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Husbands and wives, have you ever had a date post-marriage where you pretended you were still dating? If so, how did it go?
 
Do you mean like a ‘date night,’ or pretend like you’re not married and just dating? lol:o
 
I think the pretending you’re not married and dating sounds interesting (with each other of course).
 
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Husbands and wives, have you ever had a date post-marriage where you pretended you were still dating? If so, how did it go?
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How would the date go differently? The only thing I could think of would be to go back to pre-marriage-level of physical intimacy…and that’s no fun! 👍
 
That’s precisely what I mean-- knowing you shouldn’t but want to… Wouldn’t that make it more exciting?
 
We haven’t ever gone on a date and planned on behaving liek we were still engaged…But I’d guess that what you’re describing is similar to how couples using NFP to avoid behave and feel when they do finally come together after the period of abstinence is over.

Just a thought…
 
We both belong to a gym, and in front of other people, we pretend to pick each other up. (tee hee!)

By “pick each other up” I don’t mean “lift” (that would cause a hernia). I mean “invite out for a date/good time.”

We’re both out of shape and fat, so the charade is probably not as cool as it would be if we were gorgeous and buff. But OTOH, why NOT demonstrate that fat, ordinary-looking people can lead exciting lives, too!

Of course, by now, many of the people at this gym know we’re married with children. Oh, well. It’s fun to try it around new people.
 
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