me, I am just a man an Elder among Elders?

Just pondering on…is all. Peace 🌹
 
All ARE called to holiness. However, there is nothing wrong with some wanting to come together to undertake a particular path to holiness.

This doesn’t make them better or divisive. They are just working together, and supporting one another.
 
All ARE called to holiness. However, there is nothing wrong with some wanting to come together to undertake a particular path to holiness.

This doesn’t make them better or divisive. They are just working together, and supporting one another.
Respectfully for one only it is not about a path, it is about becoming Holy within and throughout our journey in life, not the path we choose that makes us Holy…were all human we all sin…we all have to work hard at it every day…I am Holy thou art to be Holy also…wheat and the tares grow side my side,…no matter what path we take, would that not be true??

Lying? stealing? fornication? Idolatry? Deception ? Greed? Heartlessness?..wheat grow among the tares, will exist be found… throughout all paths in life…right?
 
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We’ll have to agree to disagree. The call to holiness looks different for everyone. While there are general guidelines that apply to everyone, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to living out that call.
 
7 years with O.F.M.

Probably the best time of my life. Of course, I was also young.
 
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Okay! In that case, I’m presently in formation as a Lay Dominican.
 
When I was 18 I joined the Columban’s and then later the Nornbertines. It wasn’t for me fast forward 15yrs got married and have two kids. But have recently joined the Secular Franciscans and become a novitiate next month.
 
I grew up in the “Kentucky Holyland”: http://www.kyholyland.org/

The monks from Gethsemani and the sisters from Nazareth sometimes came into our store. More often than not, the boys working for us were Catholic. The Sisters of Charity wore white caps with black dresses, and the Dominican sisters from Springfield wore white dresses with black veils. I don’t recall seeing any sisters in all black, which would have been the Lorettines.

There were also convents up in Louisville. One in particular always attracted my attention when we drove past. I never understood this attraction. They were Ursulines. I was attracted to one part of them, but not the other. Again, I didn’t understand just what I was attracted to.

When I turned 16, I transferred to the parochial high school. My parents had relented and let me become Catholic. I was attracted to being in front of the Blessed Sacrament. My first piece of vocation literature was the fairly large booklet from the Owensboro/Whitesville Passionists. My next-door neighbor, who was helpful in my conversion, told me of the Baltic Sisters of Charity. I wrote them and received information. She also told me of some sisters recently founded near Rome, named for Fatima. I received information from them, too. Additionally, I received information from the Farmington Hills Dominicans.

My year of practical nursing school in Louisville introduced me to the Dominican friars and the Discalced Carmelites. I also found Dehey’s book on religious orders. Forgot to mention the main reason I was in nursing school was so I could found an order that cared for priests. I also saw “Third Order of St. Dominic” on the sign outside the church. I was attracted to that.

It wasn’t until my next college that the drive to a more contemplative life was more fully revealed. I wrote more monasteries, and discovered one up the road a few hours. I had a significant other at the time, though. I became a lay Dominican while in college.

Very long story short, I discovered that the parts I had been attracted to for the other orders was the Rule of St. Augustine. When I set foot on the grounds of the Dominican monastery in Cincinnati, I knew I had missed an opportunity. (They were in the process of suppression at the time). I’ve spent the last 30 years promoting the cloistered life, and living a contemplative life while juggling Daily Duty. Now, I’m in the process of founding a new congregation.

Blessings,
Mrs Cloisters OP
Lay Dominican
http://cloisters.tripod.com/
http://cloisters.tripod.com/charity/
http://cloisters.tripod.com/holyangels/id9.html/
 
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Forgot to mention that I was queued up to enter a Visitation monastery after graduating college. My sister had need of a house sitter while the family went on vacation. One thing led to another, and the recovery of abuse memories planted me squarely into the sacrament of matrimony. Three years after graduation, I tied the knot with a gentleman reserve soldier I had known six months. Then he deployed for Gulf War I. I rusted St. Joan’s armor, and he returned on her commuted feast day.
 
Such a beautiful testimony, Clositers, no wonder you know so much and are so connected to a vast number of religious orders. Thanks for sharing your story.
 
I was in a Franciscan community for about 7 years. I went to a seminary for philosophy while discerning the priesthood. I did not know what my calling or vocation was at that time. I never took perpetual vows.
I enjoyed the contemplative life but, the community I was with did a lot of traveling. The traveling was not helping my discernment. There were other things that caused me to leave the community.
I experienced many spiritual events in my life. I could not find a spiritual mentor who could answer most of my questions. There were a couple of priests who were great mentors but, I was not getting the answers I needed for discernment. I decided to live and work in the world while looking for answers. I became aware of the Holy Spirit working in my life. I began to cooperate with the Holy Spirit involving creative and inventive abilities. This was a personal revelation that I could not imagine was possible before. The Holy Spirit taught me the creative process and I am aware of divine guidance.
 
What parts of Franciscan spirituality do you think all peoples can learn from, appreciate and in your opinion should implement in their lives? Also, if I may ask, does Franciscan spirituality have a really strong emphasis on the environment (closer connection to nature) as a way of growing one’s spiritual life/maturity/growth and ultimately towards getting closer to God.
 
Sorry I’m so late to the party, but you already know my story, JC. 😃

I entered the monastery of St Walburga in Boulder, CO, when I was 19. After just over two years there, I realized that God was calling me to life in the world, so I left.

I LOVED the cloistered contemplative life, but it wasn’t my vocation.

Eventually I got a degree in music and became a music teacher. The first time I stepped foot in an elementary music classroom, I knew I had found the work God intended me to do. This is my 22nd year of teaching music in the public schools.

I’m also a mom now, with the most amazing son! 😃💕
 
I’m feeling very drawn to the Lay Dominicans. Two of my RCIA instructors (including my Confirmation sponsor) are Lay Dominicans, and they both said they felt I’d fit in. I was initially drawn to the Lay Carmelites (I chose St. Teresa of Avila as my Confirmation saint), but realized their noble charism probably isn’t mine. I’ve been to two inquirers meetings at the Dominican House of Studies in DC, but felt I needed to revisit it when I’ve learned more about my Catholic faith. I’m praying I can fit the meetings into my crazy schedule so I can begin studying with them again.
 
Franciscan spirituslity isn’t the easiest thing to distill down, and there are a lot of conceptions and misconceptions about what it is.

First and foremost, i’d Say it’s “incarnational”, that is, an emphasis on Christ as he was when he was alive. The focus is on God incarnated. As part of that, Franciscan spirituality often looks long and hard at the crucified Christ, as he was suffering on the cross, sacrificing himself for all humankind. As Franciscans, we share in that crucifixion and suffering, in the crosses we carry, try to do so joyfully. But also, we see the face of Christ suffering on the cross in those people who are suffering all around us. In them, is Christ incarnate, in all his suffering. That’s why Franciscans are so often involved with the homeless, poor, oppressed, and marginalized. The “crucified” become The Crucified, and to gaze upon The Crucified will change you. I don’t know if it’s truly a “low Christology” as opposed opposed to a “high Christology”, as there’s both, but it’s similar…it’s incarnational, and it’s also affective, meaning heart-based.

Christ lived simply and poorly, and so st Francis tried to emulate that, because Franciscan spirituality is in a sense about trying to be as much like the incarnate Christ as possible. So followers of Franciscan spirituality try to live simply (poverty), and see the beauty of God in those things. I think “poverty” for most non-Vowed is best played out in simplicity, and minimum necessary, such as maybe choosing to drive a Honda instead of an Aston Martin, even if you work in a job that would allow you to afford such a car. It doesn’t necessarily mean you have to live poorly, but but a high-end status symbol kind of life isn’t very Franciscan.

As for the environment, Franciscan spirituality is not all about the bird bath St Francis, but St. Francis did recognize God’s hand in everything, especially creation and nature, which to the Franciscan is beauty and wonder that only God could create. He wrote a poem about it, called “Canticle of Brother Sun” or “Canticle of the Creatures”. You can tell by the language he used, that he felt a close connection to all of God’s creation, referring to “brother sun” and “sister moon”. Because it is part of God’s Creation, it deserves our care and respect. Just as our body’s are temples, so is the Earth. Again, there’s the incarnational theme of God’s hand at work in the physical world. Nature is not god to be worshipped, but is a reflection of God and heaven in the same way a masterpiece painting is a reflection of the artist. Unfortunately, most of us fail to pause long enough and gaze at the wonder of a stone and all the colors in it to really grasp the subtle beauty there. We all get busy, forget, or perhaps didn’t realize just that a piece of granite can be every bit as beautiful as the Grand Canyon. We wouldn’t destroy a Rembrandt, so we also don’t destroy the environment. And whereas environmental quality directly affects or has the potential to affect the quality of life for virtually every human being on earth, it’s worth taking seriously.
 
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